why no photo's

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 10:17 am

jimbo;720058 wrote: i dont get this at all

so fez ant are you telling me that people are so shallow that they would ignore some one who is nice kind funny and would rather talk to someone that is not so nice and funny but is good looking

i mean why

its not even as if you could meet up with them they could be halfway across the planet :-3

Not me personally - in fact I would go as far as to say, that the better looking men I have met in the past are VERY boring and too damn full of themselves IMO.

But yes there are a lot of people out there (sadly mostly men) that would choice the looks first. Very shallow, but sadly true.

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 10:31 am

Having said that, maybe you should ignore my last post - cos I was referring more to people wanting to meet partners in-real life, and that was not the point you were making. :-5

So keeping on track (I do try honest :-2), no, I do not think that people would decide whether or not to chat with someone on-line based on looks. I think its more based on personality, interests and sense of humour.

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 11:20 am

Or it could be like me, I hate having my photo taking, I'm not photogenic at all, I always feel like a complete minger when I see pictures of myself and would rather not inflict that on my friends here!!!:D

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 11:20 am

I sometimes post my photo but i have always got one on my profile too.

i might change it again for a bit too.

Minks and Pheasy I love both your new avatars :-4

and i really like abbey's siggi,

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 11:37 am

jimbo;720083 wrote: i tell you what immy there is sod all wrong with your eyesight :wah::wah:

just kidding immy

you are one of my faves :-6

its the beauty inside that counts .... suzy and i have loads of photo's from the fg meet up .... whats it worth not to post them mwaaaooohh mwaaaooohhh

Well post away then sunshine, actually I willing put piccies on now, I've been here long enough now not to be bothered if people think I'm a minger or not, muppets like you will still talk to me!!!!!

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 11:42 am

I just seen something about an FG meet up,

it would be good to have another one, there are soo many people

i would love to meet.

except,

Jimbo, Jess, Pink Chick and Neffy :p

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 11:50 am

littlemissgiggle;720093 wrote: I just seen something about an FG meet up,

it would be good to have another one, there are soo many people

i would love to meet.

except,

Jimbo, Jess, Pink Chick and Neffy :p

Quite agree, he's soooooo horrible, I hated meeting him and his builders car!!!:D:D

Nah, next meet up count me in, such a laugh!

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 12:40 pm

:yh_rotfllittlemissgiggle;720093 wrote: I just seen something about an FG meet up,

it would be good to have another one, there are soo many people

i would love to meet.

except,

Jimbo, Jess, Pink Chick and Neffy :p

:yh_rotfl

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 12:50 pm

pinkchick;720116 wrote: :yh_rotfl

:yh_rotfl

you think I am joking :sneaky:

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 12:58 pm

I can understand why some of you prefer not to publish photos of yourselves on a public 'chat' site. I respect their reasons, and I do not think that it matters that much although I personally like to 'see' who I chat to on here. For me it's nice to be able to put a 'face' to the typing, but it isn't the end of the world if I don't know what they look like. As Jim says, it is the inner self of the person you communicate with - the personality, the humour, and possibly the ability for serious discussion - that is the important thing. Mind you I do have to chuckle a bit when I have to check somebody's profile just to see whether they are a Mr. or a Mrs. (or maybe a Miss), because their site name doesn't give anything away ! Cases in point Imladris and Pheasant !!!! Whereas with a site name like mine you'd think that it was fairly obvious that I am female (this is before I had my photo included) , but not according to one person who asked antagonistically whether I was the 'husband' or 'lover' of a lady FG member I was talking to! :yh_rotfl Mind you I felt I had to excuse her because she was American and of course they have male Gils (but with one L I believe). It turned out though that she and my friend had crossed swords in the past, and the American was just trying to start it all up again. However I believe certain Moderators stepped in and the American lady has voluntarily left the site.

