Still in love
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pebbles910
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Still in love
Well this is my first post here. I am 24 yrs old. Married & have a son. I've been thinking about my ex lately a lot. He's been in my dreams and they've mostly been about him coming to get as soon as he can. I don't know what any of this mean. I love my husband & son. But I still have these thoughts of my ex. What is wrong with me. I just talked to him recently and he told me he has been in and out of the doctors because he's got a heart condition now and his cholesterol is to high. His doctor said he can have a heart attack any minute if he doesn't relax more. I am really worried about him and I just want to be next to him to help him out. The time him and I were together was the happiest in my whole life. I don't want to leave my husband but I don't know what to do. He's all I think about some days. 
Still in love
So easier said than done but I was the same about my sons dad. He recently got back in touch after years of not seeing him but a couple of months later I realised it was just the idea of being with him and the memories. I didn't really still love him. I found it helped a whole lot spending time together again, for both of us.
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[love]light
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Still in love
Pebbles, I am in a similar situation. My current boyfriend is all I could ever want, need, or ask for. I would never leave him. However, I still think about my ex. I worry about him all the time, and hope that he begins to make the right choices. I dream about laying so close to him & daydream about him walking thru the door.
What I have never understood is people who are able to turn love off. Its never been possible for me. Once I love someone, thats it, I will love them until the end of my life. The love will change forms, but always be there.
I am waiting for the habit of thinking of the ex to pass... praying that it is only a habit. I guess what we have to do is concentrate on the future & let the past go.
What I have never understood is people who are able to turn love off. Its never been possible for me. Once I love someone, thats it, I will love them until the end of my life. The love will change forms, but always be there.
I am waiting for the habit of thinking of the ex to pass... praying that it is only a habit. I guess what we have to do is concentrate on the future & let the past go.
The most important things in life are:
laughter, love, and a healthy appreciation for the dark side!
laughter, love, and a healthy appreciation for the dark side!
Still in love
'[love wrote: light;669412']
What I have never understood is people who are able to turn love off. Its never been possible for me. Once I love someone, thats it, I will love them until the end of my life. The love will change forms, but always be there.
Same here, it doesn't make you a bad person, but there has to be a reason why you are with your husband now and not the other man. I won't attempt to understand it as women are too complicated for a simple cave man like myself. real love doesn't get turned on and off; that my be just my opinion, but I stand firmly by it.
What I have never understood is people who are able to turn love off. Its never been possible for me. Once I love someone, thats it, I will love them until the end of my life. The love will change forms, but always be there.
Same here, it doesn't make you a bad person, but there has to be a reason why you are with your husband now and not the other man. I won't attempt to understand it as women are too complicated for a simple cave man like myself. real love doesn't get turned on and off; that my be just my opinion, but I stand firmly by it.
Life ain't linear.