which do you believe in ...

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Wed Nov 15, 2006 10:45 am

Saying what you think or sugar coating the pill in order to not hurt somebodys feelings - you all know what i think

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 10:49 am

pantsonfire321@aol.com;460184 wrote: Saying what you think or sugar coating the pill in order to not hurt somebodys feelings - you all know what i think

Yeah you ole sugar coater.:wah:

I usually say whats on my mind. Or nothing at all.

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 10:51 am

Depending on the situation - but I'm a bottom liner - don't ask if you don't want to know. NO SUGAR - if the dress looks like hell - then it looks like hell (if asked).

I wouldn't go out of my way to say that dress looks like hell, it's not on me.

When asked I'm honest - on all subjects.. No Sugar

Patsy

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Wed Nov 15, 2006 10:53 am

YZGI;460191 wrote: Yeah you ole sugar coater.:wah:

I usually say whats on my mind. Or nothing at all.

I really don't see the point in hiding something from somebody unless its somebody i really care about then i would try to sugar coat it .

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 10:53 am

a bit of both I guess depending on the situation. :-6

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:00 am

Pinky;460205 wrote: I think everyone knows I'm a trappy old bag and say what I think, usually before I think about it.

Would you agree theres a difference in being spiteful and saying what needs to be said .

24Hours · Post by **24Hours** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:01 am

I say sugar coat it and play it safe. YOU NEVER KNOW WHO MIGHT GET OFFENDED.

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:05 am

i say tell it as it is but only tell the truth and when your wrong have the guts and decency to say sorry

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:09 am

24Hours;460210 wrote: I say sugar coat it and play it safe. YOU NEVER KNOW WHO MIGHT GET OFFENDED.
Stay with this theme. I think its starting to work.:wah:

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:11 am

jimbo;460212 wrote: i say tell it as it is but only tell the truth and when your wrong have the guts and decency to say sorry

Very true . How do feel about lies .How should people who lie be treated .

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:13 am

Can anybody say. HERE WE GO AGAIN...:-3

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:14 am

Ok you know somebodys having an affair ..do you tell or keep quite

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:15 am

YZGI;460221 wrote: Can anybody say. HERE WE GO AGAIN...:-3

Yeah, no kidding. We can also say "transparent" too!

How do you feel about people who start trouble?

zinkyusa · Post by **zinkyusa** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:15 am

zinky pees himself and flaps away in terror:eek:

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:19 am

pantsonfire321@aol.com;460223 wrote: Ok you know somebodys having an affair ..do you tell or keep quite

Someone elses affair is no affair of mine and if it were an affair of mine I would prefer it was not released to the affairer or affaireee.:-2

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:22 am

Ok you think somebody is being abused but your not sure ..do you speak up or keep quite

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:25 am

pantsonfire321@aol.com;460234 wrote: Ok you think somebody is being abused but your not sure ..do you speak up or keep quite

If its a woman--say something if its a dude tell everyone else.

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:27 am

YZGI;460237 wrote: If its a woman--say something if its a dude tell everyone else.

What if it was a child

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:32 am

Abuse for a women and child I would report it - I would jump in

Affair - none of my business - usually the signs are there - some wish to ignore them and life/relationship goes on..

Patsy

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:35 am

pantsonfire321@aol.com;460238 wrote: What if it was a child

Depends on the severity. At times in certain situations I see parents doing the unthinkable. Now the beating of a child I will go to all lenghts to report.

Shweet tatersalad · Post by **Shweet tatersalad** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 12:20 pm

Straight up is always the best way.Which is why I don't got alotta Friends.Sometimes people can't handle the truth.So You need judge your honesty.Words can hurt.

My one exception is children,You have too bite your tongue and nurture them so they become good people.You can hurt them at any cost,they are the keepers of our future.And even the smallest jab or action can scar for life.

Don't hurt the children,or we will come for you.:yh_ghost

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 12:44 pm

i say tell the truth. be honest. and apologize when you mes up.

Marie5656 · Post by **Marie5656** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 1:27 pm

Depends. I try not to hurt peoples feelings..but will not hide the truth so their feelings won't get bruised, either. That is not real life.

I do it on a situational basis. Chosing the right words makes all the difference.

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 2:25 pm

what if a friend asks you if their spouse is having an affair, and you know they are. how do you answer? do you lie or tell them.......

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 2:42 pm

If a friend asked about a affair & I did know - I would ask the friend Why they suspect a affair - I would want to hear them first.

If I knew I would tell them what I knew - facts only the facts that I knew, not hear say second hand info. If a friend is asking they already know - I think their looking for confirmation. If my friends ask me, they know I will tell them the truth.

Patsy

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 2:43 pm

Well, bless your heart...............

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Wed Nov 15, 2006 2:46 pm

I would have to tell the truth too. i could not look them in the eye and lie about it. .......