I'm new here so here goes!

Elly-May · Post by **Elly-May** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 1:47 pm

I'm 43. I need a new man, a new job, and some happiness. where do i start?:-6

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 1:53 pm

Elly-May;645012 wrote: I'm 43. I need a new man, a new job, and some happiness. where do i start?:-6

YOU AVOID SOBEREGO'S POSTS :wah: :wah:

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 1:55 pm

Elly-May;645012 wrote: I'm 43. I need a new man, a new job, and some happiness. where do i start?:-6

Find happiness within yourself, a job and man won't give you that. :-6

On a practical note, look what kind of work you'd like to do, if you need new skills pop down to your local college and think about enrolling on a p/t of f/t course. If you have the skills then look on the job centre plus website, or some agency's, send your CV to some company's.

You may meet a man on a course or take up some hobbies, you could meet someone with the same interests as you, I have a couple of friends that do the Internet dating and they seem to be having a good time.

Good luck to you :guitarist

Elly-May · Post by **Elly-May** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 2:08 pm

Suzy. thats a good point about finding happiness within myself. i generally do like myself, although i didn't always! trouble is when it comes to men, they always seem to take advantage of my good nature!:)

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 2:12 pm

Elly-May;645038 wrote: Suzy. thats a good point about finding happiness within myself. i generally do like myself, although i didn't always! trouble is when it comes to men, they always seem to take advantage of my good nature!:)

Only if you allow them to, do friends do that too? If it is a frequent thing then you need to start getting tough with some of them

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 2:12 pm

Elly-May;645038 wrote: Suzy. thats a good point about finding happiness within myself. i generally do like myself, although i didn't always! trouble is when it comes to men, they always seem to take advantage of my good nature!:)

er lend me £50 and do my shopping there's a good girl

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 2:15 pm

Hi and Welcome to FG :-6

G-man · Post by **G-man** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 2:19 pm

Welcome Elly-May! I used to know an Elly... and she was a real hellraiser! :wah:

I believe you'll fit right in here... hellraiser or not.

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 2:25 pm

Elly

If your serious - you won't need the man..

Figure out what avenue of employment you enjoy & excel in - there's nothing like enjoying your job, then the happiness will come and then you can be very particular on who you date etc..

Welcome to the garden - enjoy

Patsy

G-man · Post by **G-man** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 2:28 pm

Patsy Warnick;645056 wrote: Elly

If your serious - you won't need the man..

Figure out what avenue of employment you enjoy & excel in - there's nothing like enjoying your job, then the happiness will come and then you can be very particular on who you date etc..

Welcome to the garden - enjoy

Patsy

That worked for me, but... the problem with me is that I'm an over-achieving, work-a-holic... :rolleyes: ...happy... but ...

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 2:29 pm

almostfamous;645061 wrote: What is it with you and Acc wantin' to borrow money today gollee :rolleyes: :p

will cost you a fifty to find out

Lon · Post by **Lon** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 3:28 pm

Elly-May;645012 wrote: I'm 43. I need a new man, a new job, and some happiness. where do i start?:-6

Start with the job first so that your job change is not influenced by a new realationship. A new job that you like and enjoy will give you not only independence, but a new positive attitude that in turn will lead you to a more positve relationship. Your attitude is responsible for all you seek.

KB. · Post by **KB.** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 3:34 pm

Suzy answered it best, in my hubris filled opinion. No, you don't need a man, but hell they are nice to have around on a cold day. I know I don't need a woman; I like to have em handy though. Got to take care of who and what you are first; no one of the opposite gender can make that happen, at least not to a satisfactory degree.

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 3:39 pm

KB.;645096 wrote: Suzy answered it best, in my hubris filled opinion. No, you don't need a man, but hell they are nice to have around on a cold day. I know I don't need a woman; I like to have em handy though. Got to take care of who and what you are first; no one of the opposite gender can make that happen, at least not to a satisfactory degree.

Thanks KB :-6

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Sun Jun 24, 2007 4:27 pm

Hi Elly-May:) Welcome to FG:wah: