women honestly want do you want ?

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Sep 13, 2006 11:03 pm

i have 2 friends Carl and SAM , Carl is a very funny very nice lovely guy SAM is a

kind nice lovely girl i like them both equally . these are Sam's words ot mine i'm

fed up with going out with ass holes and being treated like sh*t , i want some

one nice . Carl asks out SAM , they go out for a while , happy ever after right ?..

wrong sam dumps him he is very upset he says i don't get it i really liked her ..

i see SAM she gives me a hug and i say what went wrong angel .. she says he

was too nice i needed some one that could keep me on my toes

sam if you wanted to kept on your toes try ballet

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Sep 13, 2006 11:09 pm

sorry totally posted this in the wrong place

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Wed Sep 13, 2006 11:27 pm

aw, that is sad to hear. often if you are raised in a home with dysfunction , then it is hard to see someone as an attraction when they are too nice . what she really meant was there was not enough up and downs. She may say she wants someone that is nice but she might not be capable of living that kind of existence without turmoil wrapped up in the relationship. imho............

someone who is nice, has boundries and is real is disturbing to someone who has not learned to be intimate and close. this is probably what she reacted to. watch and see, she will enevitably end up with a jerk. and wonder why later..........

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Thu Sep 14, 2006 12:35 am

very well put i think i get it now .. men just find women well so very confusing its great dont get me wrong i love women its just men just dont have a clue do we ?

my friend rings me total conversation is,ring, me ,hello mate gatesy , you out later? me yep birch at 8 , gatesy cool see you there last 1 there gets em in ...

end of call

then sue my partner who was that ? me gatesy sue how is his wife ? me dont know never asked sue his kids they ok ? me i never asked sue is his work ok ? look honestly i never asked ? sue i think i'll ring karen ... gatesys wife

me ok peck on the cheek i'm out the door sue is on the phone to karen

2 hours later i come back in go in the house sue is still on the phone to karen

she then proceeds to tell me in great detail everything in gatesys life i'd just spent 2 hours with the guy and never thought to ask about any thing in his life but rest assured when gatesey got home karen then tells gatesy all the things that he never thought to ask about mine

women some how you make the world go round but men dont have a clue how or why

Tigerlily · Post by **Tigerlily** » Thu Sep 14, 2006 5:47 am

As women get older they realise it's a waste of time having unrealistic expectations of men.

But I have to say I like a man with a bit of devil in him - only a bit, mind. Too nice...........yawn.

Marie5656 · Post by **Marie5656** » Thu Sep 14, 2006 7:41 am

I know it is a bit of a cliche..but I was drawn to my husband because he treated me with respect, asked my opinions, and even though he is a die-hard, gun toting red- neck (his words) he has his soft mushy side too...I mean when a close friend of his dies, he was not afraid to do the un-manly thing and cry. He even cried when our pet died last year..though THAT he denied.:p

zinkyusa · Post by **zinkyusa** » Thu Sep 14, 2006 7:48 am

I'll just throw out why I was attracted to my second wife. She wouldn't take any crap from me and dished it right back. :-4

I think she's probably smarter than me to:-5

minks · Post by **minks** » Thu Sep 14, 2006 7:56 am

That is so sad

Honestly I don't think a lot of women have a clue what they want. Generally it is the complete opposite of what a guy has to offer, seems a lot have this idea that there are more fish in the sea out there and one day the perfect one will come along HAH!! None are perfect just like us women aren't perfect. So we remain confused ourselves Hahaha who really knows hmmmm

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Thu Sep 14, 2006 8:01 am

zinkyusa wrote: I'll just throw out why I was attracted to my second wife. She wouldn't take any crap from me and dished it right back. :-4

I think she's probably smarter than me to:-5

sooooooo...............zinky is attracted to a challenge..........:wah:

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Sep 14, 2006 8:03 am

Oh, I always know what I want, or had wanted in the past. Little fishes followed me around enough when I was younger.

I worry girls wait so long to settle down nowdays-my #1 daughter is 25 and just got engaged. At that age, I had one child and was expecting her. I don't like the waiting so long bit, you wait too long, you lose. #1 son is 32, I've given up he will ever get married-:-1

I will never be a granny..................:-1

zinkyusa · Post by **zinkyusa** » Thu Sep 14, 2006 8:13 am

guppy wrote: sooooooo...............zinky is attracted to a challenge..........:wah:

are you saying I'm masochistic guppy girl?:D