Well, I'm a little concerned that you would say she deserves it like
that, that's no reason to date someone.
How long have she and this guy been split up? How good of a friend
is she to you, really? Perhaps you could go to her and say "Look, I
really value your friendship and I don't want to lose it, but X and I
were thinking of dating (or whatever) and I wondered how you would
feel about that". She might surprise you and say it doesn't bother
her at all... OR you have to be prepared that she might be really
upset. Could go either way, you have to decide for yourself if this
guy is worth losing her friendship. Me, I have misgivings that you are
as close with this girl as you think you are!!
Good luck, I know it can be tough.
And Welcome to the Garden, I hope you enjoy it here!
:-6
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TOOTIE14,
I wonder your age???? Are indeed 14. If your even thinking about dating this guy, who use to date your dear friend.. Then your not really her friend at all.
Make a choice you will lose him or her just that simple. :-5
Also how would you feel about yourself after doing this. Sometimes it just doesn't pay. Having integrity and being trust worthy is more important.
GOOD LUCK !!
I wonder your age???? Are indeed 14. If your even thinking about dating this guy, who use to date your dear friend.. Then your not really her friend at all.
Make a choice you will lose him or her just that simple. :-5
Also how would you feel about yourself after doing this. Sometimes it just doesn't pay. Having integrity and being trust worthy is more important.
GOOD LUCK !!
ALOHA!!
MOTTO TO LIVE BY:
"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, champagne in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming.
WOO HOO!!, what a ride!!!"
MOTTO TO LIVE BY:
"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, champagne in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming.
WOO HOO!!, what a ride!!!"
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Welcome to the garden tootey14. Lots of nice folk with good answers to your dilemma. Enjoy and happy posting.
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When I was a teenager..and it wasn't that long ago..the general rules were:
1. Never date someone one of your friends has dated
2. Never date someone who is related to someone you have dated
3. Never date your siblings ex's
Did you tell him that she was messing around on him?, if he already knows or knew and it didn't come from you, then do you think he is trying to get back at her by going out with you? Do you think she will try and fool around with him while you two are together to get back at you?
lol I'm too old for the teenage drama thing....been there, done that :-6
1. Never date someone one of your friends has dated
2. Never date someone who is related to someone you have dated
3. Never date your siblings ex's
Did you tell him that she was messing around on him?, if he already knows or knew and it didn't come from you, then do you think he is trying to get back at her by going out with you? Do you think she will try and fool around with him while you two are together to get back at you?
lol I'm too old for the teenage drama thing....been there, done that :-6
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If you really care about him and he cares about you i dont think you should worry about what she will think or what she will say to be onist with you. if she was a really good friend and you couldnt afford to lose her. Wouldn't she be happy for you?? a true good friend would be happy for you. I can tell you one thing it isnt a good idea to go out with him because she dererves it thats not a good reason. I hope this helps
If you really care about him and he cares about you i dont think you should worry about what she will think or what she will say to be onist with you. if she was a really good friend and you couldnt afford to lose her. Wouldn't she be happy for you?? a true good friend would be happy for you. I can tell you one thing it isnt a good idea to go out with him because she dererves it thats not a good reason. I hope this helps
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