My sister's such a dumbask

Sheryl · Post by **Sheryl** » Wed May 17, 2006 10:49 am

She's 22 and has been on probation for last 5 years. She was caught writing checks on a deceased person's account. She's already had her 3 kids taken away by CPS. Well the other day she get's pulled over by a cop, starts giving the cop a hard time, so she was taken into custody. Turns out she had drugs on her, so now her probation has been revoked and she's going to the pen.

My BM called whining bout it, I said tough, she made her bed now she can lie in it.

So I was then called a bitch and hung up on, what the hell are they wanting from me.............sympothy???

observer1 · Post by **observer1** » Wed May 17, 2006 10:54 am

Sheryl wrote: She's 22 and has been on probation for last 5 years. She was caught writing checks on a deceased person's account. She's already had her 3 kids taken away by CPS. Well the other day she get's pulled over by a cop, starts giving the cop a hard time, so she was taken into custody. Turns out she had drugs on her, so now her probation has been revoked and she's going to the pen.

My BM called whining bout it, I said tough, she made her bed now she can lie in it.

So I was then called a bitch and hung up on, what the hell are they wanting from me.............sympothy???

Hugs Hon :yh_hugs :yh_hugs

I think you were right. Sounds like your BM is an enabler, to me. Maybe this is what your sister needs to straighten up.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Wed May 17, 2006 10:59 am

Silly girl, let's hope this will bring her to her senses Sheryl.

BTW, what does BM mean?

Sheryl · Post by **Sheryl** » Wed May 17, 2006 11:02 am

This sister does no wrong in my BM's eyes. :rolleyes:

Sheryl · Post by **Sheryl** » Wed May 17, 2006 11:02 am

abbey wrote: Silly girl, let's hope this will bring her to her senses Sheryl.

BTW, what does BM mean?

bio-mother :wah:

observer1 · Post by **observer1** » Wed May 17, 2006 11:17 am

Sheryl wrote: This sister does no wrong in my BM's eyes. :rolleyes:

That's how it always was with my mom & my brother. Believe me, does no good.

Sheryl · Post by **Sheryl** » Wed May 17, 2006 11:25 am

There's 4 of us, but this sister is most like my B.M. I don't have anything really do with them and am glad I live over 8 hours away from them.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Wed May 17, 2006 4:02 pm

We have a similar situation in our home, Sheryl, so I know exactly what you're going through. Nothing legal, (or ILLEGAL, in your case), but Bullet has cut himself off entirely from his mother, for various (and very good) reasons. When we finally get the hell out of this miserable state and move south, Georgia is not even an option for him. He refuses to even live in the same state as his mother.

Sheryl · Post by **Sheryl** » Wed May 17, 2006 4:20 pm

Hmmm so how bout Texas.....:wah:

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Wed May 17, 2006 4:26 pm

BabyRider wrote: We have a similar situation in our home, Sheryl, so I know exactly what you're going through. Nothing legal, (or ILLEGAL, in your case), but Bullet has cut himself off entirely from his mother, for various (and very good) reasons. When we finally get the hell out of this miserable state and move south, Georgia is not even an option for him. He refuses to even live in the same state as his mother.
Youd better think long and hard about moving south........ Talk to me.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed May 17, 2006 4:34 pm

weeder wrote: Youd better think long and hard about moving south........ Talk to me.

Shes thinking Tennessee, Tenn. is ok, anything further south and your in it deep.

Sheryl, your sis is one of those that has to take all the wrong turns and find all the dead ends. Some just do. Carry on.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Wed May 17, 2006 4:38 pm

weeder wrote: Youd better think long and hard about moving south........ Talk to me.
Tell me what you think Weeder. You know I always value your input.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Wed May 17, 2006 4:39 pm

Sheryl wrote: Hmmm so how bout Texas.....:wah:
Honestly, Sheryl....I'd love to live in Texas. It has not been marked off of our list of possibilities. :yh_wink

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Wed May 17, 2006 4:47 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: I'm not real great at geography, but isn't most of the US south of Michigan?:-2
Sure is. We have many states to the west that are paralell, but yes, Michigan is a most northernly state. The winters here are a bitch and riding season is too short, and we are really beginning to hate the city. We want country, and miles of *empty.*

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Wed May 17, 2006 5:47 pm

No!! NO!! NO!! The south is Maryland down to Florida. But there isnt anything south about Maryland. It really begins in Virginia. Georgia begins the Deep South. You would never survive it BR, I almost didnt survive it.Florida has become the north moved down to the south. So that is not a true representation either. I absolutely do not want to offend anyone from the deep south. But for an open minded,liberal yankee.. life can be very difficult down there. And with your racial outlook?? Forget it!! You think your going to continue to bar tend down there??? I dont think so. I have tried so hard and succedded if forgetting the two years I spent in Georgia.. that I will have to really emmotionally gear myself up to give you a true picture of the situation. Lets put it this way... when I see Georgias area code come up on my caller ID.... I do not even answer the phone.

