How my life has changed

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Wed Jul 30, 2008 7:49 am

Good to see you here and I'm glad your feeling more positive. :-4

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Wed Jul 30, 2008 8:41 am

Well done Neffy !! It's so good to see you so positive, and power to your elbow Mrs. Trust is a wonderful thing, but once it is broken it is so difficult to get back. You seem to have done the right thing for you and it is lovely to see you so much happier. Best wishes to you for the future ! :-6

Helen · Post by **Helen** » Wed Jul 30, 2008 1:28 pm

hi ali,

glad to hear you're getting things together, hope it all works out for you :-4

southern yankee · Post by **southern yankee** » Wed Jul 30, 2008 2:56 pm

Having a affair with a spouce and best friend happens more then may think

. You feel CRUSHED by your spouce and your so called best friend . This did not happen to me. but it did with my husband and his first wife. Which caused MANY TRUST issues. It took a very long time. Until he truly trusted me and his friends around me. Sorry for your pain.:-1

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Fri Aug 01, 2008 1:39 am

Hello everyone thank you all so very much for your kind words,i am staying with a friend for a couple of days just chilling:-4 How i look at all this is not to be a victim but to make something postive out of all the hurt and pain,after all i think life is for living,and as i said to my hubby when it happened nothing can hurt me as much as losing my dad ,brother and my mum in the last eight years.