Fume...............................

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:16 pm

I'm going to do something that i abhor, i apologise in advance.

I received an email of a past member telling me that a member of this forum had said i'd been bad mouthing her!

I dont like to blow my own trumpet but i always thought i was quite unassuming.

Here's the thing, this so called "friend" wont tell me who this liar is and it's left me angry.

Guess i should stay in the arcade with floppy and somebody, at least i stay out of trouble there. :rolleyes:

Red · Post by **Red** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:19 pm

Oh let em get on with it chick... tittle tattlers only do so cos theyve usually not got much else to offer

koan · Post by **koan** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:19 pm

I don't see the point of telling someone such a thing and leaving the name blank. Sounds like you're best off assuming there was a bad translation along the way. With half a story the most you can do is half believe it.

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:20 pm

Are you sure this former member is not stirring the pot? Why would a friend tell you someone said something and then not say who or what?

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:21 pm

Dont you dare stay in the arcade, we dont see enough of you round this board as it is Abbz

I dont know who the past member is you are referring too but ask yourself - are THEY known for stirring trouble? if the answer is yes - well there you have it

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:23 pm

I've asked her twice now and no answer, i've now told her not to mail me again.

I'm really pissed off about it.

minks · Post by **minks** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:25 pm

2 things...

"former member?" Hmmmmmm why are they back and taking a stab at stirring it up

and

don't worry about it Abb's you are well loved so I would not even respond

oh and point 3

It was not I

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:27 pm

I only believe, that you are a very sweet person.

minks · Post by **minks** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:29 pm

Whomever is still getting their jollies from running around starting fires in PM"s and emails surely needs to grow up... seems this tactic has been tried before and didn't work....

They just want to see people going at each others throats.

I would like to say if they are still able to read this here and now.....

"Grow up and go poke sticks at your own members in your own forums and leave us all alone here"

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:29 pm

abbey, you are well loved and liked round here....dont let the former member play with your head.....:-4

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:30 pm

abbey;547906 wrote: I'm going to do something that i abhor, i apologise in advance.

I received an email of a past member telling me that a member of this forum had said i'd been bad mouthing her!

I dont like to blow my own trumpet but i always thought i was quite unassuming.

Here's the thing, this so called "friend" wont tell me who this liar is and it's left me angry.

Guess i should stay in the arcade with floppy and somebody, at least i stay out of trouble there. :rolleyes:

For what it's worth - if a name is given then it can be checked. With no name you have to take your "friend's" word for it.

Who gets what out of it - 'cos it doesn't seem friendly to give you grief with no recourse.

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:31 pm

Yeah, and I wanna see Val's smilie guys with the pokie sticks give it to them too!

(that one makes me laugh)

Abbey, don't pay them no mind.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:38 pm

Just got a reply and part of it said " i am sorry, and will always think of you as a friend, but i just don't want problems with this person"

Nice eh?

koan · Post by **koan** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:39 pm

abbey;547933 wrote: Just got a reply and part of it said " i am sorry, and will always think of you as a friend, but i just don't want problems with this person"

Nice eh?

i recognise the writing. :wah:

Post by **spot** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:41 pm

koan;547935 wrote: i recognise the writing. :wah:

And no spelling mistakes!

Post by **Betty Boop** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:43 pm

koan;547935 wrote: i recognise the writing. :wah:

:wah: hehehe Abbey don't take any notice hun it's just more stirring.:-4

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:43 pm

koan;547935 wrote: i recognise the writing. :wah:
You're bad. :sneaky:

My apologies to FG, i really should'nt have started this bloody thread,

I just had no-one to talk to and i was mega pissed off about it.

cinamin · Post by **cinamin** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:43 pm

I can think of better ways to make trouble.

koan · Post by **koan** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:43 pm

the absurdity is that the two emails do not support each other. If she didn't want a problem with this person who supposedly exists (:wah: ) then she would tell the person that she wasn't comfortable hearing you talked about.

Telling you what she did makes it worse. She created two problems. (Except we know the first one doesn't really exist)

koan · Post by **koan** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:45 pm

abbey;547940 wrote: You're bad. :sneaky:

My apologies to FG, i really should'nt have started this bloody thread,

I just had no-one to talk to and i was mega pissed off about it.

Respects to you, abbey. I'm glad you got it off your chest.

Devil begone!

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:47 pm

koan;547945 wrote: Respects to you, abbey. I'm glad you got it off your chest.

Devil begone!

Abbeynormal service is now resumed. :wah:

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:56 pm

Hamster;547956 wrote: Abbeynormal??? Is that possible? :wah:

I try my best. :p

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 7:30 pm

abbey;547933 wrote: Just got a reply and part of it said " i am sorry, and will always think of you as a friend, but i just don't want problems with this person"

Nice eh?

That says the person is pretty spineless in that respect as well as not naming the other person. I mean really. I would let them coddle over to their other "friend" and not give them the time of day anymore. How dare they send you a message like that Abbey, you're one of the coolest people on here!

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Mon Feb 12, 2007 8:41 pm

chonsigirl;547926 wrote: Yeah, and I wanna see Val's smilie guys with the pokie sticks give it to them too!

(that one makes me laugh)

Abbey, don't pay them no mind.

Your wish is my command, dear lady.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Tue Feb 13, 2007 3:25 pm

abbey;547940 wrote: You're bad.

My apologies to FG, i really should'nt have started this bloody thread,

I just had no-one to talk to and i was mega pissed off about it.

You can always talk to me Abbeynormal. I never really know what it is youre talking about but I prefer it that way anyhoo.

:p :-4

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Tue Feb 13, 2007 3:30 pm

spot;547937 wrote: And no spelling mistakes!

rules out jimbo then:wah: abbey , if it was a real friend they would say nothing rather than , say enough to make you feel bad but not enough to get to the bottom of it , i for one have never ever heard any one say anything even slightly bad about you , :-4

Bill Sikes · Post by **Bill Sikes** » Tue Feb 13, 2007 4:54 pm

Nomad;549133 wrote: You can always talk to me Abbeynormal.

Erm, "Young Frankenstein".

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Tue Feb 13, 2007 4:58 pm

Bill Sikes;549284 wrote: Erm, "Young Frankenstein".

froderick :wah: :wah:

BH672 · Post by **BH672** » Tue Feb 13, 2007 9:00 pm

hump . . . what hump?

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 3:17 am

BH672;549412 wrote: hump . . . what hump?
:wah: :wah:

what lovelly knockers

BH672 · Post by **BH672** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 5:43 am

jimbo;549535 wrote: what lovelly knockers

"Igor, would you give me a hand with the bags?"

"Certainly, you take the blonde and I'll take the one in the turban."

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 6:10 am

BH672;549604 wrote: "Igor, would you give me a hand with the bags?"

"Certainly, you take the blonde and I'll take the one in the turban."

mate i have just thought are you wise guy in disguise ???? no one but him normally leads astray .... i'm watching you buddy :sneaky: :sneaky:

BH672 · Post by **BH672** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 9:18 am

jimbo;549613 wrote: i'm watching you buddy :sneaky: :sneaky:

Uh oh, The Police are looking over my shoulder!

puts on sunglasses and fake moustache

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Feb 14, 2007 9:35 am

BH672;549711 wrote: Uh oh, The Police are looking over my shoulder!

puts on sunglasses and fake moustache

i mean this is just genius you and wise guy are both online so i know your not him , but soberanal is not sooo you could be him