Four Years ago today

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 1:38 pm

Is when my husband had a cerebral hemorrhage. Initially he was paralyzed on his right side and unable to talk. You have heard how his memory is not the same, but he has substituted my name as “she most of the time, “Mom in what he considers an emergency situation. (like when is dinner being served)

Four years later, he can walk with a walker, and he went with me to the library today. No, he didn’t check out any books, but he wanted to get outside and move around. And he knew I do not feel well this week, and wanted to go everywhere with me. (even TKD) He is starting to move outside his own limited sphere, and I think he has done quite well. (mischievous he is, I think he is still in a childhood phase, but about 7-8 now, still needs a nurse for 4 hours a day, but the upside of it all, he is so much better than he once was and continues to improve slowly):-4

I thank you all my dear friends here on FG, you have listened to me babble on for years about this, but it has helped me through many a crisis point that passed and showed his improvement. :-4

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 1:44 pm

It's a testament of the strong man you married, and the phenominal woman he was lucky enough to find.

You are both heroes in my book. :-4:-6:yh_flower

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 1:44 pm

I didn't realize it had been that long. I'm glad he has continued to

improve.

I don't mind at all hearing about it. Especially if it makes you feel

a little better in the telling...

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abbey · Post by **abbey** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 1:49 pm

Accountable;989887 wrote: It's a testament of the strong man you married, and the phenominal woman he was lucky enough to find.

You are both heroes in my book. :-4:-6:yh_flowerI could'nt have put it any better. :-4

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 1:56 pm

Accountable;989887 wrote: It's a testament of the strong man you married, and the phenominal woman he was lucky enough to find.

You are both heroes in my book. :-4:-6:yh_flower

I totally agree with Accountable. " In sickness and in health".

Post by **Betty Boop** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 1:58 pm

Wow Chonsi, I'm with Accountable, both of you are heroes for sure :-4:-4

flopstock · Post by **flopstock** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 2:12 pm

I still aspire to be you when I grow up Chonsi...

Not because I see you as a superhero, but because I see you as what we should each of us be.........:-4

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 2:24 pm

Accountable;989887 wrote: It's a testament of the strong man you married, and the phenominal woman he was lucky enough to find.

You are both heroes in my book. :-4:-6:yh_flower

Wonderful words Acc, Your fantastic Chonsi :-4:-4:-4

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 3:05 pm

I never knew......obviously he has come along way, who would have thought?

you would have endured alot and your strength has shone through!

definately heroes!

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 3:10 pm

Chonsi:-4 You are definitely a strong and brave woman. All of my love and best wishes are always with you. I'm sooooo glad to hear some good news about hubby:-6

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 5:29 pm

I'm so happy to hear this news Chonsi. I hope he gets better as the days go on. Tell him we all say "hello".

shelbell · Post by **shelbell** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 5:37 pm

Wow Chonsi, I didn't know about this. Sounds like the improvements are coming along, what a blessing! You are a very strong woman...and he's a lucky man. :-6:-4

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 6:12 pm

I would hope, faced with the trials and tribulations you and your husband have been through, that I could handle it with such determination, grace, and strength that you have. My best wishes always to you and your husband. :-4

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 8:38 pm

Chonsi you are an inspiration to me always have been. You courage and strength are to be admired by all. Your husband has come so far in these 4 years may he continue to improve. Thank your for sharing this journey with us. :-4

Well said ACC well said.

[QUOTE]It's a testament of the strong man you married, and the phenominal woman he was lucky enough to find.

You are both heroes in my book. [/QUOTE]

Clint · Post by **Clint** » Sat Sep 20, 2008 10:09 pm

Accountable;989887 wrote: It's a testament of the strong man you married, and the phenominal woman he was lucky enough to find.

You are both heroes in my book. :-4:-6:yh_flower

Accountable said it better than I can. I can't imagine what you have been through. Love is an action word and you have demonstrated what it means.

mrsK · Post by **mrsK** » Sun Sep 21, 2008 12:43 am

Not much more I can add to what has already been said here Chonsi.

I agree with what everyone has said.

I send much love & encouragment to both of you:-4:-4:-6

cars · Post by **cars** » Sun Sep 21, 2008 2:41 am

Something is wrong with my putter chonsi, it won't open the OP on pg1, either yesterday or today.

However, from what I gather reading page 2 replies, I join all the heartfelt feelings your other friends have stated. I would just like to add: You are a loving, devoted, "Hero"!!! :-6

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Sun Sep 21, 2008 3:18 am

I am pleased that hubby is doing so well :-4 I think you are amazing, I wish we all had a little of you in us, the world would certainly be a nicer place, sending big hugs for you and hubby :-4:-4:-4

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Sun Sep 21, 2008 3:46 am

Peg;990053 wrote: I would hope, faced with the trials and tribulations you and your husband have been through, that I could handle it with such determination, grace, and strength that you have. My best wishes always to you and your husband. :-4

Ditto, i have wondered wether i would have the strength and patience to deal with some of the problems people are going through here

I hope your husband continues to improve Chonsi:-4:-4