alone for Xmas

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:15 am

Is anyone here going to be on their own for christmas?

I might be, will find out for sure pretty soon, and i'm really not looking forward to it...i hate being alone at any time :-1

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:18 am

Well you can always come here.

A day with me should cure that.

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:25 am

Nomad;724711 wrote: Well you can always come here.

A day with me should cure that.

:wah: thanks nomad...i think, i'll bare that in mind

SlipStream · Post by **SlipStream** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:27 am

sure hope nut :-5

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:28 am

Ahhhh Kinks, why might you be alone...hope all is ok:-6

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:29 am

or here hun, I would have ya for christmas you and the kidlets

I won't quite be alone bless my folks my I will spend it with them

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:35 am

Kathy Ellen;724715 wrote: Ahhhh Kinks, why might you be alone...hope all is ok:-6

Well i wasn't going to post it on here but i'm sure i know you all enough by now.

Hubby might be getting sent ti iraq AGAIN and if he does go then he's going just before christmas. :-5

I know it's his job and all but he chose to come here, cos it's a none deployable post, so it was like a 2 year break from that.

So to me, that's like a contract has been broken if they send him

Was that too much detail? :wah:

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:37 am

minks;724716 wrote: or here hun, I would have ya for christmas you and the kidlets

I won't quite be alone bless my folks my I will spend it with them

Thanks minks, that's very kind :-4

but i guess i have been without him for months on end before, so should be used to it by now

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:39 am

kinks;724721 wrote: Thanks minks, that's very kind :-4

but i guess i have been without him for months on end before, so should be used to it by now

aw hunny it's just the pits when it happens around christmas though isn't it

Well if it does happen here's early wishes of a safe deployment for your hubby.

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:43 am

minks;724725 wrote: aw hunny it's just the pits when it happens around christmas though isn't it

Well if it does happen here's early wishes of a safe deployment for your hubby.

Thanks hun :-4

I'm probably worrying about nothing, but that's me all over :wah:

Well at least i'll still have my kids, so it won't be so bad

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:45 am

kinks;724729 wrote: Thanks hun :-4

I'm probably worrying about nothing, but that's me all over :wah:

i think I would be doing the same thing sweetie, I spose if it does happen you will just have to keep busy with all your buds here online

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:46 am

D@mn, I keep getting kicked off this site...no server found:sneaky:

Kinks,

I am so sorry to hear this sad news, and it's also sadder around a holiday. I hope that hubby will be home for Christmas. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. If not, you'll just have to spend a lot more time in the FG and CZ. When will you know for sure?

Sending best wishes for you and family.:-4

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:47 am

Kathy Ellen;724734 wrote: D@mn, I keep getting kicked off this site...no server found:sneaky:

Kinks,

I am so sorry to hear this sad news, and it's also sadder around a holiday. I hope that hubby will be home for Christmas. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. If not, you'll just have to spend a lot more time in the FG and CZ. When will you know for sure?

Sending best wishes for you and family.:-4

KE don't utter threats to your computer it may never let you back in hehehe

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:51 am

Hey Minx...good to see you. I was so mad at this animal computer that I slammed the mouse down upon the table and started yelling at the poor thing...I'm cracking up.....:wah:

Btw...love your avatar and little beetles:-6

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:55 am

Kathy Ellen;724739 wrote: Hey Minx...good to see you. I was so mad at this animal computer that I slammed the mouse down upon the table and started yelling at the poor thing...I'm cracking up.....:wah:

Btw...love your avatar and little beetles:-6

OH KE I hope it does not rebel and lock you out, mouse slamming is not a good start to a good relationship with your puter hehehehe. Yeah I hear your frustration, days like that are best left to reading a good book.

Hey thanks for the compliment on my critters, I was just in the mood for some bugs hehehehe I kinda like bugs.

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:56 am

Well i should know within a couple of weeks at the most, cos it's only about 4 weeks till the date that is set.

You know, i just realised how selfish i sound, going on about me being alone

Of course i was thinking about my husband being stuck out there for Xmas, it's bound to be A LOT harder for him than it will be for me

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:58 am

You're not being selfish Kinks....It's hard being apart for everyone. Stay strong and try not to worry too much....I know that's hard to do.

