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hello..there are many chat rooms on the internet.... i hope you'll stay here and see how you enjoy it...welcome!
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Hello haylomama...Why not give FG a try? There's lots of very insightful and kind people here...You may be pleasantly surprised... :yh_peace
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~Darrel Worley~
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Bullet's trial was a farce. Can I get an AMEN?????
We won't be punished for our sins, but BY them.
~Darrel Worley~
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Bullet's trial was a farce. Can I get an AMEN?????
We won't be punished for our sins, but BY them.
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ForumGarden doesn't have a chatroom yet, but who knows what is in the future. The forums are pretty active. Welcome to the garden 
Hang around and give it a chance.
Hang around and give it a chance.hello
haylo_mama wrote: I need a place to talk when I get in this way and a live chat some times helps
would you like to share what the difficulty is? this place is pretty much in real time, not always, but compassionate people here.
would you like to share what the difficulty is? this place is pretty much in real time, not always, but compassionate people here.
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haylo_mama wrote: 
i just feel lost and very alone right now and I have no where to turn to and need help asap
may i ask what country you are in? and tell us a little more about why you are feeling this way. so perhaps someone here can help.
i just feel lost and very alone right now and I have no where to turn to and need help asapmay i ask what country you are in? and tell us a little more about why you are feeling this way. so perhaps someone here can help.
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haylo_mama wrote: my husband left and I just got so down I can't seem to get back on my feet and my new job really sucks and I'm haveing a hard time thinking on the job and my kids not helping matter much
i am sorry for your troubles, are your children very young? how long has it been since your husband left? does he help with the children? it sounds like you feel overwhelmed.
i am sorry for your troubles, are your children very young? how long has it been since your husband left? does he help with the children? it sounds like you feel overwhelmed.
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you do sound like you have too much on your plate...i would think the children could lend you a hand with all the chores? what kind of job do you have? not liking your job is no help either. do you talk to your husband at all?
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Why, when you have a 16 and a 19 year old, are you doing all the house work and taking out the trash and taking care of your grandbaby?? What do you do for a living?
[FONT=Arial Black]I hope you cherish this sweet way of life, and I hope you know that it comes with a price.
~Darrel Worley~
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Bullet's trial was a farce. Can I get an AMEN?????
We won't be punished for our sins, but BY them.
~Darrel Worley~
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Bullet's trial was a farce. Can I get an AMEN?????
We won't be punished for our sins, but BY them.
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Sounds like you need to learn to say NO. Why are you watching the grandchild? Why can't your youngest not ride the bus? How long ago did your husband leave? Does he provide child support? Have you tried looking for a job you'd like better? Can the kids stay with your husband a few days to give you a break?
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First girl get yourself to the doctor to get your health up to stuff. The Dr can also suggest places to go for support.
And all the other advise is grand, reach out for help don't do this all alone. Trust me been there done that. Then get into a new job and DON"T GIVE UP>
And all the other advise is grand, reach out for help don't do this all alone. Trust me been there done that. Then get into a new job and DON"T GIVE UP>
�You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.�
• Mae West
• Mae West
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Hello, mind if I join the discussion?
haylo I went thru much the same thing and I know it's hard. What helped me and I know this seems like a little thing but it worked for me, to just keep reminding yourself that your not alone, a lot of people have been thru it and you will survive and your life will get better. Nothing last forever not even troubles. Good things will happen to you again. just don't give up and don't ever let yourself be overwhelmed. you will make it
haylo I went thru much the same thing and I know it's hard. What helped me and I know this seems like a little thing but it worked for me, to just keep reminding yourself that your not alone, a lot of people have been thru it and you will survive and your life will get better. Nothing last forever not even troubles. Good things will happen to you again. just don't give up and don't ever let yourself be overwhelmed. you will make it
GOD CREATED MAN AND SAM COLT MADE THEM EQUAL
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haylo_mama wrote: over whelmed is not the word for it my kids are16 and 19 and i got to do it all work keep house take out the trash take my youngest to shool watch my grand baby work and have no time to think let alone help my self and getting more depress every day and can't get over it
Hi haylo_mama, what you're having to do make's Me depressed......!
Thanks so much for posting haylo_mama.
I need a kick in side!
Sometimes some of us get just too relaxed in a lifestyle that's NOT too bad, but by your posting, you bring back memories that many of us have. Just like what's happening to you.
