One Night Stands are...

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue May 30, 2006 1:39 pm

Well come on spotty do elaborate....

Post by **spot** » Tue May 30, 2006 1:41 pm

CARLA wrote: Ok Spot what the heck does it mean..???? :DIt's part of a dictionary definition by a very famous philosopher, the remainder of which is "Unable to sink the pink due to the time of month, when the only pot on is a difficult brown". Perhaps you need to have played snooker for the full import to become apparent.

Bryn Mawr wrote: If it wasn't just an excuse then it must have been messy finding out.The tone of the thread needed raising, I thought.

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue May 30, 2006 1:42 pm

spot wrote: It's part of a dictionary definition by a very famous philosopher, the remainder of which is "Unable to sink the pink due to the time of month, when the only pot on is a difficult brown". Perhaps you need to have played snooker for the full import to become apparent.

The tone of the thread needed raising, I thought.

Oiy you are right we better read up on our snooker cause that sounds bloody awful.!!!!!!!

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Tue May 30, 2006 1:45 pm

minks wrote: Oiy you are right we better read up on our snooker cause that sounds bloody awful.!!!!!!!

A very appropriate description - and the tone must have been low indeed!

Post by **spot** » Tue May 30, 2006 1:45 pm

minks wrote: Oiy you are right we better read up on our snooker cause that sounds bloody awful.!!!!!!!If there is one context in which you may not use that word, minks, it's this.

Jives · Post by **Jives** » Tue May 30, 2006 1:48 pm

BabyRider wrote: Yup, we managed to have great sex, all night long without any love being brought into the picture..

So there you go, it's nothing more than a difference in values. Nothing to get upset about. Some believe one way, some another.

Let's all respect that.

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Tue May 30, 2006 1:48 pm

Ok I got it now !! :wah: I could have went the rest of my natural life with out that bit of knowledge, but I asked so now I know.. :wah: :wah:

Post by **spot** » Tue May 30, 2006 1:54 pm

Jives wrote: So there you go, it's nothing more than a difference in values. Nothing to get upset about. Some believe one way, some another.

Let's all respect that.That lack of respect, do you not see, in "One night stands are low class", is how you raised an uproar here. You just don't get it, I reckon.

DesignerGal · Post by **DesignerGal** » Tue May 30, 2006 1:56 pm

spot wrote: That lack of respect, do you not see, in "One night stands are low class", is how you raised an uproar here. You just don't get it, I reckon.

Thank you. I was having a hard time trying to address that properly.

Jives · Post by **Jives** » Tue May 30, 2006 2:04 pm

spot wrote: That lack of respect, do you not see, in "One night stands are low class", is how you raised an uproar here. You just don't get it, I reckon.

Hmmm...well, that's the way I feel. My parents taught me that it was low class to sleep around. I thought everyone knew that. Go figure.

They were kind of anachronistic, though. They believed that a man and a woman shouldn't have sex until they were married. Something about "decency" or some other outmoded concept. LOL!:D

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue May 30, 2006 2:15 pm

spot wrote: If there is one context in which you may not use that word, minks, it's this.

Oiy I gotta leave now!!!!!:wah:

Post by **spot** » Tue May 30, 2006 2:23 pm

Jives wrote: Hmmm...well, that's the way I feel. My parents taught me that it was low class to sleep around. I thought everyone knew that. Go figure.Your mother was a hamster and your father smelled of elderberries.

Fetchez la vache!

devist8me · Post by **devist8me** » Tue May 30, 2006 2:35 pm

To the person who started this thread: I would mention it once in a non-judgemental tone what others are/might be saying, then leave it alone.

As for me, Ive had my fair share of one night stands but they were always with married men so they wouldn't talk (saves reputations ya know) and never wanted anything more. Hope Jives isn't too disappointed.

Post by **spot** » Tue May 30, 2006 2:48 pm

flopstock wrote: How can you know if you've never tried it?

If you see Minks you could try that line on her for me - she ran out clutching her security blanket a few minutes ago.

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue May 30, 2006 2:50 pm

spot wrote: If you see Minks you could try that line on her for me - she ran out clutching her security blanket a few minutes ago.

You made me!!!!!

Post by **spot** » Tue May 30, 2006 2:52 pm

minks wrote: You made me!!!!!spot faints at the outrageous injustice

You know, the problem with trying to shock people is one ends up with a totally unearned reputation for perversity.

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue May 30, 2006 2:57 pm

spot wrote: spot faints at the outrageous injustice

You know, the problem with trying to shock people is one ends up with a totally unearned reputation for perversity.

I find that shocking!!:wah:

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Wed May 31, 2006 1:48 am

Jives wrote: Hmmm...well, that's the way I feel. My parents taught me that it was low class to sleep around. I thought everyone knew that. Go figure.

