my mother-in-law very ill

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 12:13 am

My mother=in-law is so poorly,she came down last tues with Diarrhea and it has got worse has the week has been going on.But what as made me so bloody cross is that my father-in-law has played it down:-2 the reason we know how she is because we live near them,but i got hubby to ring his sister and brother yesterday and they had know idea how ill she was.

My sister-in-law changed her sheets and washed her yesterday which is the first time

,i have said to hubby she needs to go into hospital but he is worried that he is interfaring,well i said to him straight deal with that later but you mum needs to get in to hospital.

I have just had a phone call and she is much worse now cant even stand up and she has chronic Diarrhea and bless her she has not had any food since last wed,i am so cross with hubbys dad even when he did ring the doctor he really played it down saying that she was not that bad,oh god i am so bloody cross i just dont know what to say,i just hope he has not left it to late:-1

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 12:27 am

sorry to hear that neffy ,just get her to the hospital

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 12:30 am

thanks jimbo,i am so cross with his dad my mum had that and i got her in the hospital within 24 hours as she was weak and and also being sick.

dunkin · Post by **dunkin** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 12:43 am

Get her to hospital asap

I hope she is ok neffy poor woman.

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 1:30 am

that is something i have tried to make my father-in-law do:o

Ali. · Post by **Ali.** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 2:17 am

Neffy something simmelar happened to my mother in law we didnt no she was as bad as she was,her hubby didnt tell us how sick she was.Unfortunatly we lost her just 3 weeks ago.Get her help asap and go over ur father in laws head if need be please.I hope she recovers.I'll be thinking of u and urs.

Uncle Fester · Post by **Uncle Fester** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 3:41 am

I do hope your Mother in law gets better , also try and think , this is something spouses do we don't want to believe it is happening and rightly or wrongly we don't like to bother family , I know I am between the rock and the hard place at the moment , I am telling my family enough but not all :-4

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 4:32 am

Uncle Fester;682385 wrote: I do hope your Mother in law gets better , also try and think , this is something spouses do we don't want to believe it is happening and rightly or wrongly we don't like to bother family , I know I am between the rock and the hard place at the moment , I am telling my family enough but not all :-4

i understand uncle fester and i respeact that:-4 how is pat ? love to you both xx

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 9:10 am

just thought i would up date you all,my MIL has ben taking to hospital and she is very vevry ill,i will not be on here as much,but will keep you all up dated.

This has bought alot of very upsetting memories for me and i feel very upset for my hubby.

Take care neffers:-1

minks · Post by **minks** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 9:18 am

Hang in there Neffy, I hope the MIL gets better, it's good news she has got to the hospital mind you. It was far to long a time to be left at home that sick, specially to be going that long without food, and likely is seriously dehydrated on top of it all.

Hunny my thoughts are with you and your family

Beams :-6

Post by **Betty Boop** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 9:21 am

:-4 Thoughts and prayers for your mother in law hun.

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 10:55 am

:-1 Neffy I hope she gets better and recovers well.

to go without food for nearly week

Love and Hugs to your family :-4

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Mon Aug 20, 2007 11:23 am

Having got her into hospital you've given her the best possible chance.

May she have a quick and full recovery :-6

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 12:09 am

Update on my MIL she has now been moved to ICU as her kidneys have i just failed:-1 just cant beleieve this has gone this far.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 12:33 am

neffy;682853 wrote: Update on my MIL she has now been moved to ICU as her kidneys have i just failed:-1 just cant beleieve this has gone this far.
Neffers, i am so sorry.

Come here let me give you a hug.

Post by **Betty Boop** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 1:05 am

Neffy & hubby :-4 :yh_hugs

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 1:08 am

i hope all turns out ok neffs :-6:-6

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 2:38 am

Neffy I'm sorry to hear this darlin'

My thoughts and well wishes are with you all

:-4:-4

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 4:28 am

Neffy - :-4:-4 for you all

Helen · Post by **Helen** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 3:23 pm

hi neff,

so sorry to hear about your M-I-L.

my barrie was a bit like that, he couldnt handle illness very well but when his son had cancer, he coped brilliantly.

i remember ages ago, just before xmas, there was a terrible bug going round, people where dropping like flys with it and it took ages to recover from it.

barries answer ?? fresh air and excercise

that is, until he got it !!!!!!!!

he was even hallucinating and i found him going out to open the gate to let the air ambulance people in !!!! ( they wernt coming, it was just in his mind)

when he got better i told him if i ever heard him mention fresh air and excercise again, i'd punch him. !!

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 3:45 pm

Neffi, I hope your MIL is better. All my thoughts are with you. Keep us posted.:-4

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 6:18 am

Ali. · Post by **Ali.** » Fri Aug 24, 2007 12:51 am

Neffy been there thinking of you and your hubby.xx

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Fri Aug 24, 2007 4:43 am

thanks ali,MIL is now on a ventilater and still very ill

-1

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Fri Aug 24, 2007 4:50 am

neffy;684584 wrote: thanks ali,MIL is now on a ventilater and still very ill

-1

We're all thinking of you Neffy:-4

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Fri Aug 24, 2007 6:25 am

sending hugs and love to Neffy and family!!:-4:-4:-4