Hair Sex appeal

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:39 am

This is Gail Porter before & after hair loss. She was on tv last night & my partner said - she used to be sexy. I (a bit irritated) said why isent she now, just because she's lost her hair? He denied this of course, i thought about how a loss of confidence can make you less sexy & would put it down to that but in all fairness to Gail after the initial horror of losing her hair she has consistently showed off her head quite proudly & not worn scarves or wigs, this shows confidence. I put this to my partner & said - it must be the hair loss thats putting you off her. He's irritated at this & says its not true she just lost the wow factor, but it seems quite obvious to me that her hair was a wow factor for him. What say you?

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:44 am

but you said 'radiant' almost famous, not sexy :sneaky:

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:45 am

I think she looked better with hair .

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:50 am

i say you dont need hair to be sexy just look at me :wah: :wah: :wah:

ok i rest your case

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:10 am

I am going to be honest and say that women with very short hair like a no 1, or bald women, may look interesting, but not very attractive to most men, also long hair as a general rule more attractive on women than short hair, and thats just the way it is. Like the way a six pack is more attractive than a 46 inch beer gut no matter how nice or cool the man is.

Indian Princess · Post by **Indian Princess** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 5:22 am

Her heart is still the same with or without hair.

I have a ton of long thick hair , I on my own have had it cut and not felt the same after.

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 5:26 am

buttercup;547175 wrote: This is Gail Porter before & after hair loss. She was on tv last night & my partner said - she used to be sexy. I (a bit irritated) said why isent she now, just because she's lost her hair? He denied this of course, i thought about how a loss of confidence can make you less sexy & would put it down to that but in all fairness to Gail after the initial horror of losing her hair she has consistently showed off her head quite proudly & not worn scarves or wigs, this shows confidence. I put this to my partner & said - it must be the hair loss thats putting you off her. He's irritated at this & says its not true she just lost the wow factor, but it seems quite obvious to me that her hair was a wow factor for him. What say you?

Personally, I think she's beautiful in both pics, her face is still beautiful....Hair does change the appearance, but of course what's inside counts. As far as the attractive factor, she is an attractive woman in both pics IMO...

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 6:35 am

I think for a women to lose hair is very traumatic, my Mum is going through chemo and has now started wearing her wig, she said she'd sleep in it if she could, as she feels so bad about the hair loss. I think that the women that have the confidence to be bald and not cover up are very sexy, after all a women with confidence is sexy IMO.

Elvira · Post by **Elvira** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 6:42 am

I don't think she looks sexy at all in the second picture, in fact I don't think she looks much at all.

I don't think this is down to the hair though. It's down to her confidence. For all the wonderful PR done for her on this subject, I really dont see that she has confidence and feels attractive at all.

Uncle Kram · Post by **Uncle Kram** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 6:52 am

I've always found bald women attractive if they've got a pretty face, ever since I saw that girl in the first Star Trek film. I think Gail Porter looks great and it can't be easy having to change in the public glare so fair play to her. These days baldness in men and women seems far more acceptable than ever. I mean...would you really wanna see Jimbo with a perm?

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 6:54 am

Uncle Kram;547335 wrote: I've always found bald women attractive if they've got a pretty face, ever since I saw that girl in the first Star Trek film. I think Gail Porter looks great and it can't be easy having to change in the public glare so fair play to her. These days baldness in men and women seems far more acceptable than ever. I mean...would you really wanna see Jimbo with a perm?

could be an afro disiact :wah: :wah:

jpcme · Post by **jpcme** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 7:18 am

Have to admit with hair very sexy, without not sexy at all, just my personal opinion of course.

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 7:21 am

jpcme;547373 wrote: Have to admit with hair very sexy, without not sexy at all, just my personal opinion of course.

you dont mean me right :sneaky:

jpcme · Post by **jpcme** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 7:24 am

jimbo;547377 wrote: you dont mean me right :sneaky:

Right. I mean the lovely Gail

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 7:28 am

I think GP is a very attractive women, she has a beautiful face and a great clear english rose complexion.