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 11:59 am

nothing selfish about it hun, it's normal to be worried about your mate.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 12:04 pm

I dont know if its the war machine propaganda blowing smoke up our a*s*ses or not but they do say its getting a little better there.

Thats something.

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 12:07 pm

Nomad;724755 wrote: I dont know if its the war machine propaganda blowing smoke up our a*s*ses or not but they do say its getting a little better there.

Thats something.

I hope that is true.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 12:09 pm

minks;724761 wrote: I hope that is true.

Merry XMas beetles ?

You should be in the Whos Crazier Poll !

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 12:11 pm

I hope that you get to spend xmas with your hubby kinks, I am single and I live by myself so xmas alone is not something that bothers me, as I always spend it at my family home with the ma and the sister anyway, as its kinda our tradition. Though it will be nice to get to play with toys again whenever I have kids (hopefully at least one boy!), men eh? We never grow up! :-6

JacksDad · Post by **JacksDad** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 12:17 pm

Galbally;724770 wrote: I hope that you get to spend xmas with your hubby kinks, I am single and I live by myself so xmas alone is not something that bothers me, as I always spend it at my family home with the ma and the sister anyway, as its kinda our tradition. Though it will be nice to get to play with toys again whenever I have kids (hopefully at least one boy!), men eh? We never grow up! :-6

Careful Galbally.

I got yelled at for doing that.

:wah:

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 12:21 pm

Nomad;724765 wrote: Merry XMas beetles ?

You should be in the Whos Crazier Poll !

eh hem, they are called christmas beetles I kid you not I will find you a link, brb.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 12:22 pm

minks;724778 wrote: eh hem, they are called christmas beetles I kid you not I will find you a link, brb.

No thats ok.....really.

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 12:25 pm

Nomad;724780 wrote: No thats ok.....really.

you don't know what you are missing ahahahah

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 12:25 pm

Galbally;724770 wrote: I hope that you get to spend xmas with your hubby kinks, I am single and I live by myself so xmas alone is not something that bothers me, as I always spend it at my family home with the ma and the sister anyway, as its kinda our tradition. Though it will be nice to get to play with toys again whenever I have kids (hopefully at least one boy!), men eh? We never grow up! :-6

Thanks Galbally

I'm glad you still get to spend Xmas with your family

I know what you mean about you men never growing up, my hubby was walking round the toy shop picking up big remote control hellicopters saying " Dylan just told me he want's this for christmas" but said it with that look on his face :sneaky: :wah:

Nomad;724755 wrote: I dont know if its the war machine propaganda blowing smoke up our a*s*ses or not but they do say its getting a little better there.

Thats something.

I hope you are right about that, but it doesn't stop the worry though

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 12:49 pm

you know i am always here for you huni :-4

and thank you for the message,

When i get back on it will be great to get that info.

xxx :-6

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 1:20 pm

Hope your hubby doesnt end up having to go hun and you can all enjoy xmas together :-6

cars · Post by **cars** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 1:24 pm

Kinks, just lock him in the closet & don't let him out till after Christmas! :wah: By that time it will be too late for him to go!!! :rolleyes::);)

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 1:26 pm

Kinks :-4 I hope you get to spend Xmas with hubby. :-4

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 2:03 pm

JacksDad;724775 wrote: Careful Galbally.

I got yelled at for doing that.

:wah:

What did you get yelled for?

Being Single?

Living by Yourself?

Going home to your mams for Christmas

Playing with your kids toys?

Or all of the above?

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 2:07 pm

kinks;724782 wrote: Thanks Galbally

I'm glad you still get to spend Xmas with your family

I know what you mean about you men never growing up, my hubby was walking round the toy shop picking up big remote control hellicopters saying " Dylan just told me he want's this for christmas" but said it with that look on his face :sneaky: :wah:

Yep that sounds like me in about 10 years I would imagine. Though I think my kids are really gonna love a train set, some Scaletrix cars, Mechano, and lots of robot type things that will jump around and do things. Well they better if they know what's good for them. :wah:

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 4:08 pm

Dam kinks what a bummer!!! and here was i moaning cos i was panicking it was just gonna be me an hubs for christmas dinner when i usually have a houseful! I do hope he doesnt have to be over there for christmas , although of course would be better if he didnt have to go at all:-4:-4

Mia · Post by **Mia** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 4:21 pm

kinks;724709 wrote: Is anyone here going to be on their own for christmas?

I might be, will find out for sure pretty soon, and i'm really not looking forward to it...i hate being alone at any time :-1

Kinks depends what you mean by alone,I was alone for quite a few years when I split from first hubby,I had my two little boys ,but come Christmas night,they where i bed and I was alone,].Noy anymore I met my man,never give up.

xx

Indian Princess · Post by **Indian Princess** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 4:33 pm

Not alone, you have your children, and us!!!!!!!!!!! girl you better get one HUGE

TURKEY because we are all coming over.:wah:

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Sat Nov 24, 2007 4:34 pm

Big hugs to you Kinks!!:yh_hugs:yh_hugs

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Sun Nov 25, 2007 3:30 am

Thanks, to all of you, you're great :-4

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Sun Nov 25, 2007 3:32 am

Indian Princess;724945 wrote: Not alone, you have your children, and us!!!!!!!!!!! girl you better get one HUGE

TURKEY because we are all coming over.:wah:

:wah:Well,

the size of the turkey i will need to get for all of you, i better go out and get it and start cooking it now :wah:

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:18 am

I think we all need to remind ourselves that a good Chrismas holiday doesn't mean a perfect Christmas holiday. We all have to look at our life situations this year, count our blessings, and go from there. We all are not going to celebrate the holidays like they show on TV and Christmas cards. We all have memories, and we all will miss the loved ones who will not be able to be with us on that day. We all will just wake up on Christmas morning and hug those who are there, share tokens of our love, maybe go to a Christmas service, and share a meal. It may be just another day, but this is a day to count our blessings, pray for peace, and just enjoy the essence of the season. Make happy Christmas memories for your children by laughing with them. singing with them, decorating with them, baking with them.....things like that.

Anyone who is truly alone for Christmas is never truly alone. All they have to do is reach out to others. Maybe, we all need to do that.

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Mon Nov 26, 2007 1:02 am

YAY

HE'S STAYING

He will be home for christmas........feeling really happy now

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Mon Nov 26, 2007 2:02 am

Im happy that your happy that he's happy that your all together for Xmas:):):)

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Mon Nov 26, 2007 2:44 am

Chezzie;725771 wrote: Im happy that your happy that he's happy that your all together for Xmas:):):)

Took me a few seconds to get my head round that but i got it :wah:

Thanks very much Chezzie :-6

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Mon Nov 26, 2007 2:46 am

soz hun, been decorating the kitchen all weekend and I think the paint fumes have haggled my lonely brain cell lol x

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Mon Nov 26, 2007 6:30 am

Thats great news, glad you will all be safe.

cars · Post by **cars** » Mon Nov 26, 2007 6:35 am

kinks;725756 wrote: YAY

HE'S STAYING

He will be home for christmas........feeling really happy now

A very MERRY CHRISTMAS in deed!!!

;)

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Mon Nov 26, 2007 6:48 am

Chezzie;725782 wrote: soz hun, been decorating the kitchen all weekend and I think the paint fumes have haggled my lonely brain cell lol x

:wah: that's ok hun.....i have a lonely brain cell too..and i haven't been breathing in paint fumes....lol

Galbally;725831 wrote: Thats great news, glad you will all be safe.

Thanks....i'm glad too

cars;725833 wrote: A very MERRY CHRISTMAS in deed!!!

;)

Yes it is, thanks

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Mon Nov 26, 2007 6:56 am

Ahhhhh good news babexxx

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Mon Nov 26, 2007 7:48 am

I am really pleased for you and the kids Kinks, I am sure that Christmas will be fantastic for you and the four kids :sneaky::-4

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Mon Nov 26, 2007 12:24 pm

and well done on your multi quotes:wah: