How old, how young?

Indian Princess · Post by **Indian Princess** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 7:18 am

When you are an ADULT, I stress that because of the following statement, when you are seeing someone how old is too much older and how young is to young?

Just wondering what everyones opinion is, I am attracted to OLDER men, my last boyfriend of (7 ) years was 17 and a 1/2 years older.

I am 40 but have been told I look barely 30, and not to sound vain, I do only look 30, THANK GOD THE GENES OF MY ANCESTORS AND MARY KAY COSMETIC AND SKINCARE

JacksDad · Post by **JacksDad** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 7:33 am

I happen to seeing someone 10 years older than me.

No problems here.

:D

Indian Princess · Post by **Indian Princess** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 7:36 am

my dreams are crushed now, I thought you were available Ha Ha Ha

Thats great! good for you.

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 7:46 am

my range right now would be roughly from 28-48, give or take, and also depending on the person.

:p

JacksDad · Post by **JacksDad** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 7:59 am

Indian Princess;716502 wrote: my dreams are crushed now, I thought you were available Ha Ha Ha

Thats great! good for you.

I was but then this pretty lady came along and.........

Uncle Kram · Post by **Uncle Kram** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 8:32 am

sunny104;716505 wrote: my range right now would be roughly from 28-48, give or take, and also depending on the person.

:p

Just checking my Birth Certificate. :yh_battin

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 8:40 am

Uncle Kram;716517 wrote: Just checking my Birth Certificate. :yh_battin

I'd make an exception for you regardless.....:sneaky:

:-4

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 5:48 pm

It depends on the person, I've dated older, younger and same age....and it depends on the individual imo....-1

Indian Princess · Post by **Indian Princess** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 6:02 pm

dust off the birth certificate you may qualify! Ha. Ha.

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 6:22 pm

my range, from 10 y ears younger to 3 years older. I am far to immature for an older man. :wah:

Post by **spot** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 6:26 pm

Damn, minksie, that puts me twenty years past the frame.

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 6:27 pm

spot;716756 wrote: Damn, minksie, that puts me twenty years past the frame.

EXCEPT FOR SPOT

:-4

koan · Post by **koan** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 6:31 pm

There has to be a balance of power. As soon as the balance goes the relationship spirals down. People evaluate their assets and age can be a benefit or a negative depending who and what.

Age doesn't matter any further than the value assigned to it by the individuals.

JacksDad · Post by **JacksDad** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 6:34 pm

minks;716752 wrote: my range, from 10 y ears younger to 3 years older. I am far to immature for an older man. :wah:

That trait can be quite appealing.

:D

watermark · Post by **watermark** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 7:14 pm

Hi-

After being married all those years and suddenly I'm on my own I swear to god I can't tell how old anybody is! Makes me a bit nervous as I don't want to flirt with a 19 year old. Last week I was at a convenience store buying discounted ciggies for the second time. The clerk was young and sort of just appealing, you know, in his own way. So I ask for the cigs and he says oh, sorry, you cleaned us out last time. So I said alright, no problem just give me the regular. And when I go to leave he says, hey, arent you W***'s mom? And I say yeah I am! (a little embarrassed not only because of being so cheap buying the half price cigs, but also for harboring these ideas that he was interesting

) He tells me who he is, a classmate of my son's, they were friends back in jr high. I felt so stupid. These little kids grow up and don't look a thing like they did.

But to answer your question, I prefer someone in the baby boomer generation.

Erin

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 7:35 pm

JacksDad;716761 wrote: That trait can be quite appealing.

:D

hah thanks JD

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 7:36 pm

watermark;716772 wrote: Hi-

After being married all those years and suddenly I'm on my own I swear to god I can't tell how old anybody is! Makes me a bit nervous as I don't want to flirt with a 19 year old. Last week I was at a convenience store buying discounted ciggies for the second time. The clerk was young and sort of just appealing, you know, in his own way. So I ask for the cigs and he says oh, sorry, you cleaned us out last time. So I said alright, no problem just give me the regular. And when I go to leave he says, hey, arent you W***'s mom? And I say yeah I am! (a little embarrassed not only because of being so cheap buying the half price cigs, but also for harboring these ideas that he was interesting

) He tells me who he is, a classmate of my son's, they were friends back in jr high. I felt so stupid. These little kids grow up and don't look a thing like they did.

But to answer your question, I prefer someone in the baby boomer generation.

Erin

Oiy good thing you didn't speak yer mind at the time eh Erin. hehehe

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Wed Nov 07, 2007 7:13 am

spot;716756 wrote: Damn, minksie, that puts me twenty years past the frame.

damn!

*sunny adds another name to the age-exempt list* :sneaky:

Post by **spot** » Wed Nov 07, 2007 10:32 am

sunny104;716879 wrote: *sunny adds another name to the age-exempt list* :sneaky: :DSunny, I think we just broke the record for attraction across an age gap.

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Wed Nov 07, 2007 10:42 am

spot;716993 wrote: Sunny, I think we just broke the record for attraction across an age gap.

pfft! hardly!

Post by **spot** » Wed Nov 07, 2007 10:45 am

sunny104;717002 wrote: pfft! hardly! :DI was talking about the degree of attraction, not the age difference...

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Wed Nov 07, 2007 10:54 am

spot;717004 wrote: I was talking about the degree of attraction, not the age difference...

I see that's what you meant after reading it a second time. :-4

my goofiness is just part of my charm, huh??

Post by **spot** » Wed Nov 07, 2007 10:58 am

sunny104;717010 wrote: my goofiness is just part of my charm, huh?? :DYou missed a perfect comeback there - it should have been "pfft! hardly!"

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Wed Nov 07, 2007 11:08 am

spot;717015 wrote: You missed a perfect comeback there - it should have been "pfft! hardly!"

I have loved you since first setting foot in the garden almost 2 years ago.....

:-4