I bloody hate funerals

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Mon Feb 04, 2008 4:48 pm

I'm sorry it took me so long to wade through all the new posts and make it here.

Have a safe trip, don't worry about what the family thinks, and say your goodbyes to your friend. I don't handle funerals well at all. Just remember your wonderful memories. I hope that when it's my time, someone says the wonderful things about me, that you said about him. :-4

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Feb 04, 2008 10:37 pm

How sad to lose a friend Pinky. :-1

sounds like a very talented man who led a full life.

I hope the Friday is'nt too painful. :-4

mrsK · Post by **mrsK** » Mon Feb 04, 2008 11:16 pm

It's hard to say goodbye to friends ,but it needs to be done.

Try & remember all the good times Pinky,that helps the most.

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Tue Feb 05, 2008 2:30 am

Funerals can be pretty crap. Sorry that you've got to go to one Pinky, I hope you get the chance to raise a glass to your mate.

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Tue Feb 05, 2008 10:15 am

Hi Pinky, only seen this thread today hun, sorry to hear your mate George passed away, however sounds like he lived life to the max and enriched other peoples lifes on the way so although dead, he definately wont be forgotten.

Hope Friday isnt too painful for you hun

Take Care and Best Wishes

Chezzie x:-6

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Tue Feb 05, 2008 10:19 am

Hey Pinky, sending big hugs your way.

I hate funerals too, and its hard when people talk crap about you, but I know you will handle it with grace and charm!!:-4

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Tue Feb 05, 2008 10:38 am

Sorry sweetie i started mine on the other thread.

just think of the good times and what a happy life he had :-4

Uncle Kram · Post by **Uncle Kram** » Tue Feb 05, 2008 10:49 am

Pinky;771184 wrote: Well, thanks to my old friends for being there for me.

I notice most people seem to be glued to the car-crash TV type threads. Well, in short, I'll remember that and give you the same time of day.

Little wonder people bother coming back.

I've just told someone who gave a damn :yh_giggle

Luv ya Pinky :-4

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:04 am

He was your friend, and you should be allowed to say goodbye to him. Ignore what the people who have judged you wrongly say, and do what is in your heart. :-4

chrisb84uk · Post by **chrisb84uk** » Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:56 am

I'm really sorry to hear about your friend Pinky. I hope that the service goes well on Friday and that he is remembered for all the good times that he had with everyone he knew.

My condelences to his family and friends at a sad time like this! :-4:yh_pray

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Tue Feb 05, 2008 1:03 pm

As has been said Pinky he was a good friend pay your respect and be gone. I can't do funerals period, just creeps me out, always has since I was a kid. I will show up sign the guest book then leave just can't do the whole service, graveside thing. I want to remember people as they were alive, but that's just me.

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Sat Feb 09, 2008 3:35 pm

Pinky;774048 wrote: Thanks for the thoughts, it was very appreciated!

It all went ok, the few people I'd met actually seemed glad I'd come, which was nice. Everyone sang a song that he'd written and the speeches really brought a lump to my throat...things like memories of bike races down absurdly steep hills whilst hammered on cider...all the things he'd told me about. It all caused a bit of a blubber moment!

Still, If I've learnt anything, it's that enthusiasm for life, fun and laughter are infectious and that they're the best tonic for any ailment. I'll carry on remembering that.

It makes you realise we only one shot at this life - lets make the most of it :-4

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Sat Feb 09, 2008 3:57 pm

I'm glad things went okay Pinky.