Have you Ever Cheated on your WIfe/Husband?

Saffron · Post by **Saffron** » Mon Dec 04, 2006 7:43 pm

I don't know why I thought of this, but I was just wondering how many people have cheated on their significant others. So I'm gonna try and make this poll. You can elaborate on your answer.

Here it goes.......Yes or no, do you or have you ever cheated while you were/are married, or not?

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Mon Dec 04, 2006 7:45 pm

Only in my mind. But have to admit my mind was working overtime.:wah:

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Dec 04, 2006 7:47 pm

NOPE, I'm a good girl i am.

Saffron · Post by **Saffron** » Mon Dec 04, 2006 7:48 pm

Not me, when I was married I was bad. Very, very bad.:-1

But I don't think that I would cheat now.

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Mon Dec 04, 2006 10:07 pm

NO - I always left one relationship before another started.

I have dated a man that was seperated - that didn't worked out - he went back to the wife, never did that again - not worth it, but fun while it lasted..

Patsy

jennyswan · Post by **jennyswan** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 4:30 am

Nope I never did. I couldn't live with such a guilty conscious I would have to tell him. :-3

Post by **Betty Boop** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 4:34 am

Nope, no way, sort one out before embarking on another.

Tater Tazz · Post by **Tater Tazz** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 4:37 am

never! could never live with myself.

Sheryl · Post by **Sheryl** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 4:40 am

No I haven't nor do I think I ever will.

venus · Post by **venus** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 4:53 am

NO

I have way too much of a guilty conscience, plus have had it happen to me nd know how crappy it makes you feel.

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 7:01 am

no, I've been with my husband for almost 13 years and I haven't and wouldn't.

Life is complicated enough sometimes, I don't need to create more crap to deal with...:wah:

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Tue Dec 05, 2006 10:13 am

Nope - and never would

DesignerGal · Post by **DesignerGal** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 10:14 am

Well, well, well. There are 3 people her who have a BIG secret!:sneaky:

Just kidding. I havent cheated either.

LilacDragon · Post by **LilacDragon** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 10:24 am

I have never cheated on a spouse.

My first husband couldn't keep his pants on but he got much better at hiding it after I caught him the first time. (I was young and stupid.)

Now - I don't know if this is considered cheating - but my husband moved out in October and told me the Sunday after Thanksgiving that he wanted a divorce.

Last night he told me he was "seeing" his sister's roommate.

Since he also lives at his sister's house - wouldn't this mean he is LIVING with someone!!!!!!

I guess that just goes to show that even after 10 years together you don't really know what someone is capable of.

koan · Post by **koan** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 11:15 am

I've cheated emotionally on boyfriends but never physically.

jennyswan · Post by **jennyswan** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 3:00 pm

koan;477321 wrote: I've cheated emotionally on boyfriends but never physically.

Well if we're talking about mentally. I think I've cheated on all them :p

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 3:26 pm

sunny104;477127 wrote: no, I've been with my husband for almost 13 years and I haven't and wouldn't.

Life is complicated enough sometimes, I don't need to create more crap to deal with...:wah:

Ditto, except it's nearly 17 years. MY other half makes me laugh out loud and he's fun and inventive in bed...why would I want to lose that? :-4

K.Snyder · Post by **K.Snyder** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 3:31 pm

All the ones whos partner freaquently visits this site's answer is "No -- Hell no"

Those who doesn't... "What are you kiddin? -- I just went freak on a leash last night on top of the car hood. Who you kiddin?

I've never been married, so I'm entitled to skip this answer...but no, I would never cheat on the woman I love. And I do mean never.

Post by **Betty Boop** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 3:33 pm

Rapunzel;477526 wrote: Ditto, except it's nearly 17 years. MY other half makes me laugh out loud and he's fun and inventive in bed...why would I want to lose that? :-4

Wow, and here's to lots more years of that Rapunzel! :-4

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 3:34 pm

Besides in my studies, gynacologicly speaking they are all pretty much the same.

jennyswan · Post by **jennyswan** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 3:54 pm

Ok what's freak on a leash? Explain to the irish lassie here please?

