Incapable of love

G-man · Post by **G-man** » Fri Jun 29, 2007 8:01 pm

I've gotta' see this... :p

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Fri Jun 29, 2007 10:32 pm

Pinky;649005 wrote: A mate sussed it out for me.....I'm incapable of loving anyone.

This says it all.

I thought for most of my life I was not able to truley love someone. I felt sooo lonely and kept myself apart....

At some point I had someone approach me and was just a friend........go f-ing figure.... It only takes one person.

I will be here for you.

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 12:45 am

magenta flame;649031 wrote: Pinky, sit down sweety, we need to have a bit of a chat.......You comfy?

I was told from a very early age that we begin to trust and love others when we begin to trust and love ourselves.

I think there is something that you feel is inside of you that you dont' want others to see. It's something that you dont' like about yourself and you believe that if someone else gets close to you and sees what you see they won't love you anymore. SO you do everything in your power to push people away when they get too close. You dont' want to make yourself emotionally vulnerable.

Okay now you can tell me how I wouldn't know **** and I'm talking bollocks:D

good post mf :-6

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 12:50 am

pinky in a way i know where you are coming from.At the age of 18 was jilted my a man i turely loved,i had everything arranged but sadly he just could not through with it:-1

Something went when that happened and even when my daughter was born i could not love her,it took me a along time,now of course she is my life but i still feel that i cant really feel or love like i should.I have found anyone i love i loose and i know that is silly talk ,but that is how i feel about things.I think pinky from what see on here and the way to answer posts you are very caring which to me is a a form of love.:-4 :-4

Uncle Kram · Post by **Uncle Kram** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 1:00 am

You strike me as a very loving and giving person. Don't change.

P.S. Natasha looks a babe

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 1:43 am

Pinky;649005 wrote: A mate sussed it out for me.....I'm incapable of loving anyone.

Some friend :-2

I'd dispute that & say 'you have huge amounts of love, you just give it to the wrong people'

Post by **Betty Boop** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 3:41 am

Pinky;649005 wrote: A mate sussed it out for me.....I'm incapable of loving anyone.

This says it all.

aaggghhhhh :-5 if you are referring to me there Pinky it just goes to show you don't/won't listen.

You need to love yourself before you can love others, you are the that has decided you are incapable, I asked you to rewrite the script.

I said it last night and I'll say it again, you are a beautiful woman.

I suggest we turn this into a compliment Pinky thread and she sits here, reads it and accepts those compliments, not reject them.

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 2:38 pm

hey pinky i think you are

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 2:42 pm

Pinks, your funny (haha funny), trustworthy, genuine, honest, attractive :sneaky: , your laugh makes me laugh, you have so much to offer to the right person, just make sure that they offer you the same.

:-4 :-4 :-4

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 2:47 pm

Pinky;649652 wrote: Thanks mate. Honestly, I was just having a dippy moment...I get a bit neurotic sometimes! Then I come on here and make myself look like a pleb.:-5

I love that about you too, I'm glad that I was too drunk to type last night, I was in a right pi55 taking mood

mikeinie · Post by **mikeinie** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 2:48 pm

I don’t believe it, not for a moment. You can’t write the stuff that you do then say that you are not capable of loving. I am only a junior member and have not been around that long, but from what I have seen I agree with the others.

Good song all the same though! Real melancholy.

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 3:15 pm

Pinky from what i have read you are a very lovable person.

and from the piccie's i have seen you are a beautiful women :-4

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 3:24 pm

Pinky;649703 wrote:

AGH!!! Thanks, but stooooop iiiiiiiiiiiit, pleeeeeeeaaaaase?

I'm not, I'm just ordinary, I've got stretchmarks and love handles like everyone else, haha!

You're ace Pinkchicky!!

but thats what makes us womanly having those curves and love handles, to a guy that is sooo attractive.

and your personality, too me you seem a very warm bubbly girlie :-4 and i am shore in real life that shine's through even more.

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 3:28 pm

:wah: you sneaky :sneaky: pinky