Very Bored and ALone has a stalker!!!!!!!!

Tombstone · Post by **Tombstone** » Mon Apr 25, 2005 11:33 am

skittles2004 wrote: Someone tell her how to get rid of a guy who's crushing on her. Poor guy!!!!
What are the details? Is this a serious threat?

mominiowa · Post by **mominiowa** » Mon Apr 25, 2005 1:25 pm

Serious?????????

LC to the rescue!!!!!!! Daaaaaaa daaaaaaaa daaaaaaaaaaa..How do u spell that ? LOL

Keep a serious journal girl...and make sure your friends and family know your where abouts ALL the time..

It may seem a little insain at first but its not..its pretty important..

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Mon Apr 25, 2005 1:29 pm

mominiowa wrote: Serious?????????

LC to the rescue!!!!!!! Daaaaaaa daaaaaaaa daaaaaaaaaaa..How do u spell that ? LOL

Keep a serious journal girl...and make sure your friends and family know your where abouts ALL the time..

It may seem a little insain at first but its not..its pretty important.. you spell it.....bad boys, bad boys, whatcha gonna do, whatcha gonna do when they come for you?.......................................:wah: ...the "stalker" sounds like teenage boy with crush, normal.

Jives · Post by **Jives** » Mon Apr 25, 2005 2:42 pm

Tell her to say the words of death to him......"I like you as a friend."

AAAaaaaaaaa.....NOOooooooo.

Wolverine · Post by **Wolverine** » Mon Apr 25, 2005 3:19 pm

no you must give him the kiss of death..." you are a nice guy, but..."

hotsauce · Post by **hotsauce** » Mon Apr 25, 2005 3:21 pm

at least when you have a stalker you aren't bored and alone.

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Mon Apr 25, 2005 3:27 pm

hotsauce has a point there!

Wolverine · Post by **Wolverine** » Mon Apr 25, 2005 4:34 pm

good point, sauce. Gotta find the bright side huh?

Tombstone · Post by **Tombstone** » Mon Apr 25, 2005 5:31 pm

"My dad is going to chaperone us for the next 36 dates. Pick me up at 4:30. He wants to get back in time to watch the 6 o'clock news."

koan · Post by **koan** » Mon Apr 25, 2005 6:12 pm

I had a stalker once. Maybe twice...we'll see.

I got meaner and meaner everytime he called (minimum seven times a day on my cell phone at work and left a message every time). He would say things like "I don't know how you expect me to be your boyfriend when you're so mean to me." My response. "I DON'T. THAT'S THE POINT." I finally confronted him as being a stalker. "I don't know where you get off calling me a stalker!" he says. "I don't know where you get off stalking me!" I respond. He finally agreed to leave me alone. It got pretty scary though. I actually gave his name, address and phone number to a few people in case I disappeared. I found this book later.

Anyone with a serious problem,

Here's what the Worst Case Scenario Survival Handbook on dating and sex has to say:(In parts because it's really long)

HOW TO FEND OFF AN OBSESSIVE EX.

1) Make your rejection final and firm.

Do not give your ex a chance to manipulate or negotiate. Refuse all offers for dates, favours and 'friendly meetings'. Express your wish to be left alone. Make sure your body language sends the same message. Do not touch during the rejection, but look your ex firmly in the eyes.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Apr 25, 2005 11:33 pm

skittles2004 wrote: Yeah it is. He stalks her everywhere she goes. He calls her everyhour to see how she's doing. He writes her letters everyday!!!! Crazy freak i'm telling you!

Mmmm...Wonder what the attraction can be?

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Apr 25, 2005 11:34 pm

Tombstone wrote: "My dad is going to chaperone us for the next 36 dates. Pick me up at 4:30. He wants to get back in time to watch the 6 o'clock news."That tickled me..:wah:

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Mon Sep 12, 2005 8:27 pm

:-3 I would be very cautious with this guy. Nothing about what he has done is normal, or right. Don't take it lightly that he has been stalking you. He may back off for a bit, and come back mad, and it will increase and become very dangerous. Don't want to alarm you but his behavior is odd, and not to be trusted. :-3 I would be careful for a bit.

pink princess · Post by **pink princess** » Tue Sep 13, 2005 2:42 am

i am so confused!