In the salon today

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 11:57 am

Had a customer in aged around 30, as she was chatting the subject of babies came up, she said she wanted one & knew she was pushed for time, all the other customers jumped in & agreed, i think it freaked her out a bit.

It got me thinking - do all women feel pressurised once they reach 30 that they have to have a baby that year if they havent had one yet?

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 12:02 pm

In the salon today i had a customer tell me she was calling off her wedding, she felt that her partner wasent interested or putting in any effort to planning or ever raising the subject & it was making her feel she was forcing him into it.

Looking back to when i got married i think in honesty i made most of the decisions as did most of my friends with their weddings, got me wondering how common this is? would be great if some men could comment on this thread as well

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 12:07 pm

I was just along for the ride. I wasnt even really needed until the actual wedding day.

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 12:12 pm

Hi BCup :-6

I think most woman take the reigns of planning and organizing the wedding -- it's pretty common in the U.S. anyway. So I don't think it is necessarily a good indicator of the man's interest or desire for his future wife.

I don't think most women feel the 'baby pressure' until they hit 35 or so, since nowadays it's so common for 40-year-old women to give birth.

I'm almost 45 years old, but I never really felt the pressure to reproduce. I know that my mom and my twin sis were very disappointed that I never had a child as they thought I'd be a wonderful Mom

But I told them that I was not disappointed at all -- so they should be happy about that.

I get my 'kid fixes' in other ways -- nephews, nieces, and the little ones in my neighborhood -- and I love it :-4

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 12:23 pm

I get my 'kid fixes' in other ways -- nephews, nieces, and the little ones in my neighborhood -- and I love it

If I said that Id be called a perverted pedophile.

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 12:24 pm

Nomad;455954 wrote: I get my 'kid fixes' in other ways -- nephews, nieces, and the little ones in my neighborhood -- and I love it

If I said that Id be called a perverted pedophile.

You're damn right

you sicko

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:04 pm

Nomad;455932 wrote: I was just along for the ride. I wasnt even really needed until the actual wedding day.

How do or did you feel about that?

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:10 pm

cherandbuster;455941 wrote: Hi BCup :-6

I get my 'kid fixes' in other ways -- nephews, nieces, and the little ones in my neighborhood -- and I love it :-4

I think i would have been the same way as you cher if i hadent had my kids as early as i did, i had my first at twenty, as long as you have some around you you still get as you say 'kid fixes'

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:56 pm

I think that the answer to your questions is that as far as i can determine from my own experience most women do start to wonder about babies if they havn't had any, and get quite worried if they want one, which most women do.

In terms of marraige, I would say that most men like being married, but the wedding is the brides affair, I will let you know how I feel at my own wedding as soon as a find a broody 30 year old who is desperate to get pregnant and has already booked the chapel, can't wait.

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 4:02 pm

i had my kids in my twenties. it was a blast. hard work and more love than i ever knew you could feel. i am ready to shove em out now. got more than my share of a kid fix.:wah: i could not in any given moment of sanity imagine having one now in my forties. nooooooooooooo way..........

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 4:27 pm

I am happy to just wait and be a granny one day...................

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 4:30 pm

chonsigirl;456107 wrote: I am happy to just wait and be a granny one day...................

me toooo, "wait" being the key word.........:p

cars · Post by **cars** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 4:41 pm

One of our Daughters got married at 35, & had Her Son at "36"! Happy Day!:) Unfortunately for her, she had a very difficult time at the end, & we all had such terribly mixed emotions at the happy event. Our Grandson was born cute & healthy, but we almost "lost our Daughter" in the process, (It's a very long story) she was so sick that she had to stay in the hospital for "11" torture filled days! :wah: Slowly over time, everything finally turned out OK!

