Ahhh ya just gotta laugh about some things.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 4:48 pm

Shelbell!!!

Holy crap I thought I was being crass....:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

You've just stunned me!!

and yes it was very yummy thankyou

It's funny you know, I never went for men that were to me...what I wanted...like really wanted. I don't know why ...but for the first time in my life I said to myself ...ummmm, I'll have that one please..............and wow!!!!!

Okay enough now, this is getting out of hand :wah: You'll be wanting a full detailed description next lol lol lol

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 4:52 pm

So .........ummmm.................How's about those Raiders eh?

shelbell · Post by **shelbell** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 5:39 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1333840 wrote: Shelbell!!!

Holy crap I thought I was being crass....:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

You've just stunned me!!

and yes it was very yummy thankyou

It's funny you know, I never went for men that were to me...what I wanted...like really wanted. I don't know why ...but for the first time in my life I said to myself ...ummmm, I'll have that one please..............and wow!!!!!

Okay enough now, this is getting out of hand :wah: You'll be wanting a full detailed description next lol lol lol

I just want to know if he has a good looking brother that lives here in the states....I love a morning Danish!!

:yh_rotfl

tektrek · Post by **tektrek** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 5:48 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1333840 wrote: Shelbell!!!

Holy crap I thought I was being crass....:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

You've just stunned me!!

and yes it was very yummy thankyou

It's funny you know, I never went for men that were to me...what I wanted...like really wanted. I don't know why ...but for the first time in my life I said to myself ...ummmm, I'll have that one please..............and wow!!!!!

Okay enough now, this is getting out of hand :wah: You'll be wanting a full detailed description next lol lol lol

OK so now it looks like some of us older but more wise Vikings have been usurped :-1

So come on Fuzzy, out with the details like whre did you meet him, what's his name and what does he do for a crust apart from rape & pillage like all true Vikings?

You can't tell us a snippet of info and then say nothing more.

Come on babe out with all the details, crass or otherwise!!

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 5:58 pm

shelbell;1333851 wrote: I just want to know if he has a good looking brother that lives here in the states....I love a morning Danish!!

:yh_rotfl

Actually shelly. His father is buried in the states and about half of his sisters and brothers are there.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 6:01 pm

tektrek;1333852 wrote: OK so now it looks like some of us older but more wise Vikings have been usurped :-1

So come on Fuzzy, out with the details like whre did you meet him, what's his name and what does he do for a crust apart from rape & pillage like all true Vikings?

You can't tell us a snippet of info and then say nothing more.

Come on babe out with all the details, crass or otherwise!!

Okay you comfy? You got you're pants down?

ha ha ha not going to say anymore. Anyway my dear friend you are spoken for.

Truth be known If I told you I'd be banned from this family site for ever. lol lol

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 6:13 pm

Ahhh I forgot to tell you all . I've been doing my geneology with some help from others. (that I'm apparently related to) Ha ha ha i knew a strand of us were from America but didn't go into it. HUH turns out I'm a direct descendant of a man who was born in the States in 1710. Teh rest are all from Britain . but how's that eh? I'm more American than some of you .....where's my bloody voting card? I demand it!!! :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Thu Sep 23, 2010 2:38 pm

So you know when they say some things are too good to be true? (no I don't mean the Danish) and it's usually correct? Hmmmm I just realised why my ex wanted the CSA kept out of the picture. and other things.

Is there no level of depth this man will go to?

The mind boggles

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Sep 23, 2010 2:58 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1334498 wrote: So you know when they say some things are too good to be true? (no I don't mean the Danish) and it's usually correct? Hmmmm I just realised why my ex wanted the CSA kept out of the picture. and other things.

Is there no level of depth this man will go to?

The mind boggles

oh no, what now?

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 5:34 pm

So which bit of my grandfinal day would you like to know about? The bit before I saved some idiots life or after my friend was jumped by the idiots' mates?

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 7:28 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1334860 wrote: So which bit of my grandfinal day would you like to know about? The bit before I saved some idiots life or after my friend was jumped by the idiots' mates?

Oh my god, I am so sorry!

Is everyone alright?

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Sun Oct 03, 2010 12:26 pm

honestly odie some people just boggle the mind.

Sang in the pub again yesterday but took it easy because I lost my voice a week ago and only just got it back. Now it's all scratchy again. UH OH. got the flu back again too. And the sea mist/fog isn't helping matters.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sun Oct 03, 2010 1:58 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1336493 wrote: honestly odie some people just boggle the mind.