:yh_hugs:yh_peace

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 1:24 pm

G#Gill;720141 wrote: I can understand why some of you prefer not to publish photos of yourselves on a public 'chat' site. I respect their reasons, and I do not think that it matters that much although I personally like to 'see' who I chat to on here. For me it's nice to be able to put a 'face' to the typing, but it isn't the end of the world if I don't know what they look like. As Jim says, it is the inner self of the person you communicate with - the personality, the humour, and possibly the ability for serious discussion - that is the important thing. Mind you I do have to chuckle a bit when I have to check somebody's profile just to see whether they are a Mr. or a Mrs. (or maybe a Miss), because their site name doesn't give anything away ! Cases in point Imladris and Pheasant !!!! Whereas with a site name like mine you'd think that it was fairly obvious that I am female (this is before I had my photo included) , but not according to one person who asked antagonistically whether I was the 'husband' or 'lover' of a lady FG member I was talking to! Mind you I felt I had to excuse her because she was American and of course they have male Gils (but with one L I believe). It turned out though that she and my friend had crossed swords in the past, and the American was just trying to start it all up again. However I believe certain Moderators stepped in and the American lady has voluntarily left the site.

:yh_hugs:

:wah: I like to keep everyone guessing ....... but just for you I attach my piccy

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 1:35 pm

littlemissgiggle;720124 wrote: you think I am joking :sneaky:

You mean you really DON'T want to meet me?? EVER????:-1

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 1:35 pm

G#Gill;720141 wrote: I can understand why some of you prefer not to publish photos of yourselves on a public 'chat' site. I respect their reasons, and I do not think that it matters that much although I personally like to 'see' who I chat to on here. For me it's nice to be able to put a 'face' to the typing, but it isn't the end of the world if I don't know what they look like. As Jim says, it is the inner self of the person you communicate with - the personality, the humour, and possibly the ability for serious discussion - that is the important thing. Mind you I do have to chuckle a bit when I have to check somebody's profile just to see whether they are a Mr. or a Mrs. (or maybe a Miss), because their site name doesn't give anything away ! Cases in point Imladris and Pheasant !!!! Whereas with a site name like mine you'd think that it was fairly obvious that I am female (this is before I had my photo included) , but not according to one person who asked antagonistically whether I was the 'husband' or 'lover' of a lady FG member I was talking to! :yh_rotfl Mind you I felt I had to excuse her because she was American and of course they have male Gils (but with one L I believe). It turned out though that she and my friend had crossed swords in the past, and the American was just trying to start it all up again. However I believe certain Moderators stepped in and the American lady has voluntarily left the site.

:D:yh_hugs:yh_peace

I checked for you, definately female.................hang on.....................yep, they're not man boobs, definately girlie ones!!!

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 1:41 pm

pinkchick;720009 wrote: I'm afraid I'd scare y'all away Jimbo Pinkchick is adorable....outside and IN!! :-4

jimbo;720037 wrote: do you guys really really believe that people would not post to you as much or not like you as much if you were not good looking

i can honestly say that the people i like on fg i like for the people they are not for the way they look

and if i did not like someone it would not matter how good looking they were i'd still not like them

do you think that maybe we put to much importance on looks
I agree that society puts a strain on the outside appearance, but I would like to think that I'm not like that at all..I could care less what everyone looks like....I enjoy people for WHO they are, not how they look....I do think that everyone that I've come into contact with (on a positive level-of course) at FG are absolutely BEAUTIFUL people and I mean that..

ThePheasant;720153 wrote: I like to keep everyone guessing ....... but just for you I attach my piccy

I thought you were going to only put that on the "Cross-dressers go wild" site!!:wah:

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 2:01 pm

WonderWendy3;720169 wrote: Pinkchick is adorable....outside and IN!! :-4

I agree that society puts a strain on the outside appearance, but I would like to think that I'm not like that at all..I could care less what everyone looks like....I enjoy people for WHO they are, not how they look....I do think that everyone that I've come into contact with (on a positive level-of course) at FG are absolutely BEAUTIFUL people and I mean that..

I thought you were going to only put that on the "Cross-dressers go wild" site!!:wah:

Thank you petal :-4

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 3:53 pm

I was joking chicky :-4

your one of the people the i most want to meet.

Pheasy that picture has scared me

i am now disturbed for the rest of my life :sneaky:

let me see if i can add a picture of me,

i am ugly in and out so it may not work :p

koan · Post by **koan** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 6:05 pm

There.

I used to have my pic as an avatar, just got tired of looking at myself.

