A few things.

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Fri Sep 28, 2007 4:51 pm

AE

1st How is your neck - is this pain radiating from your neck?

stress?

Patsy

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Fri Sep 28, 2007 4:54 pm

Perhaps a 6 year old shouldn't hang around with kids the age of 12 & 13..??

Maybe you should walk her to the bus stop for awhile.

Patsy

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Fri Sep 28, 2007 5:29 pm

This has been going on for a while hasn't it, with these kids? I'm not saying you should do this but if it were me, I'd go over and ask those brats personally why they wanted to act like that. I'd shame them into feeling bad for how they treated her and I'd ask them how they'd like it if other kids treated them that way. And I'd make them answer me. And then if they turned tail and tried to be friendly with Tiff, I'd tell her to dump them. You and I can see these kids aren't worth having as friends but I know that's hard to make a 6 year old understand that.

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Fri Sep 28, 2007 5:37 pm

AE

I didn't realise there were other kids your daughter's age.

So its the older kids that are the brats - all thats left to do is talk directly to them.

Tell them if they want some one to pick on theres always you..

I'd be very stern with them - I can't stand this type of behavior..

Your shoulder - have you picked something up lately? Pushed something?

Can you roll your shoulder at all?

A doctors visit will direct you to use ice & heat

Good luck

Patsy

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Fri Sep 28, 2007 5:40 pm

I have this shoulder pain that is worse than any pain I've ever had in my life. If I move my shoulder too much it aches and hurts soo bad. I can't sleep on my left side, pick anything up, touch my shoulder, Massages make it WORSE & i can't put any kinds of pressure on it. Now I know I need to see a doctor. I am thinking I could have just slept wrong or something.

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Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Fri Sep 28, 2007 5:41 pm

I don't understand this your daughter is 6 yrs old

what on earth could she be doing that another 6 yr old doesn't do..?

Whats wrong with these parents?

Patsy

Lisa · Post by **Lisa** » Fri Sep 28, 2007 5:44 pm

I wouLd be Pi$$ed too. how in the world could a 6 year old be a bad influence. sound like the parents are the bad examples.some adults never grow up.

I would be mad at my daughter ,and she would be in trouble if I found out she was being mean to another kid.

You didn't mention how long you shoulder has been hurting

Do go see a doctor if it doesn't feel better soon.

:)

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Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Fri Sep 28, 2007 6:06 pm

AE

Question - once the kids get to the school bus, is everything OK on the bus?

and is everything OK at school?

You could threaten these kids with reporting their behavior to the bus driver & school teachers - Principal - administration.

Patsy

Lisa · Post by **Lisa** » Fri Sep 28, 2007 6:44 pm

AngelEyes82;701767 wrote: 3 days now. It gets worse and worse everyday.

OUCH!

I always tell her to be nice to other kids and treat them the way she wants to be treated. It's ridiculous how they are acting towards her. What's wierd is she acts like she really doesn't care. She just goes on playing with them and saying A will always be her best friend.

Bless her little heart.:-1

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Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Sat Sep 29, 2007 2:01 am

Angel Eyes,

It sounds to me as if you may have pinched or trapped a nerve. If it's inflamed then massaging it will only make it more painful. Ibuprofin is good for reducing swelling and as a painkiller, but you should probably see your doc too. Rest that shoulder, ease up on using that arm and hand for a while. :yh_hugs

Kids can be little sods and girls can be total bit**es! Talk to the head at the 12 year old's school. The younger sister is looking up to her older sister and copying her. She'd be fine with Tiff if the older one left them both alone. Obviously the older one is channelling her angry teen hormones and being shirty with everyone, but what she's doing is also bullying! Get a teacher to talk to her and make her see how unkind it is. Why isn't she walking with kids her own age? Has she been ostracised by her peers? Are her parents on her case all the time? Maybe a teacher could find out whats causing her to take her repressed anger out on Tiff. Tell the teacher how worried you are and how its affecting Tiff (spread it on thick!

) You need to tackle this or it'll just carry on and poor little Tiff will be miserable.

Best of luck sweetie and thanks for inviting me to your forum. I've visited a few times but don't get a lot of time to join in lately. Hugs to you and Tiff. :yh_hugs :yh_hugs