Sang in the pub again yesterday but took it easy because I lost my voice a week ago and only just got it back. Now it's all scratchy again. UH OH. got the flu back again too. And the sea mist/fog isn't helping matters.

oh so that's what you meant on facebook

your voice gave out, that sounds like laryngitis!

and now the flu, I should just call you a sicko, you poor kid!:-4

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kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Mon Oct 04, 2010 3:33 am

fuzzywuzzy;1336493 wrote: honestly odie some people just boggle the mind.

Sang in the pub again yesterday but took it easy because I lost my voice a week ago and only just got it back. Now it's all scratchy again. UH OH. got the flu back again too. And the sea mist/fog isn't helping matters.

sounds like you are having fun!:wah: hope you feel better soon:)

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Mon Oct 04, 2010 3:22 pm

Not fun so much . Just trying to get back into normal life.

The stupid idots Odie were a group of tourists from Melbourne who came to our pub last saturday week to cause trouble . And they did. It's always the out of towners that do this. It's a long story *sigh*

Basically we all were having a good time watching the grandfinal (all the locals were there more than usual because the pub has new people riunning it and it's a good local pub to be at now) Anyway they start a fight with a young local lad and the lads father gets him out of the pub and onto home .....all's good .....but then the person who started the trouble came out of the pub to coax the lad back. The father goes up to this guy and tells him it's all over and to go on his way too. Then all hell breaks lose and the father gets jumped. Something very interesting here ..............he ended up with a few broken ribs and lots of bruising to the head . (this is sounding like violence from melbourne pubs, the injuries I mean) So the police come and escort the pub bus with the trouble makers in it to where they were staying. Meanwhile the pub shut down, my friend and I and other locals are still in the pub and all the trouble makers are outside and dispersing. Then we get the pub bus back to my friends house. He says "*** and her son wants us to stop into her place" . So we walk down to the house and enter the garage expecting to find this old lady and her son and friends there ......Nope, guess who was partying still ,and at the ladies house? yep you guessed it, the trouble makers from the pub .....(turned out two of them were her grand children with their mates from Melbourne) We decide to make a hasty retreat after telling the neighbours who were also there what these kids did at hte pub. They begin to leave and so did we. I turned to look at all of them and noticed a bloke passed out on a bed ....and he wasn't looking too good . I asked them if their friend was okay and they said "yeah he's just sleeping" ....I look again and say "my arse he's sleeping he's unconscious" and he was turning a funny colour. a bluey grey kind of colour. I immediately went over to him and turned him on his side next thing I know I was covered in what I later found out was twelve Yaeger shots on top of all the other alcohol previously drunk during the day. He was choking on his own vomit and they were just going to leave him . ...........................So, I'm covered in vomit but he's okay then one of the drunk blokes in a drunken stupor says "get away from him you bitch" then my friend says to him "OI! She's just trying to help your mate" ....next thing I didn't see him. About six of them jumped him and began to assault him about the head area. ....**** I was angry !!! Ihad this guys head in my lap and making sure he stopped the gurgling noise and I can't help my friend from being assaulted. And only one of those guys was helping me to save his friend ...Only one!!! We cleaned him up while my friend was getting assaulted. God it all happened so quick. One of them took control after a bit and dragged my friend out from under these barstards . I was assured by the guy who helped me that he'd take care of the lad who was unconscious. So we go home being asked ....no pleaded with...." Don't tell my nana because she's old and will get upset." The $%&*^($#@^$#* audacity of this young punk!!!!!!!! And to top it all off one of them says to us You ********** arseholes we have to call an ambulance because such n such's jaw is broke. OMFG!!! ...I thought to myself That'll be nothing after what you've just done sunshine . ....Poor things do not know who they just assaulted. Local knowledge sometimes is a very valuable thing and these young punks didn't have a clue.

Moving forward to Monday . The old lady comes to visit because apparently one of the mothers of the lads sees a message on his facebook page about how they were escorted by police from the pub and wants to know hwat the hell has happened. On top of that the father of the boy who was in a fight with them at the pub rings her to tell her that he can't shear for the next six weeks because her grandsons and their friends broke a few of his ribs. (that's his bread and butter, it's shearing time around here and he's the main shearer.)

So, the lady comes over and wants to know the truth about what happened. She was so upset and teary, and we were trying to comfort her . She vowed never to have those boys down to her house again. And how sorry she was and how her son will go through them like a ton of bricks, and how embarrassed she was about it all.

I can garrantee that if those boys value their lives they won't step foot in this town again

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Mon Oct 04, 2010 7:14 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1336702 wrote: Not fun so much . Just trying to get back into normal life.

The stupid idots Odie were a group of tourists from Melbourne who came to our pub last saturday week to cause trouble . And they did. It's always the out of towners that do this. It's a long story *sigh*

Basically we all were having a good time watching the grandfinal (all the locals were there more than usual because the pub has new people riunning it and it's a good local pub to be at now) Anyway they start a fight with a young local lad and the lads father gets him out of the pub and onto home .....all's good .....but then the person who started the trouble came out of the pub to coax the lad back. The father goes up to this guy and tells him it's all over and to go on his way too. Then all hell breaks lose and the father gets jumped. Something very interesting here ..............he ended up with a few broken ribs and lots of bruising to the head . (this is sounding like violence from melbourne pubs, the injuries I mean) So the police come and escort the pub bus with the trouble makers in it to where they were staying. Meanwhile the pub shut down, my friend and I and other locals are still in the pub and all the trouble makers are outside and dispersing. Then we get the pub bus back to my friends house. He says "*** and her son wants us to stop into her place" . So we walk down to the house and enter the garage expecting to find this old lady and her son and friends there ......Nope, guess who was partying still ,and at the ladies house? yep you guessed it, the trouble makers from the pub .....(turned out two of them were her grand children with their mates from Melbourne) We decide to make a hasty retreat after telling the neighbours who were also there what these kids did at hte pub. They begin to leave and so did we. I turned to look at all of them and noticed a bloke passed out on a bed ....and he wasn't looking too good . I asked them if their friend was okay and they said "yeah he's just sleeping" ....I look again and say "my arse he's sleeping he's unconscious" and he was turning a funny colour. a bluey grey kind of colour. I immediately went over to him and turned him on his side next thing I know I was covered in what I later found out was twelve Yaeger shots on top of all the other alcohol previously drunk during the day. He was choking on his own vomit and they were just going to leave him . ...........................So, I'm covered in vomit but he's okay then one of the drunk blokes in a drunken stupor says "get away from him you bitch" then my friend says to him "OI! She's just trying to help your mate" ....next thing I didn't see him. About six of them jumped him and began to assault him about the head area. ....**** I was angry !!! Ihad this guys head in my lap and making sure he stopped the gurgling noise and I can't help my friend from being assaulted. And only one of those guys was helping me to save his friend ...Only one!!! We cleaned him up while my friend was getting assaulted. God it all happened so quick. One of them took control after a bit and dragged my friend out from under these barstards . I was assured by the guy who helped me that he'd take care of the lad who was unconscious. So we go home being asked ....no pleaded with...." Don't tell my nana because she's old and will get upset." The $%&*^($#@^$#* audacity of this young punk!!!!!!!! And to top it all off one of them says to us You ********** arseholes we have to call an ambulance because such n such's jaw is broke. OMFG!!! ...I thought to myself That'll be nothing after what you've just done sunshine . ....Poor things do not know who they just assaulted. Local knowledge sometimes is a very valuable thing and these young punks didn't have a clue.

Moving forward to Monday . The old lady comes to visit because apparently one of the mothers of the lads sees a message on his facebook page about how they were escorted by police from the pub and wants to know hwat the hell has happened. On top of that the father of the boy who was in a fight with them at the pub rings her to tell her that he can't shear for the next six weeks because her grandsons and their friends broke a few of his ribs. (that's his bread and butter, it's shearing time around here and he's the main shearer.)

So, the lady comes over and wants to know the truth about what happened. She was so upset and teary, and we were trying to comfort her . She vowed never to have those boys down to her house again. And how sorry she was and how her son will go through them like a ton of bricks, and how embarrassed she was about it all.

I can garrantee that if those boys value their lives they won't step foot in this town again

O M G.......your braver than me!

I wouldn't let myself get caught up in it, as here, you may have been killed.