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:50 pm

Little MISSSSSSSSSSSSs.....I've seen you...you are beautiful!!:-4

And I agree Koan...I get tired of seeing my own picture....plus I'd like to think I look more like Linda Carter.....makes me happy!:D

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 10:20 am

jimbo;720377 wrote: i just like to see who i'm posting too

mind you tatter tazz has posted about 30 different piccy's of herself

apperently she looked like a cartoon life guard all along :wah::wah:
Next you will be saying Wilma Flinstone and Betty Rubble are cartoons.pfft

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 10:25 am

aww thanks WW3 :-4

i tried to upload a picture of myself but it said the file was too big,

its one that was took at my aunties wedding last year and though i say myself i think its a better one of me.

i will keep trying.

i really liked that song that Musiclover did with all the pictures it was really nice to put a face to forum name

and i think we are a lovely bunch here on FG

KB. · Post by **KB.** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 10:26 am

Everyone is beautiful to someone. Looks are subjective and relative. I ain't the best looking guy in the world, but I do alright. The same goes for the rest of you. Just have to remember that the world sees you as you see yourself. It starts with you.

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 12:17 pm

I agree in that it's nice to see who you're talking with. But I also respect the choice of those who would rather remain incognito. I started putting my picture up as an avatar because I figured with some of the opinions I hold, I have to have the guts to stand behind them. When I was a cute, fuzzy seal on here, it was easy to hide but I got tired of that. I wanted people to see that there really is a RedGlitter behind all that blah-blah.

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 12:28 pm

I think I might change mine again soon. I feel a little naked without my feathers.

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 12:33 pm

ThePheasant;720433 wrote: I think I might change mine again soon. I feel a little naked without my feathers.

Yeah....you kinda look like my legs three days after shaving...not sure if that's the look you were going for...:wah:

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 12:37 pm

RedGlitter;720435 wrote: Yeah....you kinda look like my legs three days after shaving...not sure if that's the look you were going for...:wah:

:yh_rotfl Yikes!

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 12:39 pm

I think a lot of people worry too much about their own looks, and what other people think of them. I dont care what people look like

, never have really, i like to get to know a person, whatever they look like.

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 12:55 pm

jimbo;720395 wrote: i'd like to see what bryn mawr, ip and tatter tazz looks like

and then i'll post one of snookums naked :wah::wah:

I posted a photograph of myself some while ago - you must have blinked and missed it :p

cars · Post by **cars** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 1:04 pm

kazalala;720439 wrote: I think a lot of people worry too much about their own looks, and what other people think of them. I dont care what people look like

, never have really, i like to get to know a person, whatever they look like.

AMEN!

Many times people are really good looking on the outside, & then turn out to be really ugly on the inside!!!

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 2:03 pm

Snookums NAKED????

:eek::rolleyes::yh_clap:yh_clap

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 2:09 pm

WonderWendy3;720487 wrote: Snookums NAKED????

:eek::rolleyes::yh_clap:yh_clap
I think I just urped up a little in my throat.

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 2:21 pm

YZGI;720491 wrote: I think I just urped up a little in my throat.

Okay....well, now that you have the visual...wanna share??

dubs · Post by **dubs** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 3:09 pm

cars;720454 wrote: AMEN!

Many times people are really good looking on the outside, & then turn out to be really ugly on the inside!!!

Dammit Cars, I'm inside out! :wah::wah:

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 3:13 pm

dubs;720519 wrote: Dammit Cars, I'm inside out! :wah::wah:

does that mean that you are naked?

:wah::wah:

And NO I did not ask that in my boomhour voice!

dubs · Post by **dubs** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 3:23 pm

WonderWendy3;720521 wrote: does that mean that you are naked?

:wah::wah:

And NO I did not ask that in my boomhour voice!

I might be!.....

Mia · Post by **Mia** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 3:59 pm

Jimbo,I can't be doing with putting my pic on here,as all the male members would fall madly in love and start stalking me.ROFL

:D:D:D

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 4:50 pm

jimbo;720587 wrote: yup i bet you would hate a male member with a stalk on :wah::wah::wah::wah:3rd good laugh of the night

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Thu Nov 15, 2007 5:24 pm

abbey;720597 wrote: :wah:3rd good laugh of the night

I agree, I wanted to come back with something witty.....notice I just came back to 2nd Abbey's post!!:o

Jimbo---you are one of a kind!:wah::-4

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Fri Nov 16, 2007 7:48 am

RedGlitter;720435 wrote: Yeah....you kinda look like my legs three days after shaving...not sure if that's the look you were going for...:wah:

:wah: This deeply disturbed me Terri. So I've put my feathers back on :wah: