They wear what they do because it gives them confidence I presume.... what they wear may not be the clothing of your choice or mine, but you're not forced to look.... If what a woman wears makes them feel good about themselves, is that really such a bad thing?
That may have been your own personal experience..... Mine is very different and I know for 'fact' that clothing isn't always what triggers a mans sexual urges....
When I fifteen years old (I looked a lot younger, probably about 12), dressed in Jeans and T-shirts and just being the 'girl' I was... I was stalked by a 39 year old man.... he was a neighbour of ours who became obsessed with me to the point where my parents had him arrested and charged with tresspassing (This was over a period of 14 months though as the police were reluctant to act on things like that back then), this had nothing to do with what I was wearing, this was NOT my fault..... this was a sick man, who had a liking for young girls, no matter what I had worn, this man still pursued me..... Nothing I did was to blame for that.
My mother was the same Oscar, I can't say I was proud LOL.... I didn't even think about it at the time.... she's still very much the same now, I think of her as a very elegant lady, but then, she has a friend, who is the total opposite of her, likes to wear jeans and shirts, there is a tad of cleavage that can be seem, but nothing to write home about LOL.... I don't think of her as elegant..... I do however think she's very much a lady....
PMSL!.... All dads were broken from the same bloody mould weren't they! :wah:
My dad was a very strict man, what he said was law in our house..... I would have loved to have worn the fashion clothing my friends were wearing at the time, but my dad just wouldn't allow it, we all hung out together, I dressed very differently to my pals, but we were all the same kids, chatting about boys, singing into our hairbrush, swooning over the Bay City Roller :wah:... Our clothes made no difference in our personalities... no matter what we wore, we were kids being kids
How sad that this woman is judged on what she wears.....
If she's a good mum and a decent person who really gives a toss what she wears?.... Live and let live....
I should think that being the best person we all can be is far more important in life than being the best dressed.....
But... this is just my opinion..... I suppose some would say I was a conservative dresser, but I hope that I'm never judged on that.... I'm far from conservative LOL....
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Yes unfortunately, perv's will pick their victem regardless but i was just pointing out the draconian legal system we have here where we do still get Judge's judge a women by what she was wearing if she is a rape victem. They shouldn't i know, but it still goes on.
As for the irritating woman that lives by me, the answer is no, she is a lousey mum and my heart goes out to her kids. They are totally on benifit, the kids have no decent clothes let alone enough to eat. They came round two days ago because the electric meter had run out and they were in darkness. then i see her, buying hair dye, drink and skinning up a spliff. That's why i have a problem with her. If she put her kids first, i wouldn't mind what she looked like.
No-one should be judged on the what they wear i agree but if you ever saw this woman with a crop top on, her overweight belly hanging over it with deep stretch marks, you may want to borrow the sick bucket i gave Odie earlier. Trust me Milly... It's horrible and enough to frighten the horses.
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