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 4:42 pm

Oh, send me good vibes, daughter #1 is getting married next summer!:-4

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 4:45 pm

cars;456118 wrote: One of our Daughters got married at 35, & had Her Son at "36"! Happy Day!:) Unfortunately for her, she had a very difficult time at the end, & we all had such terribly mixed emotions at the happy event. Our Grandson was born cute & healthy, but we almost "lost our Daughter" in the process, (It's a very long story) she was so sick that she had to stay in the hospital for "11" torture filled days! :wah: Slowly over time, everything finally turned out OK!

i am glad it turned out well in the end for your daughter and baby. even thought the birth and after was harrowing .

cars · Post by **cars** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 4:58 pm

guppy;456122 wrote: i am glad it turned out well in the end for your daughter and baby. even thought the birth and after was harrowing .

Thanks gup, we blame the doctors for her getting toxemia, (preeclampsia) it almost killed her!

It was touch & go there for 9 of those 11 days she was in the hospital! She has decided that she will never have another child. Can't really blame her.:wah:

Post by **Betty Boop** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 5:45 pm

cars;456127 wrote: Thanks gup, we blame the doctors for her getting toxemia, (preeclampsia) it almost killed her!

It was touch & go there for 9 of those 11 days she was in the hospital! She has decided that she will never have another child. Can't really blame her.:wah:

I had that with my first, we both very nearly died, five years later I went on to have my daughter, we were both healthy and absolutely fine. It was scary getting pregnant the second time around but rarely does it happen again.

cars · Post by **cars** » Sat Nov 11, 2006 6:09 pm

Betty Boop;456139 wrote: I had that with my first, we both very nearly died, five years later I went on to have my daughter, we were both healthy and absolutely fine. It was scary getting pregnant the second time around but rarely does it happen again.

Glad for you BB that things worked out for you. We blamed the doctors because we brought our daughter to the hospital at 6pm with constant excrutiating pains, & very high BP, and they did nothing for her for "9" hours, until her placenter ruptured inside her causing the toxsemia. And then at 3am they finally had to do an emergency C section. But by that time the toxic poison affected her, by spreading throughout her body, making her deathly ill.

Our Grandson is now "3", so we've got another 2 years before that "5" year mark, so you never know, maybe she'll change her mind.

Post by **Betty Boop** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 5:34 am

cars;456147 wrote: Glad for you BB that things worked out for you. We blamed the doctors because we brought our daughter to the hospital at 6pm with constant excrutiating pains, & very high BP, and they did nothing for her for "9" hours, until her placenter ruptured inside her causing the toxsemia. And then at 3am they finally had to do an emergency C section. But by that time the toxic poison affected her, by spreading throughout her body, making her deathly ill.

Our Grandson is now "3", so we've got another 2 years before that "5" year mark, so you never know, maybe she'll change her mind.

Oh Cars that was terrible and I can see why you blame the doctors! The high blood pressure on its own should have been enough of an indicator.

I had an excruciating headache that day, I've never experienced anything like it before or since. I went back to bed thinking I was just overtired, my husband knew I wasn't feeling well but he didn't once ring me to check on me, a friend rang me at 3pm, she was quite concerned as I sounded wierd but I assured her I was ok. I got up and went to have a shower but whilst in the bathroom I felt faint and had the sense to get on the floor, I woke quite sometime later with the dog licking my face and whimpering. I was still on the floor when my husband got in from work about 5.30pm, he was in a bad mood and just shouted that he was taking the dog out. I literally crawled down the stairs, grabbed the phone and called the emergency midwife, she was with me in minutes as I wasn't very coherant. My blood pressure was through the roof and I was hospitalised immediately, the minute I got into hospital I went into fits and my son was delivered within the hour. I lost three days of my life.

What explanation have you been given for the eclampsia happening Cars?

cars · Post by **cars** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 6:45 am

Betty Boop;456436 wrote: Oh Cars that was terrible and I can see why you blame the doctors! The high blood pressure on its own should have been enough of an indicator.

