The Bunnygirl support thread!

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 9:32 am

Alright, gang, let's just have a nice little thread filled to overflowing with

nice stuff for Chonsi to see when she gets back here. No telling what

the in-laws will be like so I think she could use some uplifting things,

don't you guys? (Behave yourself, Sweet Pea!!)

I'll start:

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 9:34 am

Chonsi fills our Garden with kindness, joy and laughter :-6

We love our Chonisgirl :-4

Uncle Kram · Post by **Uncle Kram** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 10:12 am

She could help me with my homework anytime

minks · Post by **minks** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 10:20 am

Aww good idea

Huggs to you bunny

some bunnies love you here

Attached files

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 10:39 am

To our very own Bunnygirl.

WELCOME BACK XXX

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:02 am

Oh, how sweet!

I love you all!

They came an hour early, and stayed only 3 hours-and just left to go home. They seemed pretty happy and were nice to me, and my husband was happy to see his mother. I asked them to come back at the end of summer, they said maybe they will.

It was a good visit!:)

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:08 am

YEAH for Chonsi!! :-6

jbbarker1947 · Post by **jbbarker1947** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:09 am

Chonsi:

The still gray quietness of the garden needs and yearns for the glow of your presence. You provide the kind, heartwarming feeling that many of the residence of this Garden come to rely on. You stand tall in the arena of life. We await your return. Please come back soon.

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:09 am

jbbarker1947 wrote: Chonsi:

The still gray quietness of the garden needs and yearns for the glow of your presence. You provide the kind, heartwarming feeling that many of the residence of this Garden come to rely on. You stand tall in the arena of life. We await your return. Please come back soon.

jb :-4

She's back!

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:12 am

Oh JB, you're so sweet.

They only stayed 3 hours, I was happy with the visit. My husband smiled for his mother, that made me happy. I was glad they came, and hope they will return one day soon.

Cher!:-4

Val!:-4

Abbey and Minks!:-4

minks · Post by **minks** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:13 am

Awww so nice for everybody then

Short and sweet

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:16 am

minks wrote: Awww so nice for everybody then

Short and sweet

And pleasant too.

Sounds like a success! :-6

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:19 am

Yes, a short, good visit was nice. There will hopefully be more.

minks · Post by **minks** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:27 am

chonsigirl wrote: Yes, a short, good visit was nice. There will hopefully be more.

Awww your husband will enjoy that

am glad you enjoyed it more than you thought hehehehehe

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:30 am

Ha-yes, I was glad it was a nice visit, I worried so.

And the up side is, I cleaned my house all morning, I won't have to this weekend!:wah:

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 1:41 pm

http://www.rallf.org/pages/about.html

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 1:42 pm

buttercup wrote: http://www.rallf.org/pages/about.html

:wah: BCup :wah:

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 1:43 pm

Thanks buttercup, I am enjoying that link!

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 2:40 pm

:wah: Housecleaners are us!

Yes, it was their first visit here, and we have lived here 6 years!

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 2:56 pm

They wont be looking after their son while you go to California ?

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 3:22 pm

No, I asked them Nomad. They said if I drove him to their place, about 3 hours away, they might. My husband cannot travel in the car that long. His max time is 10-15 minutes, he isn't up to a long trip. (he will open the car door on the freeway while I am driving and stuff like that, when he is stressed too long in the car, he doesn't know any better. That is why I stopped his therapy last summer, it was a 30 minute drive, he couldn't take it-or me-to have such antics)

I will have to ask my friends from church to watch him, and call in the nurse too for some of the time maybe.

I really thought they would spend the night with us, and stay for 2 days. But I am glad they came, even if it was for a little while. They saw how he was, he was better then the nursing home they saw him in so long ago. I think they expected him to be up to talking for hours, but after a half hour he could only answer yes or no to their questions, it was alot of thinking for him to do. He is who he is now, slowly better in some ways, not in others.

It made me think though, I need to make a will up this summer. I would give custody of my husband to them, but I will rethink this through after today and talk to my pastor about it. It is something I have dragged on about, but should be done. My children would be so young to watch him, and they do alot of things already everyday for him and me. They have their own lives to live, it is one of those problems I must finally resolve. Or look for somewhere he could be, if I was no longer here, the children would at least check on him all the time. But I could not expect them to care fulltime for an invalid........................my deep thoughts of the problem.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 4:32 pm

I want to help but..........................

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 4:40 pm

Oh, I know my dear Nomad. It is something I will have to figure out.

:-4

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 4:59 pm

chonsigirl wrote: Oh, I know my dear Nomad. It is something I will have to figure out.

:-4

Your a good figurer outer

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 5:55 pm

It's so cute, thank you Snooze!:-4

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 9:12 pm

I'm late as well chonsigirl but I did think about you today and wondered how the visit went. So glad to hear it was a complete success..:-4

Question would your husband be comfortable traveling in a van that would allow him to lay down and rest in?? You could rent on to get him to his parents house, or is just being in the car that get him anxious.??

AussiePam · Post by **AussiePam** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 10:02 pm

I've only just seen this too. I'm sending loads of thoughtwaves, Chonsi. Life is tough. You're a wonderful and inspiring person!!!

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Fri Jul 14, 2006 9:44 pm

chonsigirl I have these two cute bunnies for you..!! :-4

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Sat Jul 15, 2006 4:21 am

CARLA wrote:

chonsigirl I have these two cute bunnies for you..!! :-4
Oh, thank you Carla, they are so cute!:-4

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Sat Jul 15, 2006 4:34 am

Chonsi is one of those ladies - and she is certainly not unique in FG in this respect - that makes a man proud to act as a gentleman.