Dont butt in.....

princessladedah · Post by **princessladedah** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:10 am

My boyfriend and I live on a canal he moved in with me about 8 months ago,we get along with everyone here. Anyhow he is really good friends with a couple candy corner from us,however, they are different then us, not in a bad way, but they drink to much and fight alot, she is about 90 pounds dripping wet, anyhow, yesterday she came over and said her boyfriend had punched her etc. and of course she was drunk, you could tell that he had, still she didnt want to call the police she stayed about 5 hours. Until finally it was late at night and we started dropping hints to leave........

I dont think it is our place to come between these two, they have lived together for 10 years, and I dont want to get sucked into their lives of drama.:-5:-5

cars · Post by **cars** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:37 am

princessladedah;1177567 wrote: My boyfriend and I live on a canal he moved in with me about 8 months ago,we get along with everyone here. Anyhow he is really good friends with a couple candy corner from us,however, they are different then us, not in a bad way, but they drink to much and fight alot, she is about 90 pounds dripping wet, anyhow, yesterday she came over and said her boyfriend had punched her etc. and of course she was drunk, you could tell that he had, still she didnt want to call the police she stayed about 5 hours. Until finally it was late at night and we started dropping hints to leave........

I dont think it is our place to come between these two, they have lived together for 10 years, and I dont want to get sucked into their lives of drama.:-5:-5
Your thread "title" says it all!!! It's best all around!

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:43 am

Yeah, I would stay out of it. Maybe she just needs somebody to talk to. Did she sober up while at your house?

princessladedah · Post by **princessladedah** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:48 am

No, she didnt, she walked to the corner and bought beer.

My boyfriend butts in, I wont, I see trouble a brewin:mad:

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:52 am

princessladedah;1177603 wrote: No, she didnt, she walked to the corner and bought beer.

My boyfriend butts in, I wont, I see trouble a brewin:mad:

Face it, she's an alcoholic....and they usually just use peeps for their own advantages. Your boyfriend should butt out is right....keep us posted as I think your right...trouble brewing.

princessladedah · Post by **princessladedah** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:57 am

My boyfriend drinks , sometimes alot, and I think thats why he gets on so famously with them, I try not to judge, but sometimes I look at them all and think, how is this a benefit?

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 8:01 am

princessladedah;1177612 wrote: My boyfriend drinks , sometimes alot, and I think thats why he gets on so famously with them, I try not to judge, but sometimes I look at them all and think, how is this a benefit?

does your boyfriend know how you feel? I don't see any reason why you should have to entertain your neighbors if they are that much trouble. Jeez, don't tell her your son makes money....she'll be trying to mooch off him & you. My hubs drinks too, but stays out of peeps business.

cars · Post by **cars** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 4:14 pm

princessladedah;1177612 wrote: My boyfriend drinks , sometimes alot, and I think thats why he gets on so famously with them, I try not to judge, but sometimes I look at them all and think, how is this a benefit?
My BIL "died" at the tender age of "22", from "drinking" too much, urge your BF to stop, if he can!!!! If he won't or can't,

then. . . . . . . . . . .

princessladedah · Post by **princessladedah** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 4:57 pm

Been there done that, aa and all that lasted two years then..........

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 5:31 pm

cars;1177592 wrote: Your thread "title" says it all!!! It's best all around!

ditto!

laneybug · Post by **laneybug** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:01 pm

If she was obviously hit by her boyfriend, then all you have to do is call the police and tip them off to the abuse. If it happens again, then at least they'll have a little history.

You should at least do that. Even if she's annoying and a trouble maker, she is still a person. She is still in harm's way.

As for your boyfriend, you can't control who he befriends. Express your concern and leave it at that. If it's something you can't tolerate in your life, then leave him.