At the funeral I actually don't want any music which is weird for me as much as I love the stuff. But at the afterwake, I want "Will the Circle Be Unbroken," "Mighty Dark To Travel" and a whole mess of bluegrass songs through the night. :-6
The music to Give Me the Flowers, played quietly on the organ as I'm being carried into the chapel. Not the words, that would be unsubtle. Something to leave by as the curtains close about me at the crematorium, that's a different matter.
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That song came out right before my dad died. It was too late to add it to the funeral, so I just listened to it about a million times. This was over 12yrs ago and it still makes me well up sometimes. I'm hoping my family feels the same about me when I die.
fuzzy butt;970086 wrote: Is this a joke thread? oh sorry .
Hoppy the more fiddles stops me coming back to haunt :wah::wah::wah:
Anytime people speak in reference to their own mortality there is bound to be a bit of humor in it...How else are we to come to terms with the fact that we're going to be thrown in a hole and buried with dirt 6 feet under the ground or set ablaze?...
I don't want shown because I don't want a bunch of people standing around saying, "She looks good". I'm freaken dead! How good can I look? :wah: That seriously drove me bonkers until my mom died. I walked into the funeral home and was totally stunned that I was not looking at the 70 pound body I had seen for the last few months. She was beautiful just like she was before she became ill. Anyways, a friend sang a gospel song called "If You Could See Me Now". That song should be played at every funeral.
Agreed Peg. No one'll be seeing me either. If they cant make the effort while Im alive, they don't get to see me dead. Besides I won't be embalmed so that sorta finalizes it.
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a funeral is a ritual for the living ,not the dead. I dont really have any preferences..the only thing i have asked of my family is dont spend any money on a toombstone..just a small marker if you have a mind to visit my resting place.
Victoria;969834 wrote: Unchained melody and The first time ever I saw you face (Roberta Flack)
OH wants Wager ride of the Valkeries
and my mum want us to play the hokey cokey and do the dance! left foot in left foot out, do the hokey cokey and shake it all about, I can see it now!
OOh good choice Victoria. Yes, Roberta Flack for my husband & Unchained melody for my late dad.
A wierd subject but i found myself buying my funeral songs on e bay very recently.
The Verve's " The drugs don't work any more"--definately. The Verve's "Bittersweet symphony", The Stones "Ruby Tuesday".
At the going down of the sun and in the morning, we will remember them. R.L. Binyon
jimbo;970666 wrote: pretty much my thoughts exactly gupperino
a grave is just an open wound of the mind ,if i'm to be remembered it will be in the hearts and minds (and my creditors audits:D) of the people that new me not on a lump of stone standing in a cemetry
put me in a compost heap so i can give something back to mother earth
:wah::wah: thats a good idea Jimbo..i think i would like the idea of fertilizing the flowers..
guppy;970686 wrote: :wah::wah: thats a good idea Jimbo..i think i would like the idea of fertilizing the flowers..
You're ill equipped and overambitious.
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I love music! and having sung in the choir at my church for years, i want our choir to sing at my funeral, and i want lots of songs, but the one i have picked out so far is a beautiful hymn called Beulah Land!
i would also like them to play Angel by Sarah McLachlan!