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Wed May 17, 2006 5:51 pm

You want country???? come see Virginia. Skyline Drive... Blue Ridge mountains. Bikers come from all over the US to ride here. The South... with charm. Warmer than where you live but not hot. Yes, very conservative.. but do able. Can you imagine if we became neighbors?? What does Bullet do for work? Ill tell you what the possibilities are. Low rent. Lovely places to live.

You can still buy a home on acres and acres of land.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Wed May 17, 2006 5:57 pm

weeder wrote: No!! NO!! NO!! The south is Maryland down to Florida. But there isnt anything south about Maryland. It really begins in Virginia. Georgia begins the Deep South. You would never survive it BR, I almost didnt survive it.Florida has become the north moved down to the south. So that is not a true representation either. I absolutely do not want to offend anyone from the deep south. But for an open minded,liberal yankee.. life can be very difficult down there. And with your racial outlook?? Forget it!! You think your going to continue to bar tend down there??? I dont think so. I have tried so hard and succedded if forgetting the two years I spent in Georgia.. that I will have to really emmotionally gear myself up to give you a true picture of the situation. Lets put it this way... when I see Georgias area code come up on my caller ID.... I do not even answer the phone.
Georgia is completely 100% OUT of the question, Weeder. Bullet will not live in the same state as his mother. Tennessee seems to be where we are most drawn, but it's all still in the discussing stage right now. More west and south is still in consideration, we just don't know yet. We really have a lot of homework to do before we decide for sure.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Wed May 17, 2006 5:59 pm

weeder wrote: You want country???? come see Virginia. Skyline Drive... Blue Ridge mountains. Bikers come from all over the US to ride here. The South... with charm. Warmer than where you live but not hot. Yes, very conservative.. but do able. Can you imagine if we became neighbors?? What does Bullet do for work? Ill tell you what the possibilities are. Low rent. Lovely places to live.

You can still buy a home on acres and acres of land.
Bullet is a line supervisor for GM. He has a TON of experience in management. He's being driven so crazy by all the crap with GM lately that he's thinking of going to Toyota or some other such company, just to avoid the damn unions.

Sheryl · Post by **Sheryl** » Wed May 17, 2006 7:28 pm

BabyRider wrote: Honestly, Sheryl....I'd love to live in Texas. It has not been marked off of our list of possibilities. :yh_wink

I think you'd fit in well in this state BR

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Wed May 17, 2006 10:12 pm

BabyRider wrote: Georgia is completely 100% OUT of the question, Weeder. Bullet will not live in the same state as his mother. Tennessee seems to be where we are most drawn, but it's all still in the discussing stage right now. More west and south is still in consideration, we just don't know yet. We really have a lot of homework to do before we decide for sure.

If you go Tennessee......see my kid out for me.......she's involved with some pagan witch that she trusts and has ripped her off for money and that stupid magic thing is going to her brain/belief. Just take her under your wing and give her some true family feeling. I know that's asking too much.......:-4

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Thu May 18, 2006 12:54 am

NV, not only would I gladly take your daughter under my wing, I'd take that "witch" or whatever it is she's trying to pass herself off as, and do something completely different with her. PM on the way.

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Thu May 18, 2006 2:29 am

BabyRider wrote: Bullet is a line supervisor for GM. He has a TON of experience in management. He's being driven so crazy by all the crap with GM lately that he's thinking of going to Toyota or some other such company, just to avoid the damn unions.
HOMEWORK IS THE KEY. i DID NOT RESEARCH GEORGIA ENOUGH BEFORE DECIDING TO BUY THAT HORRIBLE BUSINESS DOWN THERE. vACATIONING A PLACE IS NOT THE SAME AS LIVING THERE. yOU NEED TO GET A FEEL FOR THE PEOPLE. IT WAS REALLY NICE WHEN I WOULD GO DOWN TO VISIT MY FRIEND. BUT AS A RESIDENT, I WAS TOTALLY AN OUTSIDER. BUT THEN, I REALIZED FAST THAT I WOULD NEVER WANT TO BE AN ;INSIDER.