Should Women Over “A Certain Age Show Off Their Cleavage?

Touchstone · Post by **Touchstone** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 11:37 am

Personally I think that if you have a sexy cleavage you should show it off irrespective of your age.

Me I’m a boob man which doesn’t mean that I am crazy about the Pammi Anderson type, but simply that I like boobs ¦ small, medium and large.

When I am with a lady who is very well endowed I know from experience that she is gonna go: I just know that this guy can’t wait to get his hands on my puppies!

WRONG!!

When I am with a well-developed lady I make a point of, while not totally ignoring her boobs, concentrating more on kissing her face, her neck, her throat, her shoulders and her thighs. In this way she becomes much more comfortable with me because I am not like diving into her chest so to speak!

On the other hand when I am with a lady with tiny boobs I concentrate my attention more on this area of her body which makes her much more at ease because she isn’t used to men doing this!

What do the ladies think?

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 11:45 am

dressing classy is much more appealing.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 12:07 pm

Are 34-B's considered small or medium? Hey, they got huge when I was preggars:wah:

hoppy · Post by **hoppy** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 1:01 pm

If ya got 'em, flaunt 'em.

AussiePam · Post by **AussiePam** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 1:09 pm

Touchstone;1065213 wrote:

On the other hand when I am with a lady with tiny boobs I concentrate my attention more on this area of her body which makes her much more at ease because she isn’t used to men doing this!

GUFFAW

:yh_rotfl

Ah, Touchstone - I think I shall carry these titbits with me onto the thin ice of my sunny Saturday dawn.

Hope6 · Post by **Hope6** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 1:38 pm

maybe it's where i live or the strict upbringing that i had, but i was taught that a lady never wears anything that shows her cleavage out in public, regardless of her age. i can remember when i was a teenager my mother being very strict about anything i wore and how low the neckline was. And if you were wearing a blouse or dress that had a loose collar where if you bent over it would show anything you had to make sure you put your hand up to the collar and held onto it when you bent over, those were just a couple of the many, many rules of etiquette i had to remember!

to this day i still have not ever worn any cleavage revealing clothing.

el guapo · Post by **el guapo** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 1:44 pm

yes they should a lot

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 1:45 pm

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl Sorry, I just can't help but laugh at the above post. I've got two teen girls who wear tank tops, bikinis, etc. to the beach and beyond. Their shorts are shorter than mine and if they bend over you can see a cheek on them. My one daughter walks around in her bikini like it's no big deal, which it isn't. I don't know, I'm a beachy kind of chick myself.:wah:

AussiePam · Post by **AussiePam** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 2:46 pm

Do remain a Lady, Hope. At least in public... :sneaky:

Should men, I wonder, of a certain age show off their beer gut? When wooing, I do find, I make an effort to concentrate elsewhere... but when a man's love handles are small... yup, it's good kissing territory. ER, I've heard!

:sneaky:

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 2:51 pm

AussiePam;1065453 wrote: Do remain a Lady, Hope. At least in public... :sneaky:

Should men, I wonder, of a certain age show off their beer gut? When wooing, I do find, I make an effort to concentrate elsewhere... but when a man's love handles are small... yup, it's good kissing territory. ER, I've heard!

:sneaky:

oh god, the dreaded beer gut hanging out....at any age is just wrong!:-5:-5:yh_rotfl

Hope6 · Post by **Hope6** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 4:20 pm

AussiePam;1065453 wrote: Do remain a Lady, Hope. At least in public... :sneaky:

Should men, I wonder, of a certain age show off their beer gut? When wooing, I do find, I make an effort to concentrate elsewhere... but when a man's love handles are small... yup, it's good kissing territory. ER, I've heard!

:sneaky:

yeah a girl needs to have a little mystery, leave something to the imagination, then it will be that much more interesting when shes alone with her guy! :sneaky:

AussiePam · Post by **AussiePam** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 7:04 pm

Then of course there's butt cleavage...

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 7:10 pm

AussiePam;1065652 wrote: Then of course there's butt cleavage...

This isn't the speedo thread is it?:wah:

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 7:49 pm

I am going to be an old grump now.

I see nothing wrong in young ladie's flashing their bits however, i was brought up that 'Ladie's' did not do this.

I have no problem with nudity or young women flaunting a good body..... good on them.

However, there is nothing worse than seeing an aging celebrity holding up her 'spaniels ears' in a uplift bra and kidding herself she looks sexy. Where is the dignity in that? Most people are just too polite to tell them that their wrinkly old saggy boobs look revolting crammed into that low cut top.

I saw a pic of 'Madonna' recently on stage and she has hands that look like she's nicked them off a kestrel, and a saggy arsse that she thinks looks great in a leotard...... Oh please... It's revolting, please put it away.

Then we have 'Victoria Skeletal Beckham' with boobs that are a year away from each other stuck on her bony pigeon chest like two orbs rigid and solid.

I think any woman has to make the best of their best assets but when time and age have taken over the youthfull skin, it is time to remember that they probably have children who are embarressed every time they step out.

A woman should be about personality not sticking saggy old tits in your face, deluded that they look great.

Tan · Post by **Tan** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 8:23 pm

Im with Oscar:wah:

wildhorses · Post by **wildhorses** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 8:30 pm

Touchstone;1065213 wrote: Personally I think that if you have a sexy cleavage you should show it off irrespective of your age.

Me I’m a boob man which doesn’t mean that I am crazy about the Pammi Anderson type, but simply that I like boobs ¦ small, medium and large.

When I am with a lady who is very well endowed I know from experience that she is gonna go: I just know that this guy can’t wait to get his hands on my puppies!

WRONG!!

When I am with a well-developed lady I make a point of, while not totally ignoring her boobs, concentrating more on kissing her face, her neck, her throat, her shoulders and her thighs. In this way she becomes much more comfortable with me because I am not like diving into her chest so to speak!

On the other hand when I am with a lady with tiny boobs I concentrate my attention more on this area of her body which makes her much more at ease because she isn’t used to men doing this!

What do the ladies think?

I think thats a great strategy. And .....um...you should consider writing erotic short stories.

wildhorses · Post by **wildhorses** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 8:37 pm

oscar;1065720 wrote: I am going to be an old grump now.

I see nothing wrong in young ladie's flashing their bits however, i was brought up that 'Ladie's' did not do this.

I have no problem with nudity or young women flaunting a good body..... good on them.

However, there is nothing worse than seeing an aging celebrity holding up her 'spaniels ears' in a uplift bra and kidding herself she looks sexy. Where is the dignity in that? Most people are just too polite to tell them that their wrinkly old saggy boobs look revolting crammed into that low cut top.

I saw a pic of 'Madonna' recently on stage and she has hands that look like she's nicked them off a kestrel, and a saggy arsse that she thinks looks great in a leotard...... Oh please... It's revolting, please put it away.

Then we have 'Victoria Skeletal Beckham' with boobs that are a year away from each other stuck on her bony pigeon chest like two orbs rigid and solid.

I think any woman has to make the best of their best assets but when time and age have taken over the youthfull skin, it is time to remember that they probably have children who are embarressed every time they step out.

A woman should be about personality not sticking saggy old tits in your face, deluded that they look great.

Mature women can still wear a low cut dress, but should wear a matching sheer cover jacket.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 8:42 pm

wildhorses;1065769 wrote: Mature women can still wear a low cut dress, but should wear a matching sheer cover jacket.

And matching undies:sneaky:

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 8:45 pm

Touchstone;1065213 wrote: Personally I think that if you have a sexy cleavage you should show it off irrespective of your age.

Me I’m a boob man which doesn’t mean that I am crazy about the Pammi Anderson type, but simply that I like boobs ¦ small, medium and large.

When I am with a lady who is very well endowed I know from experience that she is gonna go: I just know that this guy can’t wait to get his hands on my puppies!

WRONG!!

When I am with a well-developed lady I make a point of, while not totally ignoring her boobs, concentrating more on kissing her face, her neck, her throat, her shoulders and her thighs. In this way she becomes much more comfortable with me because I am not like diving into her chest so to speak!

On the other hand when I am with a lady with tiny boobs I concentrate my attention more on this area of her body which makes her much more at ease because she isn’t used to men doing this!

What do the ladies think?

I say.. Us fine upstanding people of Great Britain won't stand for any of that old malarky and shananagans thankyou very much.

British people don't have sex since 'Thatcher' taxed it under a Conservative Government.

We only have ladylike passtimes here like knitting, crown bowls and cricket.

Please take your disgusting sex manual and place it on a more appropriate forum. I am told they can be found under the 'pornography' catogary.

YOU PERV :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 8:46 pm

AussiePam;1065652 wrote: Then of course there's butt cleavage...

now that just sucks! no woman should be showing that!

ewwwwwwwwww!:-5

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 8:48 pm

oscar;1065775 wrote: I say.. Us fine upstanding people of Great Britain won't stand for any of that old malarky and shananagans thankyou very much.

British people don't have sex since 'Thatcher' taxed it under a Conservative Government.

We only have ladylike passtimes here like knitting, crown bowls and cricket.

Please take your disgusting sex manual and place it on a more appropriate forum. I am told they can be found under the 'pornography' catogar

YOU PERV :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

:yh_rotfl PMSL

Post by **Ally** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:06 pm

Wow touchstone u must be 1 of a kind lota information there lol definatly nooooooooooooo butt cleavage yucky even on a nice butt.Older women like Sofia Loren she shows a lota cleavage if u got it and its not all withered up show it,im just green cause i dont have very much to show off.:yh_rotfl

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:13 pm

Go to any public beach in the US or elsewhere and see live cleavage:wah: It's everywhere!

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:19 pm

Ally;1065797 wrote: Wow touchstone u must be 1 of a kind lota information there lol definatly nooooooooooooo butt cleavage yucky even on a nice butt.Older women like Sofia Loren she shows a lota cleavage if u got it and its not all withered up show it,im just green cause i dont have very much to show off.:yh_rotfl

'Withered' :yh_rotfl

I have lots to show but i'm British and a British lady never gets her tits out.

I do occassionally wear my original knee high doc Martin boots from the 70's but Mr Oscar doesn't like it. :wah:

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:22 pm

oscar;1065812 wrote: 'Withered' :yh_rotfl

I have lots to show but i'm British and a British lady never gets her tits out.

I do occassionally wear my original knee high doc Martin boots from the 70's but Mr Oscar doesn't like it. :wah:

Why?:wah:

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:23 pm

Ally;1065797 wrote: Wow touchstone u must be 1 of a kind lota information there lol definatly nooooooooooooo butt cleavage yucky even on a nice butt.Older women like Sofia Loren she shows a lota cleavage if u got it and its not all withered up show it,im just green cause i dont have very much to show off.:yh_rotfl

your right about the old broads....tis all withered and wrinkled up!:eek:

and I no longer have any, damn kids!:yh_rotfl

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:23 pm

qsducks;1065816 wrote: Why?:wah:

Cos he wants to wear them first :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:24 pm

oscar;1065818 wrote: Cos he wants to wear them first :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

To the beach in his speedo?

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:32 pm

Uggh, I must say and I'm getting serious here:wah: the vulgar language and whatever is damaging my virginal ears:wah: is just so way............I forgot.:wah:

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:49 pm

qsducks;1065823 wrote: Uggh, I must say and I'm getting serious here:wah: the vulgar language and whatever is damaging my virginal ears:wah: is just so way............I forgot.:wah:

I thought you said vaginal ears... I thought.. Blimey :yh_rotfl

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:50 pm

oscar;1065832 wrote: I thought you said vaginal ears... I thought.. Blimey :yh_rotfl

she only thinks she has those!:yh_rotfl

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:54 pm

Odie;1065834 wrote: she only thinks she has those!:yh_rotfl

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Nov 21, 2008 10:22 pm

VIRGINAL - I know vagina can be made out of that word...Blimey, my innocent ears:yh_rotfl You two are corrupting my sensibilities. I'm running to the nearest convent.:yh_rotfl

Milly · Post by **Milly** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 12:34 am

How old is "A certain age"?......

I'm 40 and if I'm on an evening out still feel I can get away with a top or a dress that reveals a little cleavage.... at a 34DD there's no point in my pretending they aren't there! :wah:

I dress for my age, stylish, yet classy, I never follow fashion and always follow the 'no boobs 'and' leg' rule.... meaning, if you're bearing a little up top, cover your lower half up and vice versa.....

My body hasn't given in to gravity yet, so I'm not yet ready to button up to the neck.... Even then, I think women can and do show a little cleavage in a subtle way, without appearing to be bearing all....

I see absolutely nothing wrong with it

Post by **Ally** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 1:35 am

you go milly girl,lets not go to the virginal or is it vaginal oh well isnt that wot doctors call it lol.speedos are an aussie invention yes invention not many can wear them we call them budgie smugglers.You got ur budgie smugglers on mate heheheheheh Having a champers now whooopppeee.:yh_giggle:yh_giggle:yh_drool:yh_drool

Touchstone · Post by **Touchstone** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 3:21 am

AussiePam;1065296 wrote: GUFFAW

:yh_rotfl

Ah, Touchstone - I think I shall carry these titbits with me onto the thin ice of my sunny Saturday dawn.

Why Pam, I do believe you are mocking me mon cher!

Ryan!

Hope6 · Post by **Hope6** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 5:01 am

Milly;1065873 wrote: How old is "A certain age"?......

I'm 40 and if I'm on an evening out still feel I can get away with a top or a dress that reveals a little cleavage.... at a 34DD there's no point in my pretending they aren't there! :wah:

I dress for my age, stylish, yet classy, I never follow fashion and always follow the 'no boobs 'and' leg' rule.... meaning, if you're bearing a little up top, cover your lower half up and vice versa.....

My body hasn't given in to gravity yet, so I'm not yet ready to button up to the neck.... Even then, I think women can and do show a little cleavage in a subtle way, without appearing to be bearing all....

I see absolutely nothing wrong with it

yes i see what you mean, i'm 41 and i have always when going out tried to dress classy, and as i said before have never shown any cleavage, but i do occasionally wear dresses a little above the knee! :sneaky:

but as a 36C i know that isn't anywhere near a DD but the'res still no ignoring that they are there! :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Hope6 · Post by **Hope6** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 5:16 am

Touchstone;1065213 wrote: Personally I think that if you have a sexy cleavage you should show it off irrespective of your age.

Me I’m a boob man which doesn’t mean that I am crazy about the Pammi Anderson type, but simply that I like boobs ¦ small, medium and large.

When I am with a lady who is very well endowed I know from experience that she is gonna go: I just know that this guy can’t wait to get his hands on my puppies!

WRONG!!

When I am with a well-developed lady I make a point of, while not totally ignoring her boobs, concentrating more on kissing her face, her neck, her throat, her shoulders and her thighs. In this way she becomes much more comfortable with me because I am not like diving into her chest so to speak!

On the other hand when I am with a lady with tiny boobs I concentrate my attention more on this area of her body which makes her much more at ease because she isn’t used to men doing this!

What do the ladies think?

Touchstone i sorry if i put a damper on your thread hun! i'm not a prude or anything, but just blame this aristocratic old southern family of mine! :wah: everything always has to be so proper!

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 6:31 am

Hope6;1065930 wrote: i'm 41 and i have always when going out tried to dress classy, and as i said before have never shown any cleavage, but i do occasionally wear dresses a little above the knee! :sneaky:

but as a 36C i know that isn't anywhere near a DD but the'res still no ignoring that they are there! :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

classy is much prettier that sluty anyday!

class has distinction and says what a woman is really all about.

Touchstone · Post by **Touchstone** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 6:59 am

Hope6;1065370 wrote: maybe it's where i live or the strict upbringing that i had, but i was taught that a lady never wears anything that shows her cleavage out in public, regardless of her age. i can remember when i was a teenager my mother being very strict about anything i wore and how low the neckline was. And if you were wearing a blouse or dress that had a loose collar where if you bent over it would show anything you had to make sure you put your hand up to the collar and held onto it when you bent over, those were just a couple of the many, many rules of etiquette i had to remember!

to this day i still have not ever worn any cleavage revealing clothing.

Oooh Hope! Are you a prude? Why in Gone With The Wind I can recall Scarlett flashing quite a bit of cleavage! Was that just then? Anyway there is absolutely nothing wrong in leaving lots to the imagination!

Ryan.

Touchstone · Post by **Touchstone** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 7:02 am

qsducks;1065235 wrote: Are 34-B's considered small or medium? Hey, they got huge when I was preggars:wah:

I dunno. I"m not too good at bra sizes. Is 34B more or less than a handfull?

Ryan.

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 7:03 am

It's too cold here to show cleavage now.....................:wah:

Ghads, I don't care, I wear swimsuits and everything shows-how else can I go surfing? I don't look too bad for my age, so it's not like it's a public nuisance to dress that way. I dress prim and properly layered at school, can't show much with three layers on already in November.

Downside of being in the best physical shape of my life, no one to notice it.......I'll just go break another board or two now thinking of it..................:wah:

Touchstone · Post by **Touchstone** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 7:05 am

wildhorses;1065761 wrote: I think thats a great strategy. And .....um...you should consider writing erotic short stories.

Works for me! And ... um ... I'm a Freelance Journalist/Writer so I probably have!

Ryan.

Hope6 · Post by **Hope6** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 7:13 am

Touchstone;1065992 wrote: Oooh Hope! Are you a prude? Why in Gone With The Wind I can recall Scarlett flashing quite a bit of cleavage! Was that just then? Anyway there is absolutely nothing wrong in leaving lots to the imagination!

Ryan.

actually i think it's more fun to leave a lot to the imagination! :sneaky:

but no i'm not a prude! :wah:

and actually hollywood movies tend to show a view that isn't quite acurate sometimes!

it that time period the only time a lady wore a low cut dress was to very special occasions like balls and such, the rest of the time they wore clothing with a much higher neckline!

Milly · Post by **Milly** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 7:18 am

Hope6;1065938 wrote: everything always has to be so proper!

LOL.... I guess we all have differing opinions of what we perceive to be 'proper'... I don't see my wearing a top or a dress exposing a little cleavage as 'improper' just as I don't see your wearing a dress above the knee as such.....

I believe being a 'lady' is all about how one conducts oneself.... not about the packaging

Hope6 · Post by **Hope6** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 7:19 am

Odie;1065977 wrote: classy is much prettier that sluty anyday!

class has distinction and says what a woman is really all about.

yeah i prefer classy to sluty anyday!

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 7:20 am

Hope6;1066014 wrote: actually i think it's more fun to leave a lot to the imagination! :sneaky:

but no i'm not a prude! :wah:

and actually hollywood movies tend to show a view that isn't quite acurate sometimes!

it that time period the only time a lady wore a low cut dress was to very special occasions like balls and such, the rest of the time they wore clothing with a much higher neckline!

you are one classy lady!:-4

Milly · Post by **Milly** » Sat Nov 22, 2008 7:22 am

Can I ask what is considered to be slutty?