Reasons, Seasons....How Very True.......

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 1:30 pm

I read these words often and think how true they are...........what do you think????

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,

to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,

this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on..................

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 1:36 pm

I think we realize this in hindsight most of the time.

"Yeah, that person made a difference in my life."

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 1:52 pm

along-for-the-ride;666250 wrote: I think we realize this in hindsight most of the time.

"Yeah, that person made a difference in my life."Yes and how certain people have made changes in my life..........big time.......then have gone.....those words are so well written.

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 2:49 pm

Since I left college, I have never had what I would call 'best friends' . I have had some friends, over the years, but none of them have been friends enough for me to think I could open my soul to, to tell things to, stuff that has happened to me that I really needed somebody to be able to tell, to share, perhaps to ease a burden. One incident that happened to me as a child I have kept in the deepest pit of my memory until one night it just spilled out to a friend on FG. I had never told anybody, not even my parents. I have made some very special friends on FG, and if they should just 'go' I know I would be devastated.

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 3:16 pm

G#Gill;666294 wrote:

Since I left college, I have never had what I would call 'best friends' . I have had some friends, over the years, but none of them have been friends enough for me to think I could open my soul to, to tell things to, stuff that has happened to me that I really needed somebody to be able to tell, to share, perhaps to ease a burden. One incident that happened to me as a child I have kept in the deepest pit of my memory until one night it just spilled out to a friend on FG. I had never told anybody, not even my parents. I have made some very special friends on FG, and if they should just 'go' I know I would be devastated.

They aint goin nowhere Gill..........trust me.

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Tue Jul 24, 2007 1:22 am

almostfamous;666444 wrote: I think about this stuff all the time. All the time. I consider it a personal adventure to discover why people are brought into my life :-6
You must remember also that we to are put into peoples lives also....................for a reason.

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Tue Jul 24, 2007 6:56 am

Carolly;666249 wrote: I read these words often and think how true they are...........what do you think????

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,

to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,

this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on..................

How true Carolly - I think about this quite often and really do believe that people come into our lives for a reason:-4:-4

Lasgo · Post by **Lasgo** » Tue Jul 24, 2007 7:03 am

it's all very true, just a few lines in there that reminds me of a person i used to chat to on another forum, we used to text/talk on the phone were planning on meeting up and then he decideds for no reason he doesn't want to know me no more, we were just good friends. then he does the dirt on me on a diff forum and says i was stalking him.

he was the one that rang me/text me etc....

and now i've discovered fg i am alot happier cos there's alot better people here for me to chat to:)

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Tue Jul 24, 2007 11:47 am

pinkchick;666963 wrote: How true Carolly - I think about this quite often and really do believe that people come into our lives for a reason:-4:-4Oh Chick I could write a book about this subject and tell you hun those people who have gone from my life now changed my life so so much and how different my life would have been if I had never met them.

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Tue Jul 24, 2007 12:00 pm

K4z01;666975 wrote: it's all very true, just a few lines in there that reminds me of a person i used to chat to on another forum, we used to text/talk on the phone were planning on meeting up and then he decideds for no reason he doesn't want to know me no more, we were just good friends. then he does the dirt on me on a diff forum and says i was stalking him.

he was the one that rang me/text me etc....

and now i've discovered fg i am alot happier cos there's alot better people here for me to chat to:)Oh hun many of us have had trouble on other forums....God Ive had my share big time......but you have to remember that some sites are a haven for some very nasty people and yes words on a screen can hurt and seeing how close you got to this person must have hurt you so much.But dont let it get you down babe....I also met the love of my life on a forum and he is here now so you see there are some gooduns about. Also FG is a lovely forum with some very nice people and is well moniterd unlike many others.....enjoy babe and good to have you on our other thread. We are always here if you (well maybe Im not to much lately lol sorry) ever want a chat or your welcome to send a private message. Dont let one sad git spoil your time on yer pc.....but trust me I do know what you are going through and you will get over it and in the meantime just enjoyxx

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Tue Jul 24, 2007 12:04 pm

K4z01;666975 wrote: it's all very true, just a few lines in there that reminds me of a person i used to chat to on another forum, we used to text/talk on the phone were planning on meeting up and then he decideds for no reason he doesn't want to know me no more, we were just good friends. then he does the dirt on me on a diff forum and says i was stalking him.

he was the one that rang me/text me etc....

and now i've discovered fg i am alot happier cos there's alot better people here for me to chat to:)PS.......You see there not all bad.......

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Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Tue Jul 24, 2007 12:06 pm

almostfamous;667009 wrote: I believe this as well, a lot of reasons are left unclarified, but hopefully the other person at least gains clarity as to why they had to suffer me :wah: Bless em...Oh Im sure yer not that bad:yh_rotfl

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Tue Jul 24, 2007 12:42 pm

almostfamous;667234 wrote:

THAT^^ Is absolutely lovely :-4 Oh, I love it!!

Well, I've been a pistol for quite sometime now. Life is slowing me down though and I welcome it. I'm taking the time to read more, branch out, "Relax as it is" as a book I'm reading refers to it as. boy, could I gush about this book. It's definitely going to be one I reread over and over and over. If you're curious, it's called "When Things Fall Apart" by Pema Chodron. ((http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pema_Chodron))

Hope your having a great day :-6
Ahhhh glad you have found your rainbow love. x

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 6:28 am

Funny how every now and again I read these words and how they can help me through situations.....words can help so much at times.

Hope6 · Post by **Hope6** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 6:40 am

I have no doubt in the world that i found ForumGarden for a reason.

It came along right when i needed somwhere to go to talk to people when i needed to, and make new friends.

It's not an accident that i stumbled across this place and all of you lovely people who have become so important to me!

I talk to y'all about things that i can't talk to anyone in real life about, and it helps me so much to be able to do that.

I love you guys!! :-4:-4

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 7:17 am

Hope6;894448 wrote: I have no doubt in the world that i found ForumGarden for a reason.

It came along right when i needed somwhere to go to talk to people when i needed to, and make new friends.

It's not an accident that i stumbled across this place and all of you lovely people who have become so important to me!

I talk to y'all about things that i can't talk to anyone in real life about, and it helps me so much to be able to do that.

I love you guys!! :-4:-4We also are lucky to have found such a lovely Friend.......also for a Reason;)

Hope6 · Post by **Hope6** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 9:55 am

Carolly;894462 wrote: We also are lucky to have found such a lovely Friend.......also for a Reason;)

Thank you Sis!:-4

that means a lot to me!:-4

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 10:14 am

along-for-the-ride;666250 wrote: I think we realize this in hindsight most of the time.

"Yeah, that person made a difference in my life."

Isn't that a fact.

And some times we are lucky and that person comes back.

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 11:09 am

If it wasnt for some people coming into my life I would never have come on the internet............back then I thought......me on a pc yer having a laugh:wah:they came and went again just as quick through reasons that had to be ...just like the words here.

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 11:16 am

Carolly;894639 wrote: If it wasnt for some people coming into my life I would never have come on the internet............back then I thought......me on a pc yer having a laugh:wah:they came and went again just as quick through reasons that had to be ...just like the words here.

Oh I hear ya girl. I think everybody comes and goes out of each others lives for a reason.

I consider me blessed to have an old friend back again lately after a few years of no contact

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 11:21 am

minks;894640 wrote: Oh I hear ya girl. I think everybody comes and goes out of each others lives for a reason.

I consider me blessed to have an old friend back again lately after a few years of no contact :)Maybe you both had to go your own ways for a reason unknown to either of you......maybe grow spiritually or could be a number of things......the important thing is you have found each other again and this time Im sure for keeps;)

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 11:26 am

Carolly;894646 wrote: Maybe you both had to go your own ways for a reason unknown to either of you......maybe grow spiritually or could be a number of things......the important thing is you have found each other again and this time Im sure for keeps;)

aw yes how true, I hope we last this time around, we have missed each other hugely. toughest part is convincing family ahahaha we both have family that do not see eye to eye on our friendship :-5

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 12:04 pm

minks;894647 wrote: aw yes how true, I hope we last this time around, we have missed each other hugely. toughest part is convincing family ahahaha we both have family that do not see eye to eye on our friendship :-5Babe its YOUR life and if its meant for you it wont pass you by and meeting up again has proved this I think;)

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 12:09 pm

Carolly;894680 wrote: Babe its YOUR life and if its meant for you it wont pass you by and meeting up again has proved this I think;)

very true, I shall just learn to ignore my fathers snide remarks and my friends brothers spying ways. :-5 hahahaha

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 1:52 pm

minks;894681 wrote: very true, I shall just learn to ignore my fathers snide remarks and my friends brothers spying ways. :-5 hahahahaYou live your own life.....you make your own mistakes......you make your own happiness.....nobody has the right to do these things for you.