We need calm

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 11:39 am

SnoozeControl wrote:

I really wish people would just take a deep, calming breath before assuming the worst, not just with me, but with everyone else in here.

Too true - if in doubt, step back and read it again five minutes later.

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 11:52 am

maybe you could use smilies, they often help when people dont get what your saying

DesignerGal · Post by **DesignerGal** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 11:55 am

SnoozeControl wrote: I'm getting a lot of backlash today from apparent misunderstandings. I thought it was pretty apparent that I'm usually a fluffy poster with a weird sense of humor, but for some reason, people are trying to read deeper, darker meanings into my posts.

I really wish people would just take a deep, calming breath before assuming the worst, not just with me, but with everyone else in here.

This os for Snooze from DG:

Hold on IM trying to post an image!

DesignerGal · Post by **DesignerGal** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 12:01 pm

Let me see if this works...

Attached files

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 12:39 pm

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 1:06 pm

Diuretic wrote: I liked the :sneaky: in one of Snooze's posts - seriously, not being a smartie. I hate interpersonal conflict, problem is I'm an opinionated boofhead at times.

Oh alright, most of the time. I didn't mean to cause offence.

Okay well I don't know what boofhead means, not being from New

Zealand or Australia ya know.

But I'll call ya a boofhead.

Boofhead!

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 1:09 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: I'm getting a lot of backlash today from apparent misunderstandings. I thought it was pretty apparent that I'm usually a fluffy poster with a weird sense of humor, but for some reason, people are trying to read deeper, darker meanings into my posts.

I really wish people would just take a deep, calming breath before assuming the worst, not just with me, but with everyone else in here.

but remember "YOU are not responsible for how people think about or feel about or interpret your posts.

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 1:44 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: That's correct.

Is there some conflict between the subject of this thread and the above statement that I'm not aware of?

If there were conflict with this thread I would have made that clear.

DesignerGal · Post by **DesignerGal** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 1:46 pm

minks wrote: If there were conflict with this thread I would have made that clear.

Hiya Minksie!!;)

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 1:48 pm

DesignerGal wrote: Hiya Minksie!!;)

Cheers DG.

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 2:21 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: That's correct.

Is there some conflict between the subject of this thread and the above statement that I'm not aware of?

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Eleanor Roosevelt

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 2:22 pm

buttercup wrote: No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Eleanor Roosevelt

nice quote from a brilliant woman.

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 2:32 pm

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people.

Eleanor Roosevelt

It is not fair to ask of others what you are unwilling to do yourself.

Eleanor Roosevelt

A woman is like a tea bag- you never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water.

Eleanor Roosevelt

her quotes are among my favorites minxie, nice to see you

Post by **spot** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 3:02 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: I'm getting a lot of backlash today from apparent misunderstandings.Why do I never get invited to parties like that, and you have all the fun?

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 3:03 pm

buttercup wrote: Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people.

Eleanor Roosevelt

It is not fair to ask of others what you are unwilling to do yourself.

Eleanor Roosevelt

A woman is like a tea bag- you never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water.

Eleanor Roosevelt

her quotes are among my favorites minxie, nice to see you

I love quotes I search em out when I feel the need to spiffy up my siggy.

Uncle Kram · Post by **Uncle Kram** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 3:43 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: I'm getting a lot of backlash today from apparent misunderstandings. I thought it was pretty apparent that I'm usually a fluffy poster with a weird sense of humor, but for some reason, people are trying to read deeper, darker meanings into my posts.

I really wish people would just take a deep, calming breath before assuming the worst, not just with me, but with everyone else in here.

To be frank, Snooze, I'm not the least bit surprised. Since I started reading your posts backwards, I have started worshipping the devil

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Tue Apr 25, 2006 3:46 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: I'm getting a lot of backlash today from apparent misunderstandings. I thought it was pretty apparent that I'm usually a fluffy poster with a weird sense of humor, but for some reason, people are trying to read deeper, darker meanings into my posts.

I really wish people would just take a deep, calming breath before assuming the worst, not just with me, but with everyone else in here.

Someone took you serious ? I really find that hard to believe. :-2 Your all fluff no stuff