OzBoy · Post by **OzBoy** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 7:56 am

wax on.......wax off........

No really IMO she looks like a total hornbag in the first pic but the second one whilst she obviously hasn't been hit with the ugly stick she looks more like a store mannequin from M&S and way too much makeup!

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 8:46 am

Hamster;547178 wrote: I'd have to agree with you BC!! Men do go for hair!

relax some go for fur :wah: :wah: :wah:

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 9:01 am

It seems to me that in the first pic she is trying too look sexy. The second pic she is not putting as much effort into looking sexy. Well they both worked.

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 9:23 am

I really must read thread titles properly - I thought you were asking for sex and hair!:wah:

But to the point of the OP, personally I think sexy is something from within more than outside although I think she looks happier with hair, happier not sexier.

Sweet Tooth · Post by **Sweet Tooth** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 9:52 am

I think the only thing that makes her not sexy in the second picture is her lack of confidence! and ps. dont shave your mans head! my husband shaved his once-military- and he looked like a giant penis! not cute!:wah:

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 10:12 am

Sweet Tooth;547491 wrote: I think the only thing that makes her not sexy in the second picture is her lack of confidence! and ps. dont shave your mans head! my husband shaved his once-military- and he looked like a giant penis! not cute!:wah:

So now size doesnt matter? Confusing.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 10:17 am

Indian Princess;547239 wrote: Her heart is still the same with or without hair.

I have a ton of long thick hair , I on my own have had it cut and not felt the same after.

LIES !

Sweet Tooth · Post by **Sweet Tooth** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 12:12 pm

YZGI;547501 wrote: So now size doesnt matter? Confusing.

Yes! a 6 foot 4 inch penis is not so nice!

minks · Post by **minks** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 12:37 pm

Uncle Kram;547335 wrote: I've always found bald women attractive if they've got a pretty face, ever since I saw that girl in the first Star Trek film. I think Gail Porter looks great and it can't be easy having to change in the public glare so fair play to her. These days baldness in men and women seems far more acceptable than ever. I mean...would you really wanna see Jimbo with a perm?

OMG Kram I nearly spewed lunch over that one

Yes I would ahahahaha

Jimbo can ya photo shop yerself a cool 'frow for us ahahahaha

I have to agree with ya Kram, baldness is more accepted today, but not 100% yet. I believe baldness is a tough thing for anyone to have to go through.

Red · Post by **Red** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 12:53 pm

I think men go for hair definately to me she looks beautiful in both pics but honestly...i prefer her with hair but saying that id prefer me with hair its a whole confidence thing i know i wouldnt have her courage and be able to show off a bald head but good on her for being able to do it.

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 1:13 pm

Pinky;547686 wrote: I have to admit, the first thing to get a change when I need a confidence kickstart is my hair...only colour though! I'll always keep it long, and I'm still growing it from when the last scissor happy bag cut it!

I had a colour change last week, and it feels fab! I got fed up of it being my natural colour.

Hey Pinks, I'm thinking of dying my hair brown...what do you think?

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 1:17 pm

Pinky;547700 wrote: You've got that type of skin tone that can get away with any colour, just choose the tone carefully!

Help, can you PM me with what you think, going to get it done before I start the new job :-6

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 1:17 pm

She looks beautiful in both imo.

I was thinking about this last week when i saw her on tv, i always find it strange that ladies should be mocked for having no hair and deemed to be unattractive by both sexes.

Alopecia must be a terrible thing for a woman, she's had this condition for a few years now and no sight of her hair returning.

What makes her attractive in my eyes is her bravery, it cant have been easy for her being a tv presenter.

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 1:18 pm

abbey;547705 wrote: She looks beautiful in both imo.

I was thinking about this last week when i saw her on tv, i always find it strange that ladies should be mocked for having no hair and deemed to be unattractive by both sexes.

Alopecia must be a terrible thing for a woman, she's had this condition for a few years now and no sight of her hair returning.

What makes her attractive in my eyes is her bravery, it cant have been easy for her being a tv presenter.

I think so too Abbey