Just thinking out loud....

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Thu Jul 20, 2006 5:11 pm

I was just reading Marie's new thread about being alone on an island for a year, and my first thought was: "S*%t, that's my sentence for the next year, I'm already there!" I almost posted something to that effect, but caught myself.

Also, a couple other posts I have made recently seem to be depressing and somewhat dark. I just wanted to apologize to everyone for being so glum, and for dragging my glumness up in everyone else's threads. It's kinda hard to NOT be glum, and being here with all of you guys is about all I can handle when it comes to being around other people right now, so you all bear the brunt of my depression and anger, and sadness. So, for that, I'm sorry. Trying to be positive just isn't working yet, I'm still wallowing. I hope everyone understands and maybe calls me on it when I'm being a party-pooping lump.

You guys don't deserve to be subjected to my moods all the time like that.

OpenMind · Post by **OpenMind** » Thu Jul 20, 2006 5:14 pm

I haven't seen anything worth apologising for BR. If you have, I'm sure those of us who know why can make an exception for you. Chin up.

Any progress on getting matters rectified?

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Thu Jul 20, 2006 5:16 pm

No need for this. Your on a rollercoaster and we know that. Big hug cuddles.

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Thu Jul 20, 2006 5:20 pm

life's full of ups & downs, friends aint worth much if they only appear for the ups

Marie5656 · Post by **Marie5656** » Thu Jul 20, 2006 5:22 pm

Now, what have we told you about this thinking out loud business? Just gets you in trouble.

No worries, mate. You are among friends. If I did not think that, do you think I would have started my thread about being depressed?

Marie5656 · Post by **Marie5656** » Thu Jul 20, 2006 5:25 pm

You are having a tough go of things now, and while it is probably considered "normal" to feel down and all bummed...remember to talk with friends, alot. And, if you need to, get counseling...just to talk things out. No shame in that, these days.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Thu Jul 20, 2006 5:26 pm

Well thanks guys, but it still feels selfish. I'm used to being the one to help other folks out and being strong, and giving advice etc, etc...

OM, I did talk to my appeal lawyer today, and he has given me a bit better of a time-frame about the process. Basically, nothing much is going to happen until they get the court transcripts ready, and they have till the beginning of October to do that, and according the lawyer, they will take every last day they have to fulfill their obligations. Friggin' court system is an utter joke.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Thu Jul 20, 2006 5:28 pm

Marie5656 wrote: You are having a tough go of things now, and while it is probably considered "normal" to feel down and all bummed...remember to talk with friends, alot. And, if you need to, get counseling...just to talk things out. No shame in that, these days.
I'd love to go back to my therapist, but my insurance is gone now and every penny I make is going to pay for the appeal. My Dad is looking into some options, though. I can't focus long enough to research anything right now.

cars · Post by **cars** » Thu Jul 20, 2006 6:09 pm

BabyRider wrote: Well thanks guys, but it still feels selfish. I'm used to being the one to help other folks out and being strong, and giving advice etc, etc...

OM, I did talk to my appeal lawyer today, and he has given me a bit better of a time-frame about the process. Basically, nothing much is going to happen until they get the court transcripts ready, and they have till the beginning of October to do that, and according the lawyer, they will take every last day they have to fulfill their obligations. Friggin' court system is an utter joke.

Wow BR, when you say the beginning of October, that seems like an eternity! It most certainly is for you.

But you must just concentrate on & take it "one-day-at a time"! That's the only way you will get through & that is to make it into "managable time"! Yesterday is gone, tomorrow is out of sight, so today is all that really matters. Then tomorrow will become today, & you concentrate on "today" again! The very strongest of "positive vibes" are being sent your way!

Stay strong BR, & keep cussing, spitting, yelling, hitting, kicking, punching, banging things, all you want in here, that's what our shoulders are here for!

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Jul 20, 2006 6:11 pm

BR, there is certainly nothing to apologize for, you are having the toughest of times! You can be whatever mood you want to!:-4

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Thu Jul 20, 2006 6:35 pm

BR, Not to worry sweetie we understand completely what your going through and we are all here for you. :-4

If you need to talk something out let us know or PM one of us. I'm always here for you, and I'm a damn good listener and I don't charge a thing..

This is going to be a test of your will through out this whole process and what ever I can do to help you just let me know.:-6

I need to write Bullet again I worked last weekend so I didn't have to time to send a note I will do so this weekend. Have you heard anything from him??

Once you get the transcripts then its full steam ahead..

OpenMind · Post by **OpenMind** » Fri Jul 21, 2006 2:37 am

Stay strong BR, & keep cussing, spitting, yelling, hitting, kicking, punching, banging things, all you want in here, that's what our shoulders are here for!
Ouch! Quit thumping on my back Cars. It ain't a table.

BabyRider wrote:

I did talk to my appeal lawyer today, and he has given me a bit better of a time-frame about the process. Basically, nothing much is going to happen until they get the court transcripts ready, and they have till the beginning of October to do that, and according the lawyer, they will take every last day they have to fulfill their obligations. Friggin' court system is an utter joke.

Our court system is no better, BR. So you have my sympathies there. It all takes so long, then before you know it, the day is upon you. Our fingers are crossed for you both and prayers are winging their way. Like Cars says, we're here for you for those bad days. Oh, I can hear a lament in the distance...

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Fri Jul 21, 2006 3:09 am

Oh Baby Rider

It helps us to help you

That's what friendship is all about

Truly :-6