Confused yet? Don't feel bad, I've been trying to get my head wrapped around it for 2 weeks.
Anywho, the deal runs that we cut the agent in for the 3% of the new house without having done any work at all in exchange for half-commission (3%) on the house we're selling. Since the new house is more expensive, the agent realizes a slightly larger profit, and we save 3%.
I don't see how this works unless the purchase of the new house is contingent upon the sale of the old one. That's not the case with us. We can pay down without selling the house, so we don't have to get tied up like that.
We'd still like to take advantage of that 3%, since it's free money, but it can only go to a buyer's agent. Anybody have advice or experience with this kind of stuff?