Knew what? That your parents taught you that sleeping around was low class, or that, IN YOUR OPINION, sleeping around is low class?

Getting laid when you want to get laid is not low class....it's satisfying a craving that any and everyone is entitled to satisfy. You seem to be stuck in the 1950's Jives. Drag yourself into the 21st century with the rest of us. Things are different now.

Who is it hurting when 2 consenting adults decide to relieve their carnal desires and no one is intent on having a committed relationship develop from it?

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Wed May 31, 2006 3:55 am

A one night stand is nothing more than masturbation with a new friend. Some people see solo masturbation as low class, too.

Making love is far more meaningful and focused on the partner's pleasure.

I know what you mean about small towns, Sheryl. Who wants their masturbatory habits as the subject of gossip at the local Dollar General? For your friend, I'm afraid I'm more straightforward than you might be, based on past posts. Tell her that truth is irrelevant in a one-night stand because the new friend hasn't had time to know the real her. He might stick around afterward; we've seen it happen before with great success. More likely, especially if he's small-town himself, he'll jump to the same conclusions as the small town gossips.

If you want to be treated like a princess, you have to act like a princess.

Make sense?

Post by **spot** » Wed May 31, 2006 4:03 am

Accountable wrote: Making love is far more meaningful and focused on the partner's pleasure.Eww. Speak for yourself. I wouldn't dream of one-night-standing or anything else involving a bed and multiple bodies that wasn't focused entirely "on the partner's pleasure". I don't know, some people...

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Wed May 31, 2006 4:14 am

i think its ok to have the values you have on this subject jives, you are entitled to feel as you do, there is no right & wrong here

ive had a couple of one night stands in the past, im not proud of them but im not ashamed of them either

would i rather have met the love of my life whilst young, have had sex with him & only him, hell yeah

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Wed May 31, 2006 5:11 am

flopstock wrote: Watching someone masturbate, is like watching living art... it can be an awesome thing of beauty or it can be something that leaves you wondering just WTF they were trying to accomplish..:rolleyes:

And the fact of the matter is that anyone who would jump to the same conclusions as the small town gossips, isn't worth wanting as a boyfriend or potential mate. That 'prince' she is searching for, will judge her on her own merits... or that should be a pretty good clue to her that he is merely a goat in prince clothing..

The only way to be treated like a princess is to search for a common man who insists on treating you like one. Personally, I'd rather have one who can see 'me' and treat me as his woman. One that I can see and treat as my man. :-6If I weren't already married I'd let you break me in two. :yh_devil

DesignerGal · Post by **DesignerGal** » Wed May 31, 2006 5:29 am

SnoozeControl wrote: Seriously, how could anyone consider masturbation "low class"? Even dear Jives has masturbated in his life, I have no doubt of that.

eeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

:yh_sick

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Wed May 31, 2006 5:30 am

:wah:

DesignerGal · Post by **DesignerGal** » Wed May 31, 2006 5:31 am

buttercup wrote: i think its ok to have the values you have on this subject jives, you are entitled to feel as you do, there is no right & wrong here

ive had a couple of one night stands in the past, im not proud of them but im not ashamed of them either

would i rather have met the love of my life whilst young, have had sex with him & only him, hell yeah

No one is saying he cant have his own opinion. I just pointed out that he was rude and insensitive saying it was low class especially after not one but TWO people said they had one and ended up marrying them. Wouldnt it have been more polite to say something like:

"I was brought up to believe that they were wrong and had a negative impact."

Instead of :degrade, demean, low class, etc.

Do you see my point?

:-6

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Wed May 31, 2006 7:57 am

yes i do see your point dg

however its something people who have never done tend to be appauled by & its also thought of as low class in this country, it does not concern me that jives would think im low class for having done it

quote - no one can make you feel inferior without your consent - eleanor roosevelt

DesignerGal · Post by **DesignerGal** » Wed May 31, 2006 9:54 am

whatever...

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Wed May 31, 2006 10:01 am

pantsonfire321@aol.com wrote: As it goes.. my old man got lucky on our first date and seven year's later i still tell him EVERYDAY how lucky he is .

:D

What i also forgot to mention was i had known the guy for about 9 year's before we got together .

And another thing,,, i didn't see anybody getting their knicker's in a twist when Sixyearsleft had a one night stand and got the girl PREGNANT .:yh_bigsmi

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Wed May 31, 2006 10:04 am

Ok I see this thread has come to life again. Buttercup you nailed it. DG I understand what you are saying as well, the words are hurtful and sting when said to anyone be they true or not...!!

[QUOTE]quote - no one can make you feel inferior without your consent - eleanor roosevelt[/QUOTE] :yh_clap :yh_clap