Peace in the Garden... a report

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 9:35 am

I thought it might be nice if I told you all something that has happened.

Last week when I did the thread about Tamsen, RG posted and said

some nice things. We've exchanged pm's since. I told her I did appreciate

her ability to put all aside that had gone on between us, and try and

give words of comfort to Paul and I.

So we've "buried the hatchet"... and not in each other's backs.

Life is too short after all.

I encourage people to attempt the same, to reach out. Maybe it won't

work but maybe it will. Worth a try.

:-6

minks · Post by **minks** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 9:40 am

valerie;580270 wrote: I thought it might be nice if I told you all something that has happened.

Last week when I did the thread about Tamsen, RG posted and said

some nice things. We've exchanged pm's since. I told her I did appreciate

her ability to put all aside that had gone on between us, and try and

give words of comfort to Paul and I.

So we've "buried the hatchet"... and not in each other's backs.

Life is too short after all.

I encourage people to attempt the same, to reach out. Maybe it won't

work but maybe it will. Worth a try.

:-6

I think that is a wonderful idea Valerie

koan · Post by **koan** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 9:40 am

I think a lot of bad feelings develop over misunderstandings.

Communication is the key.

That's a great story, val :-6

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 9:50 am

Grudges take too much energy. But everytime i reach out I seem to get my hand slapped. Oh well I shall keep trying.:wah:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 9:57 am

YZGI;580286 wrote: Grudges take too much energy. But everytime i reach out I seem to get my hand slapped. Oh well I shall keep trying.:wah:

its er where your reaching with the hand buddy thats the problem :wah:

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 9:59 am

jimbo;580290 wrote: its er where your reaching with the hand buddy thats the problem :wah:
Finally, someone with a solution. Thanks mate.

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 10:28 am

valerie;580270 wrote: So we've "buried the hatchet"... and not in each other's backs.

Life is too short after all.

I encourage people to attempt the same, to reach out. Maybe it won't

work but maybe it will. Worth a try.

:-6

Wonderful! Because when push comes to shove, *caring* is all that really matters.

Kudos to you, Val and RG, for rising above the unimportant :-6

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 10:28 am

Wow I just saw this...and I'm so pleased! You should see me grinning like a fool here! :-4

It is nice of you to put this here Valerie. I'm sorry it took us so long but we're cool now so that's all that matters.

There are some who think animals don't bring people together. Pfft.

Tamsen's smiling today too.

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 11:22 am

RedGlitter;580311 wrote: Tamsen's smiling today too.

RG :-6

I bet you're right :-4

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 11:29 am

i am glad to see two friends come together..what life is all about....:-4

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 11:31 am

Excellent thread!! Well done you two, it's nice to see people getting on for a change!:wah: :-4

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 11:43 am

AussiePam · Post by **AussiePam** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 12:52 pm

Very nice to see, Valerie and Red Glitter. No point in carrying on old grievances. Where at all possible, I'm all for moving on. :-6

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 12:59 pm

Heck you guys, you know if we can do it, others can, too.

:-6

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 1:05 pm

valerie;580496 wrote: Heck you guys, you know if we can do it, others can, too.

:-6

ok if red and val can do it , i will try and ignore my nemesis , no promises but i will try :-6

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 1:06 pm

valerie;580496 wrote: Heck you guys, you know if we can do it, others can, too.

:-6

O.K. Forum Garden men

Line up and make up with me :p :-4

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 1:08 pm

jimbo;580505 wrote: ok if red and val can do it , i will try and ignore my nemesis , no promises but i will try :-6

;)...

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 1:08 pm

Very Nice

AussiePam · Post by **AussiePam** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 1:10 pm

You have a nemesis, Jimbo? Is this like a virus?

Cher.. there's about five hundred blokes all trying to break down the door here. How about we ration them to a one minute makeup each, and I'll sort maybe just a very small door fee for me as minder (yeah and okay I'll split it with you)..

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 1:10 pm

cherandbuster;580506 wrote: O.K. Forum Garden men

Line up and make up with me

Is that make up or make out???:wah: :wah:

Job well done Val and RG, happy to see that we have some hatchets bein' burried!! :-4

AussiePam · Post by **AussiePam** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 1:11 pm

Make over?

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 1:14 pm

Iam glad to hear it, val and RG. :-4