Need Advice

KnightDeBrian · Post by **KnightDeBrian** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 12:09 pm

I met this girl and things are going well, Almost to well! Then she moved to South Dekota and now I hardly see her anymore. But we talk all the time on the phone and found out new things about eachother. We found out that we almost dont have any differences and everything in common. Now Im concidering moving to South Dekota to see if a relationship is posible. Cause some how some way she feels like she could be my soul mate... Is this wrong to think? Am i stupid? lol

But I thought I would bring this up to the Forum Garden and get some advise on the situation. So please let me know your opinions on this subject.

Respectfully yours, Knight De Brian!!!

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 12:19 pm

This is my knee-jerk reaction to your story: Go for it. If you have the means to move, do it. What's the worst thing that could happen? Can you get work and support yourself in South Dakota? What is holding you in Colorado? I think, from your picture, that you are fairly young. This is the time for you to live!!! Travel if you can, see what's out there. If you find out this ISN'T the girl for you, what then? You move back? Stay where you are? Think of the worst thing that could happen if you do this. Is it something that can be rectified if things don't work out?

There's a saying that I really like that applies to this situation: "Regret the things you do, not the things you WISH you'd done." Better to regret a mistake than not have the knowledge the experience can give you.

KnightDeBrian · Post by **KnightDeBrian** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 12:29 pm

Hey thanks for the advice, and ill let you know how it goes here in the near future.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 12:43 pm

Scrat wrote: Whatever you do DON'T KNOCK HER UP!!!!!!!Now THAT'S good advice!!

One more question, Clint: In the pic you posted, there is a ring on your left hand. Umm...Something you're forgetting to mention there? You can't be divorced. I mean, you can be, but you look so young! You can also tell me it's none of my damn business! :yh_bigsmi

Tombstone · Post by **Tombstone** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 1:36 pm

KnightDeBrian wrote: I met this girl and things are going well, Almost to well! Then she moved to South Dekota and now I hardly see her anymore. But we talk all the time on the phone and found out new things about eachother. We found out that we almost dont have any differences and everything in common. Now Im concidering moving to South Dekota to see if a relationship is posible. Cause some how some way she feels like she could be my soul mate... Is this wrong to think? Am i stupid? lol

But I thought I would bring this up to the Forum Garden and get some advise on the situation. So please let me know your opinions on this subject.

Respectfully yours, Knight De Brian!!!

Do you mind if I ask you some questions? It will enable us to get a better understanding of the background of this relationship.

1. Why did she move to S. Dakota?

2. Where did you meet her? How long was your relationship before she left?

3. Are the feelings of attraction mutual?

4. Has she hinted that she would like to get back to your area?

Thanks for your replies!

KnightDeBrian · Post by **KnightDeBrian** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 4:28 pm

The ring on my finger is just an irish ring that my granfather gave me when i last visited Ireland. You know the irish ring with the 2 hands holding a heart under a crown.

I never take it off.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 4:31 pm

I see, thanks for clearing that up for me! It 's always been a dream to visit Ireland. I will get there someday!

KnightDeBrian · Post by **KnightDeBrian** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 4:33 pm

Dont worry ill make sure i dont knock her up already made that mistake once...lol

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 4:37 pm

KnightDeBrian wrote: The ring on my finger is just an irish ring that my granfather gave me when i last visited Ireland. You know the irish ring with the 2 hands holding a heart under a crown.

I never take it off.
A Claddagh ring, if you wear the heart towards you it means you are taken :-4

So romantic.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 4:39 pm

Scrat wrote: Whatever you do DON'T KNOCK HER UP!!!!!!!
Yea, make sure she's not in bed when you arrive :wah:

KnightDeBrian · Post by **KnightDeBrian** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 4:39 pm

I guess seeing how im in my current situation that would be the case seeing how thats how i wear it!!!!

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 4:43 pm

KnightDeBrian wrote: I guess seeing how im in my current situation that would be the case seeing how thats how i wear it!!!!
Good luck to you Clint, GO FOR IT X

KnightDeBrian · Post by **KnightDeBrian** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 4:46 pm

The way i see it theres only one shot at having a true soulmate and im willing to take the extra steps to find out if shes the one. Thanks for all the constructive and positive feedback in this current situation. Respectfully KnightDeBrian!!!

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 7:14 pm

KnightDeBrian wrote: Dont worry ill make sure i dont knock her up already made that mistake once...lol

How can you refer to a child as a mistake? :-1

Have you asked her how she feels about the prospect of you moving there?

capt_buzzard · Post by **capt_buzzard** » Sun Mar 27, 2005 3:49 am

KnightDeBrian wrote: The ring on my finger is just an irish ring that my granfather gave me when i last visited Ireland. You know the irish ring with the 2 hands holding a heart under a crown.

I never take it off.That's a Claddah ring you got there. Or in English Claddagh.

KnightDeBrian · Post by **KnightDeBrian** » Mon Mar 28, 2005 6:29 pm

Sup people? took everyones advice and now im sitting here in South Dekota and am now looking for a job. but hey you only live life once so might as well as have fun!!! Anyways ill let you people go and talk to you soon!!!!

Knight De Brian