I can see by your post that you're trying the best you can to be the mama you always were. Now you're in a different situation and it's really tough to become someone different then you were for years and years.
If I didn't come here and post today, I would be very remiss in NOT saying that there are a whole of women who are probably in the same situation. Today I have hand knitted three scarfs for abused women. They are so pretty. Not the scarfs, the women!
A kind and peaceful life is what you are looking for. Like
ALL of us.
I don't mean a beautiful house, a maid, beautiful clothes,
I mean you simply need rest. You need a place to be yourself, need the strength to go forward and just a few minutes to say, Thank you God. Thank you for helping me. Thank you God for hanging on to me when I couldn't go forward and walk.
IF you ask, Is there someone to help, other than an online forum, well yes there is.
there is a God, who is a GOOD God (He doesn't have a web site or a chat board) I think you're life will really change.
There are a whole lot of caring people on this forum... and I am sooooo glad you found us.
Your feelings of being overwhelmed are VERY normal.
I remember ........after having five kids...saying, "Please God, Let him sleep....It's just exhausted! Then I remember saying "If I ever become a millionaire, I'm going to get a baby sitter every single week for every mom who
doesn't have someone to help. Well...I'm a dreamer.
I never became a millionaire...but even today..I have so many young people come by and visit..it make's me feel
so good.
You are in my prayers..haylo_mama
Maybe we could start a Prayer thread here.
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mama
Hi haylo_mama, what you're having to do make's Me depressed......!
Thanks so much for posting haylo_mama.
I need a kick in side!
Sometimes some of us get just too relaxed in a lifestyle that's NOT too bad, but by your posting, you bring back memories that many of us have. Just like what's happening to you.
I can see by your post that you're trying the best you can to be the mama you always were. Now you're in a different situation and it's really tough to become someone different then you were for years and years.
If I didn't come here and post today, I would be very remiss in NOT saying that there are a whole of women who are probably in the same situation. Today I have hand knitted three scarfs for abused women. They are so pretty. Not the scarfs, the women!
A kind and peaceful life is what you are looking for. Like
ALL of us.
I don't mean a beautiful house, a maid, beautiful clothes,
I mean you simply need rest. You need a place to be yourself, need the strength to go forward and just a few minutes to say, Thank you God. Thank you for helping me. Thank you God for hanging on to me when I couldn't go forward and walk.
IF you ask, Is there someone to help, other than an online forum, well yes there is.
there is a God, who is a GOOD God (He doesn't have a web site or a chat board) I think you're life will really change.
There are a whole lot of caring people on this forum... and I am sooooo glad you found us.
Your feelings of being overwhelmed are VERY normal.
I remember ........after having five kids...saying, "Please God, Let him sleep....It's just exhausted! Then I remember saying "If I ever become a millionaire, I'm going to get a baby sitter every single week for every mom who
doesn't have someone to help. Well...I'm a dreamer.
I never became a millionaire...but even today..I have so many young people come by and visit..it make's me feel
so good.
You are in my prayers..haylo_mama
Maybe we could start a Prayer thread here.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxoo
mama
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LoveMama wrote:
You are in my prayers..haylo_mama
Maybe we could start a Prayer thread here.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxoo
mama
What a great lady. LoveMama, I think you're awesome. :yh_hugs
You are in my prayers..haylo_mama
Maybe we could start a Prayer thread here.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxoo
mama
What a great lady. LoveMama, I think you're awesome. :yh_hugs
[FONT=Arial Black]I hope you cherish this sweet way of life, and I hope you know that it comes with a price.
~Darrel Worley~
[/FONT]
Bullet's trial was a farce. Can I get an AMEN?????
We won't be punished for our sins, but BY them.
~Darrel Worley~
[/FONT]
Bullet's trial was a farce. Can I get an AMEN?????
We won't be punished for our sins, but BY them.
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BabyRider wrote: What a great lady. LoveMama, I think you're awesome. :yh_hugs
she IS awesome!........ i have a feeling that haylo_mama won't be back, she didn't quite get what she was looking for.( i haven't seen her return). she wanted some instant answers which we could not provide, and maybe didn't like the questions of why her essentially grown children weren't helping out.
she IS awesome!........ i have a feeling that haylo_mama won't be back, she didn't quite get what she was looking for.( i haven't seen her return). she wanted some instant answers which we could not provide, and maybe didn't like the questions of why her essentially grown children weren't helping out.