Would You Cheat On YOur Partner?

goonerboy2001 · Post by **goonerboy2001** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 1:06 pm

Would you cheat on your other half if you thought you could get away with it?

...mmmm if natalie imbruglie offered it on a plate though id think twice:-4

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 1:07 pm

i never did. though he had no problem whatso ever. ..........that be why he is gone.....

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 1:09 pm

goonerboy2001;451632 wrote: Would you cheat on your other half if you thought you could get away with it?

...mmmm if natalie imbruglie offered it on a plate though id think twice:-4Nope. :yh_angel

Raven · Post by **Raven** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 1:10 pm

Never. Not now, not ever. The grass is just fine on my side of the fence! :-4

goonerboy2001 · Post by **goonerboy2001** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 1:12 pm

Pinky;451636 wrote: Does it count as cheating if you's split for a few months and then got back together again? If so then...Oops

If not, then it's water under the bridge.

thats not cheating thats just keeping your hand in!!!!!:guitarist

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 1:13 pm

never in a million years.

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 1:17 pm

never say never. that usually ends up being the thing you end up doing sometime in life. you never can tell about circumstances and stuff. i have a friend who is married to a paraplegic. he has been that way for five years now. i know for a fact she goes out and gets her needs met, but she still love her husband and will not leave him.

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 1:25 pm

To be honest, I think that if most men thought they could have a one night stand with a woman they were very very attracted to, and then completely get away with it, with no comeback ever, then they would be very tempted over the course of say a 40 year marraige. Not every man would, but a lot would, I kind think a lot more women would too, but they would never admit it, so there is no point in even asking. Its not a real question anyway, because such things are never happen.

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 1:56 pm

if i had a chance with paul weller i hope my partner would understand !!

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:02 pm

Great question GBoy

I'm such an honest and straightforward person that I'd probably do myself in if I ever cheated!

But 'never say never' is very true: When I was in my first marriage, my husband barely paid any attention to me. I found I was very susceptible to attention and compliments from other men because of that.

I firmly believe that, had I stayed in the marriage, I *could* have eventually strayed.

I'm glad I got out of the marriage, as it was not the right marriage for me to be in.

But for those who stay . . .

temptation and attention can make a dangerous combination :guitarist

zinkyusa · Post by **zinkyusa** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:04 pm

I think if given a healthy relationship with someone they love most men probably would not cheat. I think that is VERY rare though.

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:04 pm

cherandbuster;451706 wrote: Great question GBoy

I'm such an honest and straightforward person that I'd probably do myself in if I ever cheated!

But 'never say never' is very true: When I was in my first marriage, my husband barely paid any attention to me. I found I was very susceptible to attention and compliments from other men because of that.

I firmly believe that, had I stayed in the marriage, I *could* have eventually strayed.

I'm glad I got out of the marriage, as it was not the right marriage for me to be in.

But for those who stay . . .

temptation and attention can make a dangerous combination :guitarist

i agree cher. for six years my marriage was dead, buried, everything but the funeral. it was hard ot stand here and do right when he obviously didn't. if i had it to do over again, i might do it differently. the only person doing without was me.

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:05 pm

zinkyusa;451707 wrote: I think if given a healthy relationship with someone they love most men probably would not cheat. I think that is VERY rare though.

Hiya Z

But that's the loaded part of the question, isn't it?

A healthy relationship and a happy relationship and a sexual relationship aren't easy to maintain with the same person over the years

Would you guys agree? :-6

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:06 pm

zinkyusa;451707 wrote: I think if given a healthy relationship with someone they love most men probably would not cheat. I think that is VERY rare though.

women are just a prone to looking for what is missing.

the old saying goes; when intimacy leaves the bedroom, it usually winds up landing in someone else's.

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:08 pm

cherandbuster;451709 wrote: Hiya Z

But that's the loaded part of the question, isn't it?

A healthy relationship and a happy relationship and a sexual relationship aren't easy to maintain with the same person over the years

Would you guys agree? :-6

i agree. it takes two people willing to give what it takes to keep it together. all it takes is one of them to drop the ball and the relaitonship crumbles.

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:10 pm

guppy;451714 wrote: i agree. it takes two people willing to give what it takes to keep it together. all it takes is one of them to drop the ball and the relaitonship crumbles.

And Gupster

Sometimes it crumbles on its own -- feelings change and people don't always grow in the same direction.

I would think that, if either a man or woman was in this kind of marriage, he or she would be *very* susceptible to fooling around. How exciting it must feel to desire someone and be desired by someone! It's very, very exciting, I would think.

It's a slippery slope, isn't it? :-6

koan · Post by **koan** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:12 pm

here's an add on question:

is sex with yourself cheating?

some people think so.

