i need help

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 11:14 am

guys i have been so moved by your kind offers of help and believe me when i read some of your kind words i was moved to tears on a few occasions i had never had someone do nice things for me although i often do it for others i have never asked for or accepted help from anyone too proud and stupid i suppose but all this new found emotion on the subject has left me feeling like a tongue tied missfit

the tickets for the spurs game are here what do i say to the lady

how about if she says no

how about if she insists on paying me

help i'm honestly really panicking

i'm visiting sue now i should be back on line about 9 if you guys could leave me some ideas for when i get back i would be very gratfull

i will give my love to suzy from you all :-4

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 11:27 am

It's difficult to make someone understand that you're trying to help and want nothing back for yourself - eh Jimbo! (you know what I mean!!)

Just let her know that you have done this because you care and really want her to achieve this ambition. If she insists on paying you back then you probably will have to take it back, but (and I'm not being callous) she is terminally ill and there will be a funeral which may have flowers or donations or her next of kin may be grateful for the help with the bill. It's a horrible situation to be in but I'm sure that you will know instinctively how to handle it.

Thinking of you. x

Uncle Kram · Post by **Uncle Kram** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 11:36 am

If she wants to pay, tell her you'll make her watch West Ham instead. That should keep her quiet. Or arm-wrestle her for them

Jimbo, sometimes we receive and sometimes we give, tell her you're balancing things out and want to spread a little joy around

P.S. Up the Villa

Uncle Kram · Post by **Uncle Kram** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 11:41 am

Hamster;454166 wrote: :yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl

aawww thats so sweet that you think they actually have a chance Krammy!!
I'm hoping that by the time Arnold shows his face, last nights humiliation will be a distant memory

Supersilly@rse · Post by **Supersilly@rse** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 11:48 am

Perhaps you should practice a little of what you do online here. Maybe write her a note with what you want to say.... or if you don't feel able, get a friend to draft your sentiments for you, letting her know that it's as much for you as it is for her. That in a dark world, you've experienced some light and want to pay it forward where you can.

Take care

Ssa

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 1:47 pm

You could tell her that you've won them in a competition and you can't go because Sue's poorly,

and you dont want them to go to waste.

Good luck Good guy. :-4

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 1:53 pm

post them anon - from an admirer, we girls love that stuff :-4

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 2:08 pm

buttercup;454260 wrote: post them anon - from an admirer, we girls love that stuff :-4

would be great if i was not the one taking them to london to watch the game

i'm just gona say they were spare and if dont use them they will go to waste

:o

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 2:09 pm

abbey;454256 wrote: You could tell her that you've won them in a competition and you can't go because Sue's poorly,

and you dont want them to go to waste.

Good luck Good guy. :-4

we are doing that with the little briton tickets at hammersmith if sue is not out any one want to go ?

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 2:11 pm

Imladris;454143 wrote: It's difficult to make someone understand that you're trying to help and want nothing back for yourself - eh Jimbo! (you know what I mean!!)

Just let her know that you have done this because you care and really want her to achieve this ambition. If she insists on paying you back then you probably will have to take it back, but (and I'm not being callous) she is terminally ill and there will be a funeral which may have flowers or donations or her next of kin may be grateful for the help with the bill. It's a horrible situation to be in but I'm sure that you will know instinctively how to handle it.

Thinking of you. x

i girl thats brill

she is hoping for a treatment that will prolong her life she accepts time is in months not years but her bravery humbles me so much :-4

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 2:13 pm

Uncle Kram;454159 wrote: If she wants to pay, tell her you'll make her watch West Ham instead. That should keep her quiet. Or arm-wrestle her for them

Jimbo, sometimes we receive and sometimes we give, tell her you're balancing things out and want to spread a little joy around

P.S. Up the Villa

steady on buddy now if you said watch arsenal (sorry gooner boy

) that would do it :wah: :wah:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 2:15 pm

Supersilly@rse;454177 wrote: Perhaps you should practice a little of what you do online here. Maybe write her a note with what you want to say.... or if you don't feel able, get a friend to draft your sentiments for you, letting her know that it's as much for you as it is for her. That in a dark world, you've experienced some light and want to pay it forward where you can.

Take care

Ssa thanks super dum bum

good idea you assume i have friends :wah: :wah:

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Fri Nov 10, 2006 1:03 am

jimbo;454288 wrote: we are doing that with the little briton tickets at hammersmith if sue is not out any one want to go ?

Hey Jim i'd buy the pair of tickets off you for Little briton if there for sale - give me a price

and you can put the money toward the plane ticket

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Fri Nov 10, 2006 3:29 am

Hiya Jimbo

Tell her it is a gift from your heart :-4

Give her a big hug and kiss

And get in the car and go :-6