Do people Change when they get into a Relitionship?

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Musiclover89
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Do people Change when they get into a Relitionship?

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I was wondering if anybody notices if someone they know gets into a relitionship their personality changes slightly as if they don't rely care for you anymore thats happend to me once by a boy in my College class but we had a talk and everythings fine now
"Why not just tell people I'm an alien from Mars. Tell them I eat live chickens and do a voodoo dance at midnight. They'll believe anything you say, because you're a reporter. But if I, Michael Jackson, were to say, 'I'm an alien from Mars and I eat live chickens and do a voodoo dance at midnight', people would say, 'Oh, man, that Michael Jackson is nuts. He's cracked up. You can't believe a damn word that comes out of his mouth.' " Michael Jackson
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Do people Change when they get into a Relitionship?

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Change toward the person they are in a relationship with? Or change towards others?
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cinamin;572227 wrote: Change toward the person they are in a relationship with? Or change towards others?


Change towards others like Friends for example
"Why not just tell people I'm an alien from Mars. Tell them I eat live chickens and do a voodoo dance at midnight. They'll believe anything you say, because you're a reporter. But if I, Michael Jackson, were to say, 'I'm an alien from Mars and I eat live chickens and do a voodoo dance at midnight', people would say, 'Oh, man, that Michael Jackson is nuts. He's cracked up. You can't believe a damn word that comes out of his mouth.' " Michael Jackson
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Musiclover89;572228 wrote: Change towards others like Friends for example


Well in my experience, women seem to drop everything when they have a new relationship and focus on the man and what they need to do to keep him. As in forgetting about friends, family, hobbies, and pretty much anything else they were doing before the man came along.
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every one changes when they meet some one , he wont want other guys there taking the mickey making him look bad ,he wont want her mates along yaking about other blokes and vice versa buddy its human nature mate :-6 :-6
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Pinky;572238 wrote: It's the other way around for me. I believe in starting as you mean to go on, and my own space is important to me, as are my friends. It's usually the guys who won't bugger off out with their mates!


Yah when I was married and living with my x-husband my space was important to me. He didn't like that though. I wished that he had a life without me or some kind of hobbies other than me. I guess I was his hobby. But it got tiring after a while.
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Pinky;572246 wrote: I had the same problem. Trouble started when he started getting all up his own ass about stuff, all of a sudden I was too chatty, too lively, etc etc. Because he relied on me, I started to irritate him with the very things that he liked about me.

His problem, not mine.


Yah my x-husband hated it when I'd tell jokes to the people out by the pool. He hated me being friendly with men. Even if he was sitting right there next to me.
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