11 year old charged with beating mom

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Fri Sep 14, 2012 10:13 am

One article I read referred to him as the primary caregiver, which

really makes you wonder:

11-Year-Old Elk Grove Boy Allegedly Beat His Disabled Mother - Yahoo! News

flopstock · Post by **flopstock** » Fri Sep 14, 2012 2:30 pm

valerie;1404501 wrote: One article I read referred to him as the primary caregiver, which

really makes you wonder:

11-Year-Old Elk Grove Boy Allegedly Beat His Disabled Mother - Yahoo! News

Shouldn't someone else be arrested for letting a child be the caregiver for the adult?

Post by **Betty Boop** » Fri Sep 14, 2012 2:39 pm

Poor woman, poor kid.

Do all your news reports get presented like that? It was terrible, presented in such a way to fire people up :-2

flopstock · Post by **flopstock** » Fri Sep 14, 2012 2:55 pm

Betty Boop;1404510 wrote: Poor woman, poor kid.

Do all your news reports get presented like that? It was terrible, presented in such a way to fire people up :-2
That's the newest thing. I'm trying not to imagine the things that were being asked of that boy. It just grosses me out. And if he's 11 now, how old was he when this started?

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Fri Sep 14, 2012 2:59 pm

It's so incredibly hard for even adults to be caregivers, that I just

can't see how on Earth this was allowed to go on. There's quite

a bit of depression among baby boomers taking care of aging

parents, and this kid was being asked far too much.

The man at the end of the video clip, who talked through the

door, who was that?

Snooz · Post by **Snooz** » Fri Sep 14, 2012 6:14 pm

Off topic but how do they afford a fairly nice house in what looks like a nice neighborhood? California house prices are still pretty high, aren't they? I know Elk Grove isn't a terribly desirable neighborhood in Sacramento but considering the circumstances, they looked to be living comfortably. Weird situation.

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Fri Sep 14, 2012 6:46 pm

Maybe just renting, rents aren't too high in Elk Grove usually.

Or whatever man that was (husband, father?) has a decent job.

Nights.

Snooz · Post by **Snooz** » Fri Sep 14, 2012 6:56 pm

I must have missed some of the story. I saw the part where the man wouldn't open the door but they made it sound like the 11 year old was her only caretaker and I couldn't figure where the man fit into things.

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Fri Sep 14, 2012 9:39 pm

I don't think you missed anything, but I couldn't figure it all out, either.

Maybe more will come out at a later time.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Fri Sep 21, 2012 3:26 pm

They did a study into Australian primary caregivers . What shocked a lot of people were the number of children in that position. So it's not unheard of I suppose , just swept under the carpet.

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Fri Sep 21, 2012 3:29 pm

The mom in this case has passed away, although the report said it wasn't

injuries from her beating, but her prior medical condition.

Snooz · Post by **Snooz** » Fri Sep 21, 2012 3:38 pm

That kid's going to need counseling for the rest of his life... you know he probably blames himself for her death.