I think you need to stop going there.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Mon Oct 04, 2010 9:45 pm

Nah all's good. It's funny you know i havent had a drink of alcohol since that night .....I can still smell the vomit.........I've been cured of drinking alcohol . Now all I have to do is give up the fags and I"ll be right .....went three days last week.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Mon Oct 04, 2010 10:06 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1336800 wrote: Nah all's good. It's funny you know i havent had a drink of alcohol since that night .....I can still smell the vomit.........I've been cured of drinking alcohol . Now all I have to do is give up the fags and I"ll be right .....went three days last week.

I would to, have to give up alcohol after smelling his barf:yh_sick

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Tue Oct 05, 2010 4:47 am

fuzzywuzzy;1336800 wrote: Nah all's good. It's funny you know i havent had a drink of alcohol since that night .....I can still smell the vomit.........I've been cured of drinking alcohol . Now all I have to do is give up the fags and I"ll be right .....went three days last week.

try going 3 weeks next time fuzz

:wah: you will do it one day,, just keep trying:)

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Wed Oct 06, 2010 2:17 pm

thanks Kazzy!!! I know I will because I'm a bit sick of it now. Just getting over the 'habit hurdles'.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Wed Oct 06, 2010 2:26 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1337096 wrote: thanks Kazzy!!! I know I will because I'm a bit sick of it now. Just getting over the 'habit hurdles'. I am trying to kick 60 a day so my thoughts are with you there.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Wed Oct 06, 2010 2:43 pm

Mine went from 30 to 60 back to 10 back to....... I'm not sure now because I smoke rollies. it's not many though. I have a bad way connection between smoking and my ex. everytime he plays his games a smoke goes into my mouth . I was so used to it it's one of the habits now. Bugger!!!

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Wed Oct 06, 2010 3:18 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1337105 wrote: Mine went from 30 to 60 back to 10 back to....... I'm not sure now because I smoke rollies. it's not many though. I have a bad way connection between smoking and my ex. everytime he plays his games a smoke goes into my mouth . I was so used to it it's one of the habits now. Bugger!!!

smoking is a habit, keep up the good work Megs!

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Wed Oct 06, 2010 6:54 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1337105 wrote: Mine went from 30 to 60 back to 10 back to....... I'm not sure now because I smoke rollies. it's not many though. I have a bad way connection between smoking and my ex. everytime he plays his games a smoke goes into my mouth . I was so used to it it's one of the habits now. Bugger!!!
I started smoking very young and am the only one In my entire family who does.

I have smoked 40 to 60 a day but around 10 years ago I was rushed to hospital with a

Pulmonary embolism. Any-way my high density lung scans came back on parr with a non smoker yet my sister who never had one cigg In her life died of cancer !!! Now where Is the sense In that ??

Since my husband became so Ill, I have to smoke outside the house so If you want me, I will be on the patio:wah:

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Wed Oct 06, 2010 7:26 pm

I didn't smoke or drink until after meeting my ex. I took both up around the age of 24 I think. bad bad thing . But anyhoo.!!!

BTW if there are any mods watching this thread could you check if any guests to my threads are proxys or come to an IP address from north sydney? There's murkiness in the waters

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Wed Oct 06, 2010 7:27 pm

oscar;1337101 wrote: I am trying to kick 60 a day so my thoughts are with you there.

Thanks mate.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Thu Oct 07, 2010 2:01 am

I also smoked rollies fuzz:wah: i think you have to pick your time,, maybe when you know you can avoid being around others that smoke etc. at least for the first week or so ,, i just accepted i was gonna feel ill , and treated it as if i was ill,,, if you get the flu or summat you just have to be ill till you get better,, so thats what i did,, the second week i even put myself to bed a few times:wah: fuzz you know you can do it as if you have done without a cig for 3 whole days ,, then you can do without another 3 whole days ,, and so on....:-4

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Oct 07, 2010 6:33 am

fuzzywuzzy;1337105 wrote: Mine went from 30 to 60 back to 10 back to....... I'm not sure now because I smoke rollies. it's not many though. I have a bad way connection between smoking and my ex. everytime he plays his games a smoke goes into my mouth . I was so used to it it's one of the habits now. Bugger!!!

do rollies come with filters Meg?

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Thu Oct 07, 2010 9:46 am

yeah YOu roll them into the smoke with the tobacco.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Thu Oct 07, 2010 9:50 am

kazalala;1337190 wrote: I also smoked rollies fuzz:wah: i think you have to pick your time,, maybe when you know you can avoid being around others that smoke etc. at least for the first week or so ,, i just accepted i was gonna feel ill , and treated it as if i was ill,,, if you get the flu or summat you just have to be ill till you get better,, so thats what i did,, the second week i even put myself to bed a few times:wah: fuzz you know you can do it as if you have done without a cig for 3 whole days ,, then you can do without another 3 whole days ,, and so on....:-4

hmmm 'see myself as being sick' ...should be easy to accept that because I've been trying to shake of this bloody flu for weeks now.

I tend to do that everytime I give up (put myself to bed) I always tend to get stuck on the forth and fifth days. That's always when the tension begins.

Because I don't drink anymore I'm not around people who smoke now. I've been putting my body through some major withdrawals lately. i'm not sleeping at night and can hardly keep my eyes open during the day. Tis not good.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Oct 07, 2010 11:06 am

fuzzywuzzy;1337245 wrote: yeah YOu roll them into the smoke with the tobacco.

cool! thanks!

I must investigate this.:sneaky:

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Fri Oct 08, 2010 4:28 am

fuzzywuzzy;1337249 wrote: hmmm 'see myself as being sick' ...should be easy to accept that because I've been trying to shake of this bloody flu for weeks now.

I tend to do that everytime I give up (put myself to bed) I always tend to get stuck on the forth and fifth days. That's always when the tension begins.

Because I don't drink anymore I'm not around people who smoke now. I've been putting my body through some major withdrawals lately. i'm not sleeping at night and can hardly keep my eyes open during the day. Tis not good.

oh dear...maybe now is not a good time to try fuzz,,, you should maybe wait till you are feeling better in body and in mind,,, you are and have been going through a lot of stuff so why heap more stress and tension on yourself right now,,, give yourself a break, forget about it and promise yourself you will review in say 6 months time

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Fri Oct 08, 2010 2:51 pm

Nah Kaz I was thinking about doing all this when all the crap was over but ...really if I'm going to feel like crap anyway then I might as well bunch it all together and get it ALL out of the way . And I have to admit i do feel better for not drinking . when I give up smoking I always have to give up drinking as well because of those pesky amino acids.

and I'm lucky I have km's of paddocks surrounding me, I've used them a couple of times to scream my guts out. ALL'S good!!!:)

(well it's not really, but it will be :wah: )

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Sat Oct 09, 2010 1:45 am

fuzzywuzzy;1337581 wrote: Nah Kaz I was thinking about doing all this when all the crap was over but ...really if I'm going to feel like crap anyway then I might as well bunch it all together and get it ALL out of the way . And I have to admit i do feel better for not drinking . when I give up smoking I always have to give up drinking as well because of those pesky amino acids.

and I'm lucky I have km's of paddocks surrounding me, I've used them a couple of times to scream my guts out. ALL'S good!!!:)

(well it's not really, but it will be :wah: )

ok ,, good.. just keep on keeping on eh

:wah:

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sat Oct 09, 2010 10:28 am

fuzzywuzzy;1337245 wrote: yeah YOu roll them into the smoke with the tobacco.

I forgot to mention, going cold turkey is the worst thing to do to kick a bad habit, have you thought about using the gum or patch?

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Sat Oct 09, 2010 7:03 pm

nope cold turkey is the only way . why not give it a go Odie?

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sat Oct 09, 2010 8:07 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1337917 wrote: nope cold turkey is the only way . why not give it a go Odie?

can you do it cold turkey and not sneak one or two?

flopstock · Post by **flopstock** » Sat Oct 09, 2010 8:09 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1337917 wrote: nope cold turkey is the only way . why not give it a go Odie?

I think it's cool you're going for it. But then again I think a lot of the things you've done lately are good things.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Sat Oct 09, 2010 9:42 pm

thanks floppy . It's not really cold turkey when you have a goal. last time I travelled I had a bit of extra weight and it exhausted me . This time I want to be fit as a fiddle. (back packs are heavy)

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 6:19 am

fuzzywuzzy;1337917 wrote: nope cold turkey is the only way . why not give it a go Odie?

Good for you Mags. Cold turkey is the only way to go...and no cheating. I gave up cigs a long time ago through cold turkey.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Mon Oct 11, 2010 5:28 am

fuzzywuzzy;1337917 wrote: nope cold turkey is the only way . why not give it a go Odie?

well that how i did it,:), also you cant stop on patches etc for ever can you,, so there does come a point eventually where you have to do it on your own,,, in my opinion patches etc is just putting off doing it yourself, and admitting before you even start that you cant do it , or at least not on your own. Its probably just down to personal choice i suppose though.