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:13 pm

cherandbuster;451719 wrote: And Gupster

Sometimes it crumbles on its own -- feelings change and people don't always grow in the same direction.

I would think that, if either a man or woman was in this kind of marriage, he or she would be *very* susceptible to fooling around. How exciting it must feel to desire someone and be desired by someone! It's very, very exciting, I would think.

It's a slippery slope, isn't it? :-6

very true cher.

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:14 pm

koan;451721 wrote: here's an add on question:

is sex with yourself cheating?

some people think so.

dont ask a mormon that guestion. the answer is a ver loud YES.....:-5

goonerboy2001 · Post by **goonerboy2001** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:20 pm

guppy;451725 wrote: dont ask a mormon that guestion. the answer is a ver loud YES.....:-5

i always put a pillow over my face when i make love to myself:p

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:22 pm

goonerboy2001;451737 wrote: i always put a pillow over my face when i make love to myself:p

:wah: :wah:

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:23 pm

If sex with yourself is cheating, who are you cheating on?, and with whom are you cheating , eh?

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:24 pm

i dont think you are cheating at all. it's called staying in a good mood......

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:26 pm

I've been with my husband for almost 13 years and I've been completely and totally faithfull to him...I can't imagine cheating on him but like everyone else has said, you never know what life will throw at you.

goonerboy2001 · Post by **goonerboy2001** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:27 pm

Galbally;451748 wrote: If sex with yourself is cheating, who are you cheating on?, and with whom are you cheating , eh?

it depends if you are schizophrenic:-2

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:31 pm

goonerboy2001;451753 wrote: it depends if you are schizophrenic:-2

:wah: :wah: :wah: you would never trust yourself then would ya????

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:31 pm

i dont think paul weller would be cheating, he's a god !!

goonerboy2001 · Post by **goonerboy2001** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:35 pm

buttercup;451764 wrote: i dont think paul weller would be cheating, he's a god !!

or lassie, he's a dog:o

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:39 pm

goonerboy2001;451753 wrote: it depends if you are schizophrenic:-2

Yes, I told all the other galbally's that we weren't a schizophrenic, but they told me not to listen to the voices in my head, that just made me (them) more confused.

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:42 pm

koan;451721 wrote: here's an add on question:

is sex with yourself cheating?

some people think so.

If my religion found this unacceptable

I'd change religions :guitarist

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:44 pm

cherandbuster;451781 wrote: If my religion found this unacceptable

I'd change religions :guitarist

me too, in a nat's ass.

goonerboy2001 · Post by **goonerboy2001** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:45 pm

guppy;451787 wrote: me too, in a nat's ass.

im in on that one too:rolleyes:

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:45 pm

guppy;451787 wrote: me too, in a gnat's ass.

*gets a very strange visual*

:p

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:54 pm

is flirting online considered cheating?

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:55 pm

buttercup;451803 wrote: is flirting online considered cheating?

I don't consider the kind of flirting that I do as cheating.

It's harmless and lots of fun.

But *where* is the line drawn? :-3

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:57 pm

seems like people have very different opinions on what they consider cheating....

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 3:01 pm

cherandbuster;451805 wrote: I don't consider the kind of flirting that I do as cheating.

It's harmless and lots of fun.

But *where* is the line drawn? :-3

for me its listening to arnold layne's voice more than once

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 3:02 pm

buttercup;451815 wrote: for me its listening to arnold layne's voice more than once

For me it's when I repeatedly imagine I'm fondling Clancy's luscious arse :p :-4

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 3:04 pm

:wah:

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 3:47 pm

cherandbuster;451781 wrote: If my religion found this unacceptable

I'd change religions :guitarist

As you know dear I am a catholic and as far as sex goes I don't think anything is allowed, though it is admitted somewhere that sex does unfortunatly occur from time to time in various locations around the world, the upside is that catholics also tend not to worry too much about such rules in regards to their own lives only to others', and of course if you are sorry that you have been naughty, god doesn't mind too much.

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 4:02 pm

Pinky;451636 wrote: Does it count as cheating if you's split for a few months and then got back together again? If so then...Oops

If not, then it's water under the bridge.

oh pinks you done that too

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 4:10 pm

Pinky;451856 wrote: Yup:-3

Glad it's not just me though.

I was pretty nuts about the guy, so it's not as if I just went off and became a total slapper or anything:o

neither was i

i was used

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 4:15 pm

Pinky;451861 wrote: Aw!!! Poor jimbo.

So was I - bastard - but it was fun before I found out he had a girlfriend:rolleyes:

erm pinky er oh i wont even ask

:sneaky:

was three a crowd