Suck It Up And Move On Pal!!!!!!!!!!

Indian Princess · Post by **Indian Princess** » Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:37 pm

When life gives you a problem, wether it be bitchy cat fights at work or gossip about you even when you have done nothing to the gossipers, unjustified promotions etc, Do you:

A: dwell for days on what has happened until it possesses a life of its own and you have anxiety?

B: Tell everyone your two cents and create future stress

C: Suck it up and move on pal!!!

I am a firm suck it up and move on pal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! always was and always will be!!!!:driving:

dubs · Post by **dubs** » Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:40 pm

Yeah.. I'm exactly the same......Suck it up!!;)

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:44 pm

D. I remedy the situation.

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:46 pm

I suck it up and move on, and into my own happy place, then later I get MAD about it...and let off steam when alone or with loved one, then I'm alllll better!!:-6

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:50 pm

WonderWendy3;558364 wrote: I suck it up and move on, and into my own happy place, then later I get MAD about it...and let off steam when alone or with loved one, then I'm alllll better!!:-6

i am like you wendy....

koan · Post by **koan** » Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:52 pm

Indian Princess;558353 wrote:

A: dwell for days on what has happened until it possesses a life of its own and you have anxiety?

This is much more fun, imo.

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Fri Feb 23, 2007 9:05 pm

Pinky;558374 wrote: I always say what I think!

Like it or lump it!

on the occasions when i do that people look at me like i have jsut become the exorcist......esp people that know me....they are like,,,,uh oh......

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Fri Feb 23, 2007 10:06 pm

I don't suck it up

I confront the situation - work out a solution - work out the friction from gossip.

I want to get to root of the problem. Gossip is disruptive - waste of energy-evil.

Gossip usually stems from a female out of jealousy. If everyone is doing their job - they shouldn't be worried about what your doing.!!

You spend too much time at work - work atmosphere has to have harmony or you'll need to look for another job.

Patsy

AussiePam · Post by **AussiePam** » Fri Feb 23, 2007 11:49 pm

There should be a fourth option involving murder, mayhem, concrete boots. :sneaky:

Rosette · Post by **Rosette** » Sat Feb 24, 2007 3:02 am

I tend to talk about it to whoever will listen!... that way I can figure out whether I was the one out of line....or totally justified

Ive always been like that...... need to discuss things to help me figure out my next move

LondonFan of MJ! · Post by **LondonFan of MJ!** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 12:54 pm

Patsy Warnick;558435 wrote: I don't suck it up

I confront the situation - work out a solution - work out the friction from gossip.

I want to get to root of the problem. Gossip is disruptive - waste of energy-evil.

Gossip usually stems from a female out of jealousy. If everyone is doing their job - they shouldn't be worried about what your doing.!!

You spend too much time at work - work atmosphere has to have harmony or you'll need to look for another job.

Patsy

I agree totally!

crazygal · Post by **crazygal** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 12:58 pm

I give as good as I get until I get better then forget about it. :wah: I always say what I think, sometimes without thinking first but never like just to say to someone what they want to hear.

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 1:17 pm

crazygal;559808 wrote: I give as good as I get until I get better then forget about it. :wah: I always say what I think, sometimes without thinking first but never like just to say to someone what they want to hear.

crazygal · Post by **crazygal** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 1:24 pm

I'm myself and I ain't changing for no-one.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 1:27 pm

Suck It Up And Move On Pal!!!!!!!!!!

You suck it up !

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 1:27 pm

crazygal;559844 wrote: I'm myself and I ain't changing for no-one.

Chookie · Post by **Chookie** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 1:38 pm

All of the above - and if you don't like it, you can go **** ******* (insert your own epithets).

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 1:41 pm

Chookie;559857 wrote: All of the above - and if you don't like it, you can go **** ******* (insert your own epithets).

Hostile Pictavian...

Chookie · Post by **Chookie** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 2:02 pm

Nomie, I said epithets!

Gawd, you just can't get the staff nowadays.