I Need Your Help

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Wed Dec 05, 2007 7:02 pm

I am really worried that I upset Jess in his thread. I was trying to be nice, but I very badly worded what I was trying to say (:-5 bad wording day, actually bad few weeks really - but thats not why I am making this post).

Some of you might wonder why I worry so much (after all it is only the internet), but I consider you all here as my big group of friends and I would never intentionally upset you or deliberately try and upset someone I consider to be my friend, and Jess I am proud to call you one of my friends.

My comments about him pm'ing me and it scaring me, was said because when I first came here I was very new to internet and forums. Being pm'd by a man kinda threw me of guard, as you hear about weird stuff on the internet. Jess has always been nothing more than friendly and sweet in his pm's. And I know he just loves to chat with people. So if my post implied otherwise it was not meant that way - it was all about my nervousness at being new to this stuff.

Secondly, my comments about him being up and down, was not meant to imply that he is a pest. Far from it, its not that often we pm each other. I was just making a general comment about how he seems to get really sad sometimes.

So, firstly I am so, so, so sorry Jess if I upset you.

And secondly, this is where I am asking for your help, please just let him know that you don't think he is a perv or a pest. I really didn't want my comments to make people think that, and I really hope they did not.

Jess I think you are a real genuine and great friend - I'm sorry :-4

kinks · Post by **kinks** » Wed Dec 05, 2007 7:17 pm

I get worried a lot as well, i thought i might have upset jimbo in a post i put on today, and i also hate the thought of upsetting people, sometimes my words don't always come out how they sounded in my head.

I'm sure jess isn't upset with you though

I think he's a great guy and i'm sure everyone else does as well

I read your post and i wouldn't worry too much, soon enough jess will be on here telling you the same thing

Sorry if i wasn't much help

:-6

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Wed Dec 05, 2007 7:17 pm

Awww Pheasy....:-4:-4

Snooze · Post by **Snooze** » Wed Dec 05, 2007 7:48 pm

I just read your comments and I think you said some very nice things about him... and I'm sure he's pleased by it and all the attention from everyone else.

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Wed Dec 05, 2007 8:34 pm

Pheas

I just read your post - I don't see anything wrong

Your very thoughtful

Patsy

mrsK · Post by **mrsK** » Wed Dec 05, 2007 9:45 pm

I couldn't imagine you intentionally hurting anyone:-6

moonpie · Post by **moonpie** » Wed Dec 05, 2007 9:51 pm

He is a big boy, I am sure he will get over it. Don' dispair.:-5

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Wed Dec 05, 2007 10:19 pm

I already talked to him about that today and I thought he understood.

We know Jesse's nothing but genuine and a goodhearted man, that comes across very well I think. Jesse if you're reading, you know I think the world of you buddy, and we're friends to the end. Pheasy don't worry so much, we all have times when we say something and it comes out weird, I'm sure Jesse will understand that.

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Thu Dec 06, 2007 12:42 am

Awww pheasy babes, please dont fret hun, trouble with text is that you dont hear the tone or feeling behind the words so we ALL often get mistaken, thank god for emoticons lol...(and lol) lol:wah:

I said something similar but only in response to Jimbo posting that Jess was the forum stalker and I wanted to clarify that Yes he may pm lots of peeps here but every pm I have received has been above board and just mates chatting about one thing or another.

Pheasy pheasy your so great

wondered where you were of late

Missed your smile, your funny posts

but most of all we missed you mosts:-4

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Thu Dec 06, 2007 2:01 am

Pheasy, please don't spend another second worrying about this, Jess will be fine.

:-4:-4

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Thu Dec 06, 2007 2:20 am

Its hard on here Pheasy to express yourself sometimes and for it to come out the way it was meant.We sometimes joke about a post that someone has just written meaning no disrespect but people can take it the wrong way.As in every day life we can hurt someone without meaning to but the important thing is to see when we feel there is a problem and do what we feel is the right thing. You have done that love and I admire you so much for that as I am sure Jess does.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Thu Dec 06, 2007 6:31 am

Aw Pheas,, Jess is ok and can take a joke i think,, ( well if he cant he probs not talking to me any more):wah:

JImbo, you are shouting quite a lot today? you been overdoing the coffee?:wah:

el guapo · Post by **el guapo** » Thu Dec 06, 2007 10:33 am

only just spotted thread

will be pming pheas:wah::wah:

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Thu Dec 06, 2007 11:02 am

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh alls well that ends without a Jimbo in it:wah::wah:

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Fri Dec 07, 2007 12:34 pm

Thank you all so much :-4:-4:-4:-4

I think he has forgiven me

Note to self 'Don't type anything really fast, when you are tired and just about to go to bed'