I had an excruciating headache that day, I've never experienced anything like it before or since. I went back to bed thinking I was just overtired, my husband knew I wasn't feeling well but he didn't once ring me to check on me, a friend rang me at 3pm, she was quite concerned as I sounded wierd but I assured her I was ok. I got up and went to have a shower but whilst in the bathroom I felt faint and had the sense to get on the floor, I woke quite sometime later with the dog licking my face and whimpering. I was still on the floor when my husband got in from work about 5.30pm, he was in a bad mood and just shouted that he was taking the dog out. I literally crawled down the stairs, grabbed the phone and called the emergency midwife, she was with me in minutes as I wasn't very coherant. My blood pressure was through the roof and I was hospitalised immediately, the minute I got into hospital I went into fits and my son was delivered within the hour. I lost three days of my life.

What explanation have you been given for the eclampsia happening Cars?

Wow BB sounds like you really had a pretty rough time of it yourself, glad it all worked out in the end!

No we never got an explanation, and I kept telling my SIL to sue the doctors & or hospital involved because of the fact we never did get an explanation. But he declined to do so because his friend was the Hospital Administrator. That's why he wanted our Daughter to go to that particular hospital because of that fact he thought she was going to get preferential treatment, even though it was almost an hours drive away from their house. There were two closer by hospitals only 10 minutes away! Go figure! As it was said in another thread, MEN! :rolleyes:

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 8:29 am

buttercup;456057 wrote: How do or did you feel about that?

That worked out really well for me scot girl. Actually if I could have skipped the wedding itself it would have been better. I wanted to get married on jet skis out in the middle of the lake and then just ride away, but nooooo she wasnt having it ! God women can be selfish.

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 12:13 pm

In the salon today a customer asked me which pre tanning cream is best, we stock 8, i said it was hard to say as they were all good & different customers have given different feedback on which is best & they all sell well. She got a bit aggitated & said i should know. This got me thinking - when we sell things we should believe in the product, i dont really use sunbeds, i have dark skin, so should i be trying all these creams, even if i find one i like it doesent mean she would does it

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 12:23 pm

buttercup;456806 wrote: In the salon today a customer asked me which pre tanning cream is best, we stock 8, i said it was hard to say as they were all good & different customers have given different feedback on which is best & they all sell well. She got a bit aggitated & said i should know. This got me thinking - when we sell things we should believe in the product, i dont really use sunbeds, i have dark skin, so should i be trying all these creams, even if i find one i like it doesent mean she would does it

It's all about marketing, isn't it?

People want to believe what you have to say

So say it

with enthusiasm and vigor

And then people will buy :-6

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 12:49 pm

In the salon today i had a really pretty girl in her twenties say that the only type of men attracted to her were pigs & its because she has a large bust, she also said all men assume girls with a large bust as an easy target, she also went on to say that many men have approached her drunk & tried to grope them

So to all you with large busts, do you find this to be true? mine are more like mosquito bites so i cant really comment

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 12:52 pm

buttercup;458141 wrote: In the salon today i had a really pretty girl in her twenties say that the only type of men attracted to her were pigs & its because she has a large bust, she also said all men assume girls with a large bust as an easy target, she also went on to say that many men have approached her drunk & tried to grope them

So to all you with large busts, do you find this to be true? mine are more like mosquito bites so i cant really comment

BCup

You ask the best questions

Unfortunately I cannot contribute here

As my mouth is much bigger than my chest :p

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 12:55 pm

c-cup. same as pinky. look but dont touch.........

get comments though..

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 12:57 pm

guppy;458154 wrote: c-cup. same as pinky. look but dont touch.........

get comments though..

Gupster

Do men *really* stare at your breasts sometimes when talking to you?

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 12:59 pm

cherandbuster;458157 wrote: Gupster

Do men *really* stare at your breasts sometimes when talking to you?

yep. have had them say they miss my big boobies. kidding around . when i haven;t been around them for awhile.

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 1:00 pm

That's interesting . . .

I'm barely a B cup (not BCup -- that's my friend Buttercup!

) and obviously I've never had the problem of 'wandering eyes'

If a man did that to me

I think I'd stare at his crotch in return

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 1:02 pm

Pinky;458169 wrote: I tried that...not good results!!!

I just got a weirdo attached to me for the night:rolleyes:

oh yeah

better scratch my idea then :rolleyes:

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 1:04 pm

cherandbuster;458171 wrote:

oh yeah

better scratch my idea then :rolleyes:

just stare at his bum as he walks away.....

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 1:06 pm

So how big a majority of men do you think do this? according to this girl today its ALL OF THEM !!!

Do we have any male members willing to comment on this?

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 1:07 pm

Pinky;458179 wrote: That's ALWAYS worth doing IMO, hehe;)

do you ever pass men on the street and get caught looking back at em. i always do. i just smile.....

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 1:08 pm

guppy;458184 wrote: do you ever pass men on the street and get caught looking back at em. i always do. i just smile.....

Oh yes

A lovely arse is indeed a pleasure to watch

cars · Post by **cars** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 1:40 pm

buttercup;458183 wrote: So how big a majority of men do you think do this? according to this girl today its ALL OF THEM !!!

Do we have any male members willing to comment on this?

All of my adult life I've been attracted to big busted women, but over the last several years now I find smaller busted women just as attractive as well! But anyway, could it be that this girl maybe is just a little bit full of herself cause she's got biguns! As for "unwanted" groping never, unless it's desired.

First off are they real, is what goes through most men's minds now a days!

And if 3 women came into a room at the same time now, I admit I'm still attracted to looking at the biguns first. However, I now look at the whole picture as well & also at all 3. I notice how the women "handle" themselves!

Many times the smaller busted women are much more sexy then the biguns!

I'm proud to say that I really do look into a women's eyes while talking to her!

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 1:55 pm

cars;458231 wrote: All of my adult life I've been attracted to big busted women, but over the last several years now I find smaller busted women just as attractive as well! But anyway, could it be that this girl maybe is just a little bit full of herself cause she's got biguns! As for "unwanted" groping never, unless it's desired.

First off are they real, is what goes through most men's minds now a days!

And if 3 women came into a room at the same time now, I admit I'm still attracted to looking at the biguns first. However, I now look at the whole picture as well & also at all 3. I notice how the women "handle" themselves!

Many times the smaller busted women are much more sexy then the biguns!

I'm proud to say that I really do look into a women's eyes while talking to her!

you are a true gentleman cars.

cars · Post by **cars** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 2:03 pm

guppy;458236 wrote: you are a true gentleman cars.

"guppster" :-4

cars · Post by **cars** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 2:50 pm

Pinky;458281 wrote: I have no idea what you mean:yh_whistl :yh_bigsmi

It means because she has biguns, (whether real, or man made) she thinks all men are going crazy over her because of that fact! :wah:

DesignerGal · Post by **DesignerGal** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 3:00 pm

This thread should be renamed "In the salon today..."

I thought it was cute.

cars · Post by **cars** » Mon Nov 13, 2006 3:03 pm

Pinky;458291 wrote: Heehee, yeah I know, it was my little joke:D

Silly me, I shoud've known you would be the one who knew!!:wah:

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 1:44 am

cars;458286 wrote: It means because she has biguns, (whether real, or man made) she thinks all men are going crazy over her because of that fact! :wah:

I can assure you cars she's not like that at all, she's really upset about it & just wants to meet someone who's interested in a bit more than her 'boobages'

I thought it was really interesting that you said the above as thats what she said men tend to think or that she's 'easy' & that you always notice the big chested girls first & its only now that you are older that you view the whole picture, makes me wonder if this breast infactuation is a 'young man' thing?

Thank you so much for having the courage to post in here

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 1:49 am

buttercup;459679 wrote: I can assure you cars she's not like that at all, she's really upset about it & just wants to meet someone who's interested in a bit more than her 'boobages'

I thought it was really interesting that you said the above as thats what she said men tend to think or that she's 'easy' & that you always notice the big chested girls first & its only now that you are older that you view the whole picture, makes me wonder if this breast infactuation is a 'young man' thing?

Thank you so much for having the courage to post in here

Breastage infatuation spans all ages, however I might note that breastages of all shapes and sizes are equally fascinating. Not to imply women are just mammary glands which of course theyre not. I mean women are people too right ?..............Right ?

But strictly talking about breastages for breastages themselves, its a good thing.