OK Men - what do you think - are women aggressive or assertive

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Wed May 11, 2005 11:00 pm

Do you like a women who speak their mind or do you like women who cow-tow to you?

gmc · Post by **gmc** » Wed May 11, 2005 11:08 pm

Hang on I'll just ask my wife.

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Wed May 11, 2005 11:16 pm

LOL - so what does that make you?

cars · Post by **cars** » Thu May 12, 2005 3:44 am

Posted by nvalleyvee:

Do you like a women who speak their mind or do you like women who cow-tow to you?

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To be assertive, one has to be aggressive! Every woman on this Forum is just that, no "cow-tows"! No one, Woman or Man, should have to "cow-tow" to anyone! In every "healthy" relationship there's usually a 50-50 split of dominance. Sometimes it can vary depending on the situation, but mostly equal.

Guess the final answer is "NO", don't like Women that cow-tow!! :guitarist

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu May 12, 2005 4:45 am

I'm a vegetarian, don't care for cows much either.

john8pies · Post by **john8pies** » Thu May 12, 2005 5:49 am

I prefer women to speak their mind and say what they feel. Now shut up and get back to that kitchen sink, gal! (JOKE!)

Wolverine · Post by **Wolverine** » Thu May 12, 2005 6:58 am

you tell 'em John!!

No, I don't think any educated man(for jives) would want a completely submissive woman. Although... once in a while it would be nice if you ladies would just give in to one of our silly ideas or requests. Our birthday would be the PERFECT time for that.

"Wear this!"

"But it's uncomfortable"

"So? You ain't gonna' be wearing it long."

gmc · Post by **gmc** » Thu May 12, 2005 10:48 am

I don't mind women speaking their minds but I would like a clearer indication if when a reply is needed so that I know when to pay attention to what they are saying.

Tombstone · Post by **Tombstone** » Thu May 12, 2005 1:10 pm

nvalleyvee wrote: Do you like a women who speak their mind or do you like women who cow-tow to you?
I like a team relationship. Both parties respect each other. Both parties have fun together. Both parties are best friends.

Is there a better way than that?

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Thu May 12, 2005 1:18 pm

Tombstone wrote: Is there a better way than that?Nope. :yh_bigsmi

It's really nice when you find exactly that, too.

And Wolverine: :yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl Love it!!!!! :yh_bigsmi

Tombstone · Post by **Tombstone** » Thu May 12, 2005 1:22 pm

Wolverine wrote: you tell 'em John!!

No, I don't think any educated man(for jives) would want a completely submissive woman. Although... once in a while it would be nice if you ladies would just give in to one of our silly ideas or requests. Our birthday would be the PERFECT time for that.

"Wear this!"

"But it's uncomfortable"

"So? You ain't gonna' be wearing it long."

:yh_rotfl :yh_laugh

Clint · Post by **Clint** » Thu May 12, 2005 1:24 pm

I want women to speak their mind if they have something to say. In the case of my wife, if she is silent I know trouble is brewing. If she speaks out, our relationship is much better and she keeps me out of trouble (when I listen).

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Thu May 12, 2005 1:24 pm

well i believe in being subservient and shy, timid and respectful, dominated and told what to do by my man.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Thu May 12, 2005 1:25 pm

Oh geez, LC....I need to dig out my hip-waders....it's gettin' DEEP in here!!! :yh_bigsmi

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Thu May 12, 2005 1:35 pm

BabyRider wrote: Oh geez, LC....I need to dig out my hip-waders....it's gettin' DEEP in here!!! :yh_bigsmiperhaps i failed to mention i am also heavily armed.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Thu May 12, 2005 1:54 pm

That's more like it! Don't be gettin' all soft on me now!

Clint · Post by **Clint** » Thu May 12, 2005 2:27 pm

lady cop wrote: perhaps i failed to mention i am also heavily armed.

I thought maybe somebody had taken LC's ID. "heavily armed"... now I know who's talkin.

capt_buzzard · Post by **capt_buzzard** » Fri May 13, 2005 2:30 pm

Cheers for Woman Power. Speak up ladies;)

koan · Post by **koan** » Fri May 13, 2005 5:14 pm

Gosh. I was just saying how I hate it when guys cow-tow to me. I recently yelled at a guy for acting like he's afraid of me. Not that he shouldn't be. Just that he shouldn't act like it.

Lon · Post by **Lon** » Fri May 13, 2005 6:50 pm

nvalleyvee wrote: Do you like a women who speak their mind or do you like women who cow-tow to you?
I have been fortunate to have been married to two women (first one is deceased) that are very independent & outspoken,

and wouldn't kow- tow to anyone, even if a gun was put to thier head.