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samanthaguy

<t>for starters i would pass out!!!!:yh_rotfl then i would pay off all the bills and buy a house on the beach where my wonderful husband could fish all day if he wants, as long as he dosent have to work anymore...buy my mom a house next door...and set my kids up for life....i dont think i would ever ...

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<t>I see no reason what so ever to have an abortion, thats why we have adoption. There are many many loving couples who cant have children and someone who was just having fun gets pregnant throws away someone elese dream. Having and abortion is murder any way you look at it. If you dont want a child ...

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<t>I understand you issue with paying taxes for people who are in jail, but most people who get the death penalty die in jail before it is ever carried out. I just dont feel like whatever the reason no one should take anothers life, it gives new meaning to the saying 2 wrongs dont make a right ...

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how can homicide be anything other than homicide, who really has the power to decide whrn it is time to take anothers life?

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<t>I sorta look at it like this, just for names sake say.... bob kills john and goes to trial in bobs own mind some way some how he felt he was doing the right thing by killing john, he is sentenced to death. ralph the man who carries out capital punishment kills bob, b/c the system felt they were ...

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What are you thoughts on capital punishment? Are you for it or aginst it?

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<t>welcome you have come to the right place. You say you have unresolved issues the best advice is pick them apart one by one and solve them one at a time. Second, you need friends, family, someone, im not an expert but i dont believe depression can be beat with meds alone. You need a kind word, a ...

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<t>My husband often says the same thing, he dosent seem to find any famous women attractive, but i know, all men find someone else attractive, im sure you find someone else attractive, right? As for self torture and abuse, i think medical help is a great idea. There are many programs that can help ...

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O k I havent been paying too much attention to the michael jackson case but suddenly it has caught my intrest. I was wondering what you all think of the case? Is he guilty? Im pretty undecided since I havent been paying much attention. Just curious!

samanthaguy

sorry to hear, you can really only count on yourself and most of the time your spouse, let em go. settel in and be happy.. these days people dont know what friendship is anymore,just a word, hope you have better luck. there are still a few good people out there youll find one soon good luck

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<t>For me I am blessed to have met my husbands grandfather (papa). He was the most caring, funny, loving person, god rest his soul. He was always there for my husband and I when we were younger and stupid, he would give the shirt off his back. what i wouldnt give for him to be alive again. he was ...

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<t>One thing i have learned in life is that you dont get anything for free, if you love him fight for what you want. you cant expect to tell a man one time and expect it to change. You 2 have only been together 4 years and you're still getting used to eachother, trust me, ive been married 6 years ...

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<t>Bare with me this is sort of off topic but my husband and i have been married 6 years and have 3 kids, we have worked very hard for what we have, about to buy a house. A couple of months ago we let my brother in law and his girlfriend live with us until they could get on their feet with the deal ...

samanthaguy

Hi Angie, welcome, the garden is great, youll love it here. The people and advice are great.

samanthaguy

Your religon is yours, tell the world hold your head high and be proud.. do not let anyone decide that for you, it is your choice....

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<t>I guess by now its time for me to search for my place so to speak, as far as religon is concerned.. ive always avoided the religon conversation b/c im not really sure what i believe.. I was raised in a baptist church, but i would like to explore other religons and see where i belong. Does anyoe ...

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<t>Koan, you are a very strong person, ifeel terrible for you to have had to go through this, sometimes there a centers for abused women, the one in my city is called safe homes rape cricis center for women.. they do a number of difrent programs... If you cant find one of those you can always vent ...

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<t>Paula wrote: She Needs Your Support, Hugs Daily and Kisses as Needed, i assure you she will change! These are vitamins the HEART needs, that only people can provide no pill form just PHYSICAL. I agree, if you love this woman stick by her no matter what, thats part of being with someone,she has a ...

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<t>Thank you all so much, your advice has really helped me to realize how stupid it was for me to hold on to this for so long... starting today im letting go....youll never know how much of a weight that has been lifted, its amazing how people you dont even know will go out of their way to help and ...

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Hi, good to meet you, you have found a very wonderful place and alot of wonderful to go along with it, as far as you loss, this is the best place to get your feelings out and talk youll get alot of great advice here, i know i have

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thanks guys for all of your advice, i plan to take the proper steps to resolve this problem, btw does anybody know how to erase a thread, jut in case it might be better if this wasnt plastered all over the internet THANKS AGAIN

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<t>Angel eyes, you are such a wonderful person... you know that, and you also know that not all of your family talkes bad about him but the truth is the truth.. youll get alot of good avice here, hey they helped me i thought i would never get over my issue but im doing it, can you believe it im a ...