Good luck Fuzzy, and dont worry if you slip,,, you know you are goping to get there eventually:)

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Mon Oct 11, 2010 12:22 pm

apparently I'm a divorcee on the 12th of January.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Mon Oct 25, 2010 11:33 am

SON OF A BITCH!!!!!! I'm the one being targeted and then he tries to turn it around that I'm doing something wrong. GGGGRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!

So apparently my children (according to the new girlfriend) are "at risk" and apparently according to my ex I'm not a "fit and proper person" to hold a firearms lisence.????? Of course this is all untrue but apparently that's what is being said.When confronted with this he tells me that I'm breaching an order and threatens me with an IVO.... WTF?

I think someone did the big panic that I had found out what was being said.

Oh and get this apparently my family will back him up because they've told him these things in the past. .......How angry do you think members of my family are right now?

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:31 pm

GGGGRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!

Email to me. (27th of sept) The orders stipulate that there is no access on the weekend of the 29th October (as per your request on the date of court owing to ******* play commitments. ) As ******* is not in the play, I'm happy to book that weekend in if you agree.

So he's known since the 27th of september that he'll be having the boys on the 29th of OCt.

Okay So he begins arranging with the boys ...NOT ME....... of pick up times etc. (I'm just to do as he says btw) . I'm constantly asking the man not to make arrangements through the children, because it only confuses things. If he had of contacted me instead of the boys this would have been cleared up very quickly. But he doesn't, in fact he's hell bent on controlling all communication

email from me.

The boys follow the usual pattern of pick up and drop off or they don't go I can't rearrange my life to suit your own

So then he cracks the **its

Court orders state that my next time with the boys is Friday 19th November as the coming weekend was specifically excluded. Therefore I will get them from ********* on Friday the 19th November as there is no agreement to the contrary and you have failed to agree to me getting them directly from cricket on Saturday.

IF there is no agreement to the contrary how can I have not agreed about the pick up time? And doesn't it prove that he knew he was having the boys? He constantly arranges things through the boys and not through the proper channels then says there is no agreement.

Interesting set of words here ...."You failed to agree"

BTW all this came about because of the previous post.

Okay I admit it I'm fricken confused. I need some advice here.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Thu Oct 28, 2010 6:40 am

got some good advice today ...kinda funny but sad ...if my ex doesn't want to communicate with me then he must not be sure of the divorce....apparently that's how men work things. ...his behaviour is as such that he can't look me in the eye and say ...it's all over ..he has to do it around other avenues. because if he has anything to do with me it will mean he might break down and confess..and his pride won't allow him to do this. So he has others that will do it for him .

It's really weird he won't confront me . he won't have anything at all to do with me ......why? Others say he still loves me . And still want's me. So why won't he tell me this himself? In fact he won't tell me anything . why won't he tell me that he doesn't want me anymore and say it to my face? why does he need solicitors to do it for him?

that just sucks in my opinion.

JacksDad · Post by **JacksDad** » Thu Oct 28, 2010 8:09 pm

I've had the same done to me.

I think if they keep it up for long enough, you'll be the one to tell them to F off.

Then they are absovlved of being the bad guy.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Fri Oct 29, 2010 8:35 pm

That's nothing in the final orders he's changed the date of seperation by a whole year AGAIN!!!! This I'm told is to rewrite history . So instead of 2008 where the police were called and the kids and I ended up in emergency accommadtion and he swamped me with threatening emails etc etc. He's changed it to 2009 when I came back but really didn't come back Just testing the waters whilst still paying rent etc at the other house i was in, so it looks like I'm the bad guy for asking him to leave because he didn't live up to his promises. (and to this day I still do not have the truth about our marital finances.AND it will look like that all that has been done has happened during the 'marriage' and not applicable when bringing up threats after the seperation......Aint he a darling? ......not. So that's being changed absolutley.

Oh, it also might be because he's taken a dive in paying the true amount of child support ...he's taken the "post seperation payment" option which lasts for three years in which no overtime or benefits count in the assessment to how much he pays. If he changes the date to 2009 he gets another year of not having to pay the proper amount .

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Wed Jan 05, 2011 1:59 am

So life is moving on ......YAY!!!! another year ...more dollars. lol lol lol lol

JD how's things with you?