seekerw wrote: Well, hope is what makes the world go round. May your dating situation change soon.:-6
Why, thank you.

<r>seekerw wrote: What a coincidence. All the women I was crushing on last fall were from two to four years older than me. Sure I didn't date you then? (just kidding) :-6<br/>
Hehe... <E>;)</E> I doubt it. I've never even dated in my life. Too bad these crushes didn't reciprocate interest in me ...

It seems like most of the guys I have been crushing on in the past couple of years have all been between two to five years younger than me.

<t>Hamster wrote: Have you ever met someone with whom the "Chemistry" is just amazing? Does all sense of logic and reason disappear when you are around this person?? You know...where time stands still and you can't seem you think of anything else??<br/>
Do you mean as in soulmates of friendships ...

<t>Hey all,<br/>
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It's me again asking for advice.... Only, this time it's romantic advice. A crush.<br/>
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Over the summer, I signed up for a MySpace account because I found this guy's profile very interesting. He works at a photography studio retouching photos, and he and I talked a bit ...

<r>Thank you for your further advice, everyone. I appreciate it very much.<br/>
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Well, a funny thing happened.... late last night she wrote me a comment saying she hadn't heard from me in a while and would hope to hear back from me. Wow!!! Haha...how funny how we BOTH were thinking the same ...

<t>Patsy Warnick wrote: Have you posted anything to the girl lately?<br/>
My last MySpace message response was last week's Monday night (21st of August). I have left her a MySpace comment saying, "Just leaving a note. How was your weekend?" I posted this comment on Monday. No response either. Her ...

<r>Felinessa wrote: In terms of the pushiness, I think that you shouldn't jump to the invitations too soon. Just make casual conversation for a while until you're comfortable with each other.<br/>
Thanks for your advice. In reference to your last sentence about making casual conversation for a ...

I have mentioned twice that the girl is married. I am female, by the way.

<t>Pinky wrote: Try getting to know them online for a while, and if you 'click' with people, they will let you know.<br/>
That's another problem. I am trying to get to know them for a while to see if we click, but how can I do that if they just stop after three messages? I haven't heard from the ...

<t>Patsy Warnick wrote: Do all of you live in the same vicinity? Before you get upset - why don't you take the initiative and suggest getting together. Coffee shop - lunch - hoops etc..<br/>
Yes, we live in the same city. My city is large, but it isn't a really huge city either. We have, maybe, a ...

<t>What are they?<br/>
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Without sounding weird but trying to get to know someone to befriend them online first, how do you not sound weird or creepy? I would like to try and talk with a local girl who has some of the same interests (writing, poetry, making friends). We started writing back-and ...

koan wrote: If you are talking about a partner friend then I second Nomad. There is probably a good reason you broke up. Nice if you can be friends again but don't make plans to move in together.
No, I am referring to a platonic friend. Nothing with romance. Just....friendship-friendship.

<t>Anyone ever have a friendship really fall apart and then later you converged with someone? Such as months or even years later? I would like to read stories on this. If you guys don't mind, can you share the basics of what happened, what healed over time, and where there any apologies going on ...

<t>DesignerGal wrote: I wouldnt use someone's personal weaknesses and flaws to hurt them. THats immature and hurtful. The other person already hates those things about him/her self so its even worse when someone they think is a friend points them out too. You should be ashamed of yourself. Let him ...

<r>Thank you all for your advice.<br/>
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I have contacted him via MySpace, and he seems interested in writing me. We have written three messages back and forth. But, he stopped writing. This was since July 2nd...that was his last message to me. In the last email he mentioned about the separation ...

<t>A online friend and I haven't kept in touch for about two months because he wasn't sure if this was a phase or not. I finally approached him about it via email on August 1st (two days ago) to find out what the deal is. It was then that I learned after sending each other email notes back and forth ...

<t>Just wondering - if you stumbled across a friend's sibling's "MySpace" and saw they were were looking into friendships/dating, would you try to communicate with them if they didn't know you personally? Why? Why not?<br/>
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Here's a mini story: Last year I developed a crush on this guy ...