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<t>Bill Sikes wrote: Perhaps she wants to lose any weight she gained through pregnancy a bit quicker? That's about the only thing I can think of... as for being "sick", do you drink cow's milk? I myself have had 3 kids and weigh 105 without breastfeeding a dog. As for drinking cows milk i do but not ...

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<t>Asyou may know from my other thread help asap my life is falling apart at the seams. Now i have another prob. I have 2 sons one 3 and the other 4 about a month ago they had a friend sleep over and we had an issue... my oldest alex informed me that his friend was licking his private and bit him ...

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<t>My neighbors are pretty nice the one on the left is an older lady, her daughter and her granddaughter. They bring over baked goods all the time, and they love my kids, they are very helpful. The ones across the street, i havent met the parents but the kids are pretty cool we've lived here for a ...

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<t>When I Say Raise Your Spouse I Mean Have Enough Fight In You To Help Them Learn New Ways To Deal Otherthan The Way They Were Raised.. My Husbands Mother Was Married 5 Times And Every Man Beat Him And His 2 Brothers And Virbaly Abused Their Mom, At 16 He Was Sent To Live With His Grandparents ...

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JUST REMEMBER THIS IS YOUR WEDDING DAY, YOU MAKE THIS DAY THE WAY YOU AND TIM WANT IT. YOUR MOTHER OF ALL PEOPLE SHOULD UNDRSTAND THAT.. DONT LET ANYONE SPOIL THIS FOR YOU... GOOD LUCK AND CONGRATS

samanthaguy

<t>I BELIEVE THAT ABUSE IS A LEARNED TRAIT AND IT CAN BE CORRECTED IF YOU WANT TO RAISE YOUR SPOUSE... MY HUSBAND WAS A VERBAL ABUSER AND I SPENT MOST OF OUR FIRST 5 YEARS CRYING. I HAVE ALSO BEEN IN A PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE SITUATION AND LET ME TELL YOU VERBAL HURTS JUST AS BAD.. UNLIKE THESE OTHER ...

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MINE WAS FINDING OUT THAT MY HUSBAND HAD CHEATED ON ME NOT ONCE BUT TWICE 2004 IS NOT A YEAR TO REMEMBER....

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<t>First Off You Are Not A Bad Parent If You Are Doing Everything You Can, Nobody Is Born Knowing How To Do This, Im Only 22 And Have 3 Kids Ages 1,3,4. And Trust Me On My Best Day I Dont Know What Im Doing, But I Am A Firm Believer That If You Try You Will Never Fail, If You Give It 110. Age Has ...

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<t>Have You Ever Thought About A.d.d.? Mybrother Is A.d.d. And He Did Alot Of The Same Things. Hes 13 Now And Getting Alot Better. Does A.d.d. Run In Your Family? My Husband Is A.d.d. And Im Almost Con Vinced That My Son Is Too But Its Hard To Tell Until They Get In School The Good Thing Is If You ...

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<t>I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE, I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH!!!!!! MY SON IS 3 AND THERE ARE DAYS I COULD KILL HIM. HE DOSENT POOP IN HIS BED BUT JUST RECENTLY STOPPED POOPING IN HIS PANTS. IT TOOK US A YEAR TO POTTY TRAIN HIM HE WOULD STAND IN THE LIVING ROOM FLOOR AND PEE AND THEN ...

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<t>I FEEL LIKE DEPRESSION CAN NOT BE OVERCOME WITH MEDS ALONE. YOU NEED PEOPLE WHO CARE ABOUT YOU AND WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH.. LOVE CAN HEAL ANYTHING.. I DONT KNOW ALOT ABOUT THIS SUBJECT BUT I DO KNOW WHEN I WAS GOING THROUGH POSTPARTOM DEPRESSION IT HELPED ME ALOT TO HAVE PEOPLE WHO LOVED ME ...

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<t>I Think Talking To Your Exes Is Good It Shows That You Are A Bigger Person Then One To Hold A Grudge, You Dont Have To Be Their Best Friend Just Civalized. One Of My Exes Was My Best Friend For 8 Years Until He Got Married And His Wife Felt Threatned B/c I Was A Woman And We Got Along Better Than ...

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That's Sick Why Would You Brest Feed A Dog, How Does That Bring The Puppy Closer To The Child When The Child Dosent Even Brestfeed,and She Didnt Want To Waste It ,in A Week Or So It Would Have Dried Up Anyway..... Shes Not The Brightest Bulb In The Box Thats For Sure....

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i found a web site you should look into www.parentswithoutpartners.org check it out good luck

samanthaguy

<r>WOW!!!!!! FIRST OFF MY MOM WAS A FULLTIME SINGLE MOTHER AND BREAD WINNER AND MANAGED TO FIND TIME TO GET MARRIED 5 TIMES. YOU SHOULD HAVE NEVER GOTTEN YOURSELF IN THIS SITUATION ( HINDSIGHT IS ALWAYS 20/20) YOU SHOULD DROP THEM BOTH LIKE A BAD HABIT, SHES USED TO FREEDOM SO IF SHE LEAVES HER ...

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<t>IM NOT SURE WHAT MEN WANT, MOST MEN CHANGE LIKE THE WEATHER. IM PRETTY SURE THEY ALL WANT A FAMILY AT SOME POINT BUT NOT RIGHT AWAY. THE ISSUE OF ACTING LIKE CHILDREN STILL LINGERS AT HAND. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 6 YEARS AND IT TOOK THAT LONG FOR MY HUSBAND TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO DO THE FAMILY ...

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<t>I KNOW BEING A MOM YOU ARE CONCERNED BUT YOUR DAUGHTER SEEMS TO LIVE A NORMAL LIFE WITH HER CONDITION. IM SURE ALL SHE WANTS IS TO BE NORMAL.21 IS THE SEXUAL PEAK AGE ( IM 22) THE BEST THING TO DO IS TALK TO HER ABOUT PROTECTION AND TELL HER SHES SMART AND YOU TRUST SHE WILL MAKE THE RIGHT ...

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<t>this is great advice but i have already talked to both of these girls they both denied the fact to begin with and 8 months later one confessed but claimed he scared her into doing it... the brothers girlfriend hasent confessed she swares that he only said he cheated to make me mad for cheating ...

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<t>:-5 KayKay wrote: I have four adult daughters and three out of four of them continually are in conflict with me. I am not understanding how this could happen as I was a dedicated, stay-at-home mother and now it seems that for everything that goes wrong in their lives, they have me to blame. It is ...

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IN MY SIX YEARS Of BEING IN THE REAL WORLD I HAVE LEARNED the only person who is your true friend is your spouse and kids thats where all of your energy should be. people tend to get jelous of what you have and try to distroy it or take it

samanthaguy

You Guys Are So Great!!!!!!!!!!! I Havent Had Any One To Talk To Since He Slept With The Only 2 Friends I Had. I Wish I Had Found Yall Sooner

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<t>>>^..^ I think the two of you need some family counselling. Sit down together with a professional that can help you talk out your feelings about betrayal and guilt ~ a third party can help you keep to the real issues and not get on to other topics and escalate the problems...<br/>
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<t>YOU NEED TO STOP AND THINK FOR A SECOND ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL I HAVE BEEN IN THIS SITUATION AND WOULDNT WISH THAT FEELING ON ANYONE. THE HECK WITH WHAT SHE KNOWS OR WHAT ANYONE THINKS YOU NEED TO TELL HER. I DID IT AND I WAS THE BAD GUY AND YOU WILL BE TOO BUT YOU WILL FEEL MUCH BETTER........I HAVE ...

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<t>Hi My Name Is Samantha And I Am 22. I Have 3 Kids And Have Been Married For 6 Years. About 4 Years Ago I Made A Mistake And Was Unfaitful. I Kept This Secret For 4 Years And Boy Did I Torture Myself With It. About 8 Months Ago I Couldnt Keep It Any Longer So I Sat My Husband Down And Told Him The ...

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<t>I Dont Think You Should Do It . Sex Is Very Powerful. If You Do Go For It And Its Not What You Expect What Then? You Said You And This Guy Were Friends And Most Of The Time Sex With Friends Dosent Work. Or Think About It This Way, What If You Fall In Love With Him And He Has No Feelings For You ...

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