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it struck me today in a moment of totaly un jimbo like clarity , if your unhappy with the way things are , and you keep doing the same things ,you can only expect the same results right ? you being unhappy , bare with me please rational thought is not easy for me ,so i want change i want to be happy , no one else is gona change so its up to me , i will be the change that makes my world happy .... right then ... i know what i must do:-6 what can you do to change your world coz no one can do it for you :confused:



i reserve the right to pinch any of your good ideas to make my change a better one :sneaky: :sneaky:
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flopstock;541325 wrote: My best advice...



Quit doing the things that you feel others expect of you.. instead focus on the things that you expect of you..





five dollars please..:D


i'd of paid ten :wah: :wah: .......oops:lips:
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Being happy starts within you need to know who you are, what is your purpose in this world. The minute you know how to respond to that anything else will come as the bonus.

Relax and try to recall the last day you were happy, think of all those happy moments you had this might help to get yourself back.

good luck!
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Pumza;541328 wrote: Being happy starts within you need to know who you are, what is your purpose in this world. The minute you know how to respond to that anything else will come as the bonus.



Relax and try to recall the last day you were happy, think of all those happy moments you had this might help to get yourself back.



good luck!


jimbo ,purpose in the world , my friend you cannot possibly put those two things in the same book let alone the same sentance ..:wah: :wah:

i've not seen you around nice to meet you ,i'm just frustrated more than unhappy , i need to change a few things , my friend what would you change in your world :D
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:( im sorry.... I have been drawning in my own frastruation lately and still trying to sort out my life......
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Pumza;541334 wrote: im sorry.... I have been drawning in my own frastruation lately and still trying to sort out my life......


i'd try and help out if i could i'd probably drive you to the brink of insanity though :wah:



you know like inspector clouseau did to Dreyfus in the pink panther movies twitch twitch:wah: :wah: :wah:
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thank you very much!:)
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jimbo;541323 wrote: it struck me today in a moment of totaly un jimbo like clarity , if your unhappy with the way things are , and you keep doing the same things ,you can only expect the same results right ? you being unhappy , bare with me please rational thought is not easy for me ,so i want change i want to be happy , no one else is gona change so its up to me , i will be the change that makes my world happy .... right then ... i know what i must do:-6 what can you do to change your world coz no one can do it for you :confused:



i reserve the right to pinch any of your good ideas to make my change a better one :sneaky:
Positive thinking Jimbo, thats what you need, and the greatest thing you can do for all around is to love yourself! :-6
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Help others. When you help another who's in a fix, it puts your own problems into better perspective plus you've made the load easier on a fellow person and hopefully what comes around goes around.

Make time for yourself. It's okay to put yourself first sometimes.

Never put yourself down and treat yourself as your own best friend.

The Rabbi Hillel said "If I am not for me, who will be?"

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jimbo;541323 wrote: it struck me today in a moment of totaly un jimbo like clarity , if your unhappy with the way things are , and you keep doing the same things ,you can only expect the same results right ? you being unhappy , bare with me please rational thought is not easy for me ,so i want change i want to be happy , no one else is gona change so its up to me , i will be the change that makes my world happy .... right then ... i know what i must do:-6 what can you do to change your world coz no one can do it for you :confused:



i reserve the right to pinch any of your good ideas to make my change a better one :sneaky: :sneaky:


Whatever you do, do it for yourself.

If it makes you feel good do it!





But always ask yourself the question, 'Is what I am about to do going to hurt or harm other people or their feelings?' If the answer to this question is 'yes' or 'don't know', then don't do it.

If the answer is 'No', then go for it- BIG TIME!



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Status quo is not always in the best interest of others either.

Change is often unpleasant. Does unpleasant equal hurtful?
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Change can be scary, but exciting.



Best advice I can give is to look forward not back, live life to the full and don't get to the end of it and think what if.....
Originally Posted by spot

She is one fit bitch innit, that Immy





Don't worry; it only seems kinky the first time
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jimbo;541323 wrote: it struck me today in a moment of totaly un jimbo like clarity , if your unhappy with the way things are , and you keep doing the same things ,you can only expect the same results right ? you being unhappy , bare with me please rational thought is not easy for me ,so i want change i want to be happy , no one else is gona change so its up to me , i will be the change that makes my world happy .... right then ... i know what i must do:-6 what can you do to change your world coz no one can do it for you :confused:



i reserve the right to pinch any of your good ideas to make my change a better one :sneaky: :sneaky:


Jimbo, I've been feeling this way for MONTHS!! I understand and all I can say is in time things will improve.

You have already proved to yourself that you can go to a pub and not drink.

That is an accomplishment that many can't bring themselves to...Be proud of the accomplishments you've made.

We all have goals and sometimes they aren't met as quickly as we'd like them to due to getting side-tracked to something else...that's LIFE....

Also, you make people laugh, I know you make me laugh on a daily basis...Thank you...
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I'm thinking I didn't answer the question...

what I do to make a change...I pick ONE thing at a time...cause I have a trillion things I have to do to make Wendy's World a happy one...focus on it...when I have that one down...NEXT!!

for example...quit smoking a month ago...now time to go onto losing weight, once I have that down, will have others to conquer...just never ends:-5

But I'm HAPPY!!:-6
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Depending on the subject, I've found most people would prefer to be unhappy than face the unknowing and unpredictable change result. Fear of the unknown can prevent change.
I probably posted that in an ambien trance-soryy
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thanks guys , i meant this to be a jimbo is in a positive mood thread coz thats what i am in , and it was meant as a kick up the arse to some one who is down and out but seems unable to take the first faltering steps on the way to recovery , if you dont help yourself then its harder for someone else too ,after a few bad knocks i feel that i have the first green shoots of recovery coming outa the charred ashes of a life that i once enjoyed living in, i know we have a few horrors to come in the next few months i'm not deluding myself , but i'm damned if i'm just gona lay here and let fate crap all over me once again , this time its different i can prepare i know what could be coming and i'm going to do something about it, me and the suze have to be strong a lot of people are counting on us , and starting with tonight by going to the gym together we are fighting back:-6 :-6 :-6
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jimbo;541490 wrote: but i'm damned if i'm just gona lay here and let fate crap all over me once again , this time its different i can prepare i know what could be coming and i'm going to do something about it, me and the suze have to be strong a lot of people are counting on us , and starting with tonight by going to the gym together we are fighting back:-6 :-6 :-6


Sorry Jimbo but I am pessimistic about human behavior in others. However, what I bolded up there is exactly what people should grasp when wanting to change.
I probably posted that in an ambien trance-soryy
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devist8me;541493 wrote: Sorry Jimbo but I am pessimistic about human behavior in others. However, what I bolded up there is exactly what people should grasp when wanting to change.
i'm not like that d8, the way i look at it this if you go into a friendship expecting that person only to do nasty deeds that is all you will see your friendship will wither and die , but if you go into a friendship believing that person is nice and good then thats all you will see and when you friend sees that you trust them your friendship will grow , i think your a nice person and if you like me we could become friends and if you dont join the long line:wah:



mind you watch out for that wise guy he seems dodgy his eyes are too close together , watch him :wah: :wah: :wah:
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jimbo;541513 wrote: i'm not like that d8, the way i look at it this if you go into a friendship expecting that person only to do nasty deeds that is all you will see your friendship will wither and die , but if you go into a friendship believing that person is nice and good then thats all you will see and when you friend sees that you trust them your friendship will grow , i think your a nice person and if you like me we could become friends and if you dont join the long line:wah:



mind you watch out for that wise guy he seems dodgy his eyes are too close together , watch him :wah:





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