Disappointment

Honneykit · Post by **Honneykit** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 1:16 pm

Hi everyone, thought I would give you an update to the lunch date I had on friday.

First Mr X as we will call him asked me to have lunch, and yes I agreed the day started with a few messages saying he was real excited on us meeting up and having lunch together. I chose the meeting place as I only had an hour and wanted to make the most of it! I arrive in the pouring rain to a quite but very chic place where I am greeted by Mr X oh my god he had deferred from the truth quite alot then Mr X decided he was not hungry so I missed lunch we had coffee and by the way I paid not that I minded but Mr X did not even attempt too.

He looked like he had not even made the effot and there was me the night before worrying about how I was going to look.

But it gets worse after 50 mins of general chit chat I have to leave and go back to work on leaving . I return to work and find Mr X has phoned and left amessage saying that he thinks I am so special. I think we were in two different places because there will not be another date that is for sure.:-4 No soul mate this time.

pina · Post by **pina** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 1:27 pm

I wouldn't want to see him again either, what a loser.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 1:28 pm

The guy sounds totally thoughtless, and really weird. He asked you out and didn't even offer to pay? Schmuck. And then he tells you you're "special" after an hour? What a flake. You're better off, in my not-so-humble opinion.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 1:47 pm

I'm sorry you had an awful date Hon,

dont let it put you off going on another one.

Well done to you x

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 1:49 pm

How close do you live to Chris? He's single.

cars · Post by **cars** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 1:50 pm

At least your tried, & now are not having any regrets if you didn't go!

It has been said, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince!!!:)

pina · Post by **pina** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 1:54 pm

Accountable wrote: How close do you live to Chris? He's single.

Are you playing cupid here acc,.....They don't live too far apart.

Honneykit · Post by **Honneykit** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 2:02 pm

I must admit things can only get better now Mr X was the bottom the barrel

observer1 · Post by **observer1** » Mon Sep 26, 2005 2:05 pm

What a jerk! He probably thought you were special because you ended up PAYING! Not that WE don't think you're special, because you are! :-6

Good riddens to bad rubbish, I say!!

chrisb84uk · Post by **chrisb84uk** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 2:46 am

pina wrote: Are you playing cupid here acc,.....They don't live too far apart.

Well I'm sorry u had a bad date honney. I certainly would pay for any meals that I had on a date, oh and yes I am single and looking.

I know AC means well, but watch out for any little lies that he tells about me (unless they make me look good of course! :wah: )

PurpleChicken · Post by **PurpleChicken** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 4:02 am

Accountable wrote: How close do you live to Chris? He's single.

teee heee Not a bad suggestion though, we could use a good FG romance!

But seriously Honney - don't be too dissappointed by it. You have to kiss a load of toads before you find your prince...

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 4:46 am

PurpleChicken wrote: teee heee Not a bad suggestion though, we could use a good FG romance!

But seriously Honney - don't be too dissappointed by it. You have to kiss a load of toads before you find your prince...
Maybe, but you may be able to narrow your search if you look for a toad with a crested ring and entourage.

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 6:26 am

did post one say this was an internet thing? i would have made a comment if so.....you have to assume anyone online weighs 473 pounds and is a pervert. :wah: and is wearing walmart underwear marked 'thursday'.

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 6:33 am

I'm confused, LC. So are you for or against the internet thing? I mean, as long as the Thursday drawers are worn only for Thursdays ....... :rolleyes:

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 6:44 am

i know there are successful internet meetings...but i am a skeptic, people LIE.

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 6:45 am

lady cop wrote: i know there are successful internet meetings...but i am a skeptic, people LIE.
:eek: Say it ain't so!!

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 6:49 am

Accountable wrote:

Say it ain't so!!bwaaahhhh if you are that desperate you need to get a vibrator.

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 6:53 am

lady cop wrote: bwaaahhhh if you are that desperate you need to get a vibrator.
They work for men?? :-2 ... :sneaky: ... :rolleyes:

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 6:53 am

Accountable wrote: They work for men?? :-2 ... :sneaky: ... :rolleyes:if you know how, yes.

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 6:55 am

lady cop wrote: if you know how, yes.
This isn't one of those interrogation techniques you've modified for recreation, is it?

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 6:57 am

Accountable wrote: This isn't one of those interrogation techniques you've modified for recreation, is it?nope

actionfigurestepho · Post by **actionfigurestepho** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 7:14 am

At least you found out that he's not for you on the first date, before you had to pay for any more!

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 7:22 am

Least you didn't have to pay for a full lunch, only coffee hehehehe, awww it will only get better.

Hey LC you internet romance skeptic bite your tongue!!!

chrisb84uk · Post by **chrisb84uk** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 7:48 am

Nicely put Far, I feel exactly the same way.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 7:59 am

Far Rider wrote: Ive thought about this before...

Theres no other way I could meet a lady (if i were single). I'm not able to walk up to someone and make conversation and get to know someone that way. But on the net, where I can get to know someone, before I see how they look, kinda takes the pressure off. After all we're supposed to look on the inside not the outside...

The danger of lieing is well noted. But long before you meet, you can get a basic idea of them, web cams, voice messageing, phone calls, and then meeting... build slow, developing levels of trust. I have an Army buddy that met a women and they have a very loving sucessful marriage after meeting her over the net while he was in iraq.On the other hand, i wonder just how many people have got to know someone intimately on the net, know all about them, their age, likes and dislikes, stastistics, inside leg measurements! and totally fall for that person, their voice, their attitude, their whole persona and yet when meet dont find that person phsically attractive?

What a bummer!

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 8:10 am

Far Rider wrote: I guess thats it then... you hit the nail on the head Abbey... lifes full of chances, take em or dont live life fully....

I gotta hand it to Honey, she had enough guts to do the meeting part!I did'nt realise that Honey had met Mr X on the net, i thought she already knew him.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 8:22 am

Aw Far, the Garden would'nt be the garden without you!

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.Where's he gone???

Honneykit · Post by **Honneykit** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 11:17 am

Ok guys and gals I never met Mx Before date and When I did nothing he had said to me was true. Where as i had tried hard to be as honest as poss even sending photos to him the ones he sent me were noy even him what did he expect from that.

Today he called asking if we could date again as i am so special I had to be quiet firm in the no chace ever in this life time not because of what he looked like but the fact he lied what is the point in lying you always get caught out if not straight away then later on!

Honneykit · Post by **Honneykit** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 11:28 am

chrisb84uk wrote: Well I'm sorry u had a bad date honney. I certainly would pay for any meals that I had on a date, oh and yes I am single and looking.

I know AC means well, but watch out for any little lies that he tells about me (unless they make me look good of course! :wah: )

We will have to have coffee (Oh and i will pay) :yh_coffee

cars · Post by **cars** » Tue Sep 27, 2005 11:29 am

Accountable wrote:

Say it ain't so!!

IT AIN'T SO!!! (But I just lied):-2

chrisb84uk · Post by **chrisb84uk** » Wed Sep 28, 2005 1:49 am

Honneykit wrote: We will have to have coffee (Oh and i will pay) :yh_coffee

Ah that's very kind of you.