Don't you hate people who want you to be gelous of them

Musiclover89 · Post by **Musiclover89** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 7:41 am

:-5 i find it so anoying if people want you to be gelous of them just because they have more things than you or whatever the case may be i cant stand those sorta people

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 7:55 am

Yeah Music Lover, I do kinda hate those people. But you have to be sorry for them for being such insecure jerks.

Richard Bell · Post by **Richard Bell** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 11:29 am

Musiclover89;577234 wrote: :-5 i find it so anoying if people want you to be gelous of them just because they have more things than you or whatever the case may be i cant stand those sorta people

Now there's a bit of circuitous logic !

Lon · Post by **Lon** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 11:32 am

Musiclover89;577234 wrote: :-5 i find it so anoying if people want you to be gelous of them just because they have more things than you or whatever the case may be i cant stand those sorta people

How can you tell when someone wants you to be jealous of them?

Musiclover89 · Post by **Musiclover89** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 11:34 am

Lon;577347 wrote: How can you tell when someone wants you to be jealous of them?

The way they act around you for example " I've got loads of rare things on my PC" i think thats the person wanting you to be gelous of them

Lon · Post by **Lon** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 11:49 am

Musiclover89;577350 wrote: The way they act around you for example " I've got loads of rare things on my PC" i think thats the person wanting you to be gelous of them

Just saying that Darren does not necessarily mean they want you to be jealous of them. Could you possibly be jealous or envious without them wanting you to be? Give them the benefit of the doubt and complement them on their "rare things". There will aways be those that have more than we do, are smarter, funnier, more interesting. How we respond to that is our problem and not theirs.

devist8me · Post by **devist8me** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 12:20 pm

Lon;577362 wrote: Just saying that Darren does not necessarily mean they want you to be jealous of them. Could you possibly be jealous or envious without them wanting you to be? Give them the benefit of the doubt and complement them on their "rare things". There will aways be those that have more than we do, are smarter, funnier, more interesting. How we respond to that is our problem and not theirs.

Now I remember why I like reading your posts. xoxo

koan · Post by **koan** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 12:24 pm

To be jealous requires you wanting what they have to the point that you stop liking being yourself. It would be a good goal to reach a point where you can't be jealous of anyone.

CrazyCruizChick · Post by **CrazyCruizChick** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 12:54 pm

Lon;577362 wrote: Just saying that Darren does not necessarily mean they want you to be jealous of them. Could you possibly be jealous or envious without them wanting you to be? Give them the benefit of the doubt and complement them on their "rare things". There will aways be those that have more than we do, are smarter, funnier, more interesting. How we respond to that is our problem and not theirs.

How true :-6

Indian Princess · Post by **Indian Princess** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 1:08 pm

Thats a kind of illness to me, people that want you to feel bad about yourself or life.