Cool on the mojo!! I still got it if its what Immy and Sheryl said!! everything but the candy bar from the UK of course!

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Okay, I wanted to give an update!! On Tuesday night, I had to go pick up my son from work, after dropping my other two boys off from Karate, bascially drove 30 miles roundtrip twice back to back.... On the way home my son and I started out civil and we really tried not to fight, but it was inevidible....so as I turned into the drive way....I am ashamed to admit, I lost it...I went off and said some really really ugly things, the worst of all, what I've promised myself I'd NEVER ever say to my son, and it came out!! "YOU are just like your father" Then there was door slammin' and angry people going their own way into the house and the younger two are looking at me like "HUH????"
About 10 minutes later, my oldest comes in my room and asks me if we can have a clean slate, he was crying and said he was so sorry....there was other stuff to, but the main thing is that we hugged I told him I loved him and .....I have my sweet boy back!! He hasn't screamed or hollered, I know its only 3 days, but trust me this was going on for months now and was getting to be a daily event. To the point (and I told him this) that we didn't want him around....
Last night I was on the way to pick up the boys from Karate and the oldest called and asked if I'd come pick him up....so I did with the boys in the car, it was the first time that I can remember in a very long time that we were all in the car, and I was the driver! He was in a very good mood, and we laughed and giggled and joked with each other on the way home, like I LIKE IT!! They had me laughing so hard I was crying.
So, thank you to all my friends, happy to report things are better so far!!:-4