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 4:13 pm

Betty Boop;477541 wrote: Wow, and here's to lots more years of that Rapunzel! :-4

I'll say! Woohoo!!! :wah:

.:TWIZTIDlMANSON:. · Post by **.:TWIZTIDlMANSON:.** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 5:54 pm

no i havent (sometimes i dream though)

rainbowsmiles · Post by **rainbowsmiles** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 5:59 pm

Nope. My conscience wouldn't allow it.

K.Snyder · Post by **K.Snyder** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 7:06 pm

jennyswan;477582 wrote: Ok what's freak on a leash? Explain to the irish lassie here please?

It's just a figure of speech in reference to crazy and exotic behavior. More or less sexual, but it's not really my sort of taste...I only used it in reference to sexual behavior in an attempt to be funny that's all.

Perhaps the song sung by Korn "Freak on a leash", may help to elaborate better.

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K.Snyder · Post by **K.Snyder** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 7:18 pm

Pinky;477775 wrote: Aw, K's a good boy really, underneath that hardnut exterior!

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WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Tue Dec 05, 2006 8:32 pm

Pinky;477725 wrote: Does it count if you'd split at the time then got back together?

If not then no, if so then yes.

Don't judge anyone until you walk in their shoes.

Like anyone is going to admit it even if they did? Most people are too damn scared what other people would think of them.

So, being Miss Contraversial - YES I have! When I was despaerately unhappy, and not my current partner before anyone assumes. I'd have to say I don't regret it at all. It made me realise that I didn't love the guy and I should let him go.

Plus it was rather good if I do say so!

When I truly love someone, there's no way I'd even think about it.

Very well said...I admitted to it, and then went back and took it off of here, afraid what people would think...because didn't feel like explaining the whole situation..I was mis-treated and told he didn't love me for a year or so...someone showed me affection...it was very wrong and I regret it...would never do it again. I'm the loyal type in a healthy loving relationship, was married for 15 years...and was faithful for 14 and a half...most people are very quick to judge when you admit to something that is morraly wrong...

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Wed Dec 06, 2006 6:32 am

I agree about not judging someone unless you have walked in their shoes :-6

It's a very slippery slope

And no, I have not cheated on my husband -- if you guys think that Catholic guilt is bad, wait'll you see Jewish guilt

!!

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Wed Dec 06, 2006 7:47 am

I have not cheated in real life but in my mind - frequently but not with attainable men, by that I mean a quick fantasy about a roll in the hay with someone famous, or someone way out of my league. (trouble is I usually fall asleep before the good bits!)

I love my husband and hope that I would never be unfaithful but I acknowledge that I can't see into the future and don't know what life has in store for us, what happens if we are unable to have a physical relationship anymore? I say now that I could live without it but I don't really know.

I admire anyone that has the honesty to admit to it and the courage to try to fix a relationsip afterwards.

Red · Post by **Red** » Thu Dec 07, 2006 7:10 am

Never have, never will. Ive always left a relationship before starting another, id hate it done to me tbh so why would i do it to somebody else?

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Thu Dec 07, 2006 12:12 pm

NO..............comment.

mominiowa · Post by **mominiowa** » Thu Dec 07, 2006 3:04 pm

No one can judge anyone or anything about the subject at hand...unless they have been in a relationship that has no love...no trust because it has been burnt to the last match..and lonely --so lonely that you didn't want to get out of bed in the morning.......two wrongs never made a right--but for one night it felt wonderful!!!! hmmm so the truth....yes. Plan and simple..and did I end up telling him??? yes...did he care--of course not. I belittled myself to hurt him...and he laughed and said I didn't matter and that he thought I was lying..no one would want me...

Bez · Post by **Bez** » Thu Dec 07, 2006 3:23 pm

Never have...don't think I ever would because having been cheated on I know how much it hurts.