Stupid Email from someone..

grh · Post by **grh** » Tue Dec 11, 2007 1:59 pm

AngelEyes82;738250 wrote: I got an email the other day from My ex's fiancee asking me to not only come to their wedding Nov. 08 BUT she wants me to BE in the wedding.. How stupid is that? I've talked to her once... that's it.. She seems nice enough & I am happy for them but why in the world would they want me to be in their wedding.

She emailed again today to ask if I've thought about the answer.. :rolleyes:

bounce the email back to her and then block her..:sneaky:

lemon_and_mint · Post by **lemon_and_mint** » Tue Dec 11, 2007 2:01 pm

it depends what and how long your relationship was with your ex.

if you had a very long and serious relationship, she may see inviting you as a way of providing closure for all involved.

moonpie · Post by **moonpie** » Tue Dec 11, 2007 2:40 pm

Strange request, I have heard of ex's still keeping in touch, but this is quite weird. Maybe she just wants your blessing, and its' obviously he never bad mouthed you to her, for them not to want you to be there. Maybe that it is meant as a compliment.:-3

kayleneaussie · Post by **kayleneaussie** » Tue Dec 11, 2007 3:24 pm

Did she break you up????? Maybe she is asking out of guilt. I wouldnt go but thats only my opinion.....very strange

laneybug · Post by **laneybug** » Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:07 pm

Hmm... well, I may be jaded, but that reeks of an immature little girl who wants everyone and god to know she's getting married, especially the people who was with the guy in the past. Some women are just strangely territorial like that. Or, maybe she really wants you there. Either way, I agree, it's just weird and just socially not right.

By the way, I like how you got closure. Moved 2,000 miles away and married someone else. I love it. That's just great.

I also love how you told her in no uncertain terms that she was insane.... the fact that she still asked if you thought of an answer probably means your ex-boyfriend found a woman who's got a few screws loose! :wah:

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:13 pm

My friend was married last year and her husband had his father as best man, two other men in attendance and an ex-girlfriend who he remained friends with. She was "the best girl." Still is. My friend was okay with it as they have become friends as well. It seemed odd to me at first but not now knowing the situation.

Weddings make people do crazy things. Maybe your ex wanted you in the wedding because you had been a big part of his life. I wouldn't do it either myself, but I guess some people do.

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Tue Dec 11, 2007 5:28 pm

jimbo;738360 wrote: can every one please stop E mailing me

read the thread title carefully

it does not say Email someone stupid

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl YOU are too funny!

I agree that it sounds like she wants to prove that SHE's THE woman of his life now....You made the right choice. And very nice of you to send a gift....:-4

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Tue Dec 11, 2007 5:30 pm

AngelEyes82;738250 wrote: I got an email the other day from My ex's fiancee asking me to not only come to their wedding Nov. 08 BUT she wants me to BE in the wedding.. How stupid is that? I've talked to her once... that's it.. She seems nice enough & I am happy for them but why in the world would they want me to be in their wedding.

She emailed again today to ask if I've thought about the answer.. :rolleyes:

:eek: What exactly does she want you to do?

Indian Princess · Post by **Indian Princess** » Tue Dec 11, 2007 5:36 pm

I wouldnt go

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Tue Dec 11, 2007 5:54 pm

AngelEyes82;738433 wrote: at first it was to be her maid of honor... I said Oh hell no and then she asked me "just" to be a brides maid.. :rolleyes:

As you have only ever talked to her once and you are not best friends, it instantly makes ask 'whats she up to'?

What an odd thing for her to do

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Tue Dec 11, 2007 6:16 pm

I'm thinking she is a whacky person. Stay FAR FAR AWAY lest she ask for a threesome next!!!!!!!!!! :wah: