Anyway. I came to meet him because he was in the same social group as my other friend Barbara, whom he was having a fling with. She in her thirties, and flirts with anything in trousers anyway. I see him on Thursday evenings and he stays the odd weekend when it’s too late for him to catch his bus back to his village after a social event by our group. But he is becoming a pain in the rear at the moment, he’s a bit possessive and he wants to meet up with us all the time. He lives on his own and he is strangling our friendship because he is not letting us have any breathing space at all. We have tried talking to him to say we have our own lives to lead, and that he should be hanging round with other people his own age but he keeps ignoring it, and has an attitude which is stupid. He once shouted at one of us in a public place that didn’t go down too well, he never apologised for that; only when I demanded he did.
He say’s he’s young at heart, but when he insisted that he wanted to go round the fair with some of us, he moaned that it was too loud which I something I don’t understand, because he’s going deaf! I often have to shout and repeat myself to make myself heard. I have my eye’s on a bloke and I said I would do him something to eat before we went out to play darts, Wilfred plays in the team as well and says ‘so your cooking for the three of us then?’ I DON’T THINK SO! I think it’s bloody cheeky that Wilf invites himself along, and also cramps my style, because I don’t want to put this guy off by making him think I prefer old age pensioners to younger men. Wilfred is also irritated with us because we haven’t invited him out on a ‘Girls night out’. It’s like he wants to keep an eye on us all the time, he even copies what we buy and what things we sign up to in the social group, even through he’s not bloody interested.
Many thanks and apologies for bringing this up. Has anyone